In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?
54%
Yes
- Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"I think it helps to establish trust in the beginning. But not if there is pressure to report..." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Would hate to pass up an opportunity for a meaningful connection." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's silly to deny it, even if it ended in tears." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Eventually after I've set the plans in motion with flirting" - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"A hem! No flirting with extra women." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"I'm in love." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Are you kidding me!? Hell yes!" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Several times, and each time felt different/better." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Listen, once you have a sig other, the ex should be out of the picture 99% of the time." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Or I give big social hints/clues and flirt so they ask me out." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"As long as there's no separate agenda and I could be including in the hang-outs, I'd be cool." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I look forward to the next time." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I considerate it very rude." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"We are in the year 2011, right?" - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"No fear!" - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's important to keep in communication" - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Disrespectful." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Still hurts." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Glad to say so." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"If I weren't there would be bigger issues to tackle." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"If you flirt in front of me, you are FIRED immediately!" - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Puppy, teenage love is a beautiful but dangerous thing." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"If I don't go for it, who will?" - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"To a certain extent...he doesn't need to know what I ate for lunch, etc..." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"It's nice." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"Why the fuck would they?" - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Disrespectful act." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
" I don't think there should be things you can't share but you don't have to share it all." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Obviously. Cuz u wanna spend time together." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"I am confident enough. He shouldn't want to chill with them." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I'm in love right now." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Oh, you mean in real life?"
39%
No
- Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"If it comes up, it comes up, but we always recap our days when we see each other at night." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"A little is fine, but not a lot " - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"It's a dangerous friendship." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Honesty!" - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"But I will give them opportunities to ask me. ;)" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's just way too awkward" - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Depends really though. There's innocent flirting and the other kind." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I've never chased." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"If it's over, it's over." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Never break the golden gf rule unless you've spoken with them about it." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"If he's a man, he can do it." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Someday my prince will come?" - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's rare that I actually notice or take interest in the opposite sex. You have to catch my eye." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"That's a dating no-no." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"It's a rule. Simple." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Never done it, but I assume it would be awkward and might hurt feelings." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"You've had sex. " - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I won't go so far as to ask them out, however I will do my best to get them to ask me out!" - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Please...go back to high school." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"If it's only occasionally, I kind of like that he makes me a bit jealous" - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Once they've dated my friend/sister - they are a NO FLY ZONE." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Maybe you shouldn't have broken up." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Only when it could potentially affect other person or plans that you've made together. "
56%
Some
- Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Important to communicate about important stuff. But no need getting into every detail" - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"It's always something to talk about, but hopefully your day was somewhat interesting" - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Things that are significant, but not every single mