Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?
195%
Yes
- Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"If you're not involved in their life, it's not that serious." - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"Again, depends on the circumstances." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"What reason is there to flirt with someone else?" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"That's disrespectful" - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"He has enough time when I'm not around to do that" - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Now I hate his guts." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"He is now part of my life so that is important." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"I have gotten upset, but I'm sure I do it too. Try to respect." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"It's just rude I'll do it to him and see how he feels." - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"If it were intentional. I'm also used to hogging the attention so I will admit I wouldn't enjoy it." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Not very respectful of them" - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"Depends on their behavior together and the nature of their past relationship." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"To be honest, I'm not really sure..maybe. " - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"Depends on their personality, if it's in a joking fashion then no. " - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Depends on how much. " - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"Depends if his flirting was to benefit both of us..." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"A selfish, careless move." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"If I don't, how will I know YOU will!?" - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"I would be a hypocrite if I didn't." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Love to love." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Yea- not a fan of that." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"It takes me a little while, but if I'm seeing a friendship growing easily I will make the move. ;)" - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"Why not!!! It's 2012!!! If you see something and don't go after it then you'll never know." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"I'll ask...or at least make it very clear I would say yes." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Currently." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"When you've been together for long enough, those things seem just as important and other things." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"I don't like to play games." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"It would be hard to be okay with, but if I love the guy, then I'd have to learn to be okay with it." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"I am in love as I type." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"I think it's disrespectful and rude" - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Yes" - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"Under curtain circumstances, I would be okay with it." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"Too many times..." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Twice, I guess." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"My first, young, innocent, not complicated. Free love." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"I'd like to think so, but maybe not for the right reasons" - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Deeply" - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Currently in love!" - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"Great feeling." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Or at least I thought I have been." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"I fall easily." - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"More times than I care to admit." - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"Or at least I thought so..." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"And I never wanna go back!" - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"If they're friends and we're friendly before we started dating, yes." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"I would want to know the same. It's sharing life together." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Depends on the level of flirting and with whom they were flirting. Maybe not upset but not happy " - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"Yes, the important stuff. " - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"It would be hard though" - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Twice" - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"It is nice to be with someone who cares about the day-to-day" - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"How could you not be?" - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"Who wouldn't?" - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"If you like someone enough, why not?" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Why not you never know unless you ask" - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"Sure. I'm not too shy." - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"Why not?" - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"But, men usually get scared away." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Yeah, it's a way to be connected." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"A couple of times" - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"He'd better be prepared to get it back times a million." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"It's dangerous and really fun!" - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"I'm an old fashioned girl." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
":)" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"Of course, it was wonderful" - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"It depends. If it gets us free drinks, then no." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"It's not like they are sleeping together...unless" - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"That's just rude. If he's doing it in front of me what is he doing when I'm not there?" - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"It's different every time in a wonderful kind of way! <3" - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"I think it happens naturally. You become best friends and lovers." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Only if I know they feel the same way." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Only if she were uglyyyyy." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Only like a million times." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"He's my partner in life; he should know the details!" - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Yes, just from the perspective that it allows you to connect regularly." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Depends on who she is. " - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"I used to let it happen but now I know better. That's so disrespectful." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"If it was intentional, yes. If my S.O. just had a flirty personality (as I do), then no. " - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"Hands down it's disrespectful...no tolerance! " - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"There's never a reason for that to be okay. So disrespectful." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"It was nice while it lasted but having to do the long distance thing smashed it like a bug. " - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Depends on how intense it was but in general YES." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"He would never do that. That's just disrespectful." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Twice. Serious feelings." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Girls should never be afraid to ask a guy out." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"As a significant other, he should be your best friend." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Ideally, we would both share our day-to-day happenings with one another." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Yes, and vice-versa. I tell my partner everything, but wish he would share more." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I love easily." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Yes. And it's wonderful and terrifying at the same time." - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"Soulmate status" - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Doesn't always last forever." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"Twice...and I still love them both..." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"In it right now!" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"If it's important then they should know about it" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's insanely disrespectful to flirt with someone else like that" - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Love is a wonderful thing...the end all, be all goal of all of our souls. " - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"But I would have to feel comfortable with that person." - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"At this very moment, my friends" - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"It really depends on who my SO is and what his history with his ex is." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"I actually have been. His ex-wife! It was obvious they were just old family friends. " - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Again, this depends on each person and situation. My ex and I ended up like brother & sister." - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"If there's a reason, but otherwise, is it really necessary?" - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"If you have never been in love you need to ask yourself why." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Well not alone but as long as it was innocent. " - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"I wouldn't do it in those exact words but I definitely will hint around to it. " - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"That's disrespectful and just plain stupid. In front of me!" - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"We should be sharing most of our lives." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"They become your other half and want to be filled in on whatever you do" - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"A few times." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It happens. People flirt intentionally " - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"But I feel the best is yet to come." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"It's the most wonderful thing next to new shoes and triple orgasms..."
124%
No
- Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"That's just the unwritten rule" - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"Harmless flirting keeps things interesting." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"If you give a mouse a cookie..." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Nah, as long as it's light and not excessive." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Just no. That's against the rules." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Rules are rules" - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"A little bit is okay but not intentionally to spite one another is unhealthy." - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"Bad idea all around." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"Not into sloppy seconds..." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Nasty." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"That's gross and I don't do leftovers! Too many available men out there for that! " - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Just not right imho" - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Completely off limits. I value friendship." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Not worth it" - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"If he doens't have the gumption to ask me, then he's probably not worth my time." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"What's the point? There are so many other people out there that it's not worth tainting a friendship" - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"There are plenty of better fish in the sea. Branch out!" - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
" Maybe. I would probably ask them out as friends first. Ironically, I'm old-fashioned this way." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Probably not" - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Never ever. No matter what they say-- no it's not okay." - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"A little harmless flirting never hurt anyone" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"I hate making the first move" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Nope, unless I'm inviting someone to come out with a group" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"I don't care what you say, you never stay friends with an ex. Seriously, think about it." - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Keep a little mystery and remember, you are still 2 individuals!" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
""It's like, the rules of feminism," as Gretchen Weiners would say" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"But I would play the game too and get a little flirting in as well" - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"If you have free time, I'm hoping you'll want to spend it with me." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Love really is more than just being physically attracted to someone." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"I hope to be with someone outgoing and friendly, but I also hope he respects me enough to not push it." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"We've been together long enough that no ex is that important." - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"Say no to sloppy seconds" - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"I'm a traditional kinda gal sometimes" - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"I better be there. It's just weird and suspicious otherwise." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I think it would be reassuring to be reminded that he could be with someone else, but he's with me. " - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"Off limits." - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"A really hot girl flirted with my ex, and he was so flattered, it was adorable." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"If I'm comfortable with him and our relationship I shouldn't be." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"I let things happen." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"I'm the jealous type." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"He may as well be missing genitals." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"That's like having another job, when do I get some time???" - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"I'm confident enough to know whose #1" - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"My friends only date losers." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Only if it crossed the line. Innocent flirting is a way of life." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Unacceptable." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"I'm not THAT shallow." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"It's never gotten to that point, but maybe someday I will." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"But I should! Even if I were rejected it's better than not risking it and not knowing how he feels." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"I play hard to get..." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"One of the benefits of being a woman... we don't have to!" - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"No they ask me out." - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"Cause I don't know her" - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"That time should be spent with me! A LOT? A little is okay." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Why are they spending "a lot" of time together. And why is he not spending that time with me?" - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"If we were all friends and hung out together, especially if it was a lot of time..." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Exes are a part of your past for a reson, leave them there" - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Not cool." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"I loved deeply but can't say I've been in love. Yet" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I don't like that..." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"Never, not cool at all" - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Not a good idea. Period." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Flirting's okay. More than flirting? Not okay." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"That would only lead to trouble." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Has to be a reason why she is an ex." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Sound like my ex has nothing better to do." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Don't do left overs." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"To be honest, I haven't really had to. They either asked me or I found out they weren't interested." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"Sometimes initial physical attraction is misleading and deeper attraction comes with personality." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I'm a little more old fashioned I prefer to be asked out" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I dont love the idea" - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's just too weird."
3%
Just call the repairman
- Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"Oh, yes." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"What goes around, comes around ;)"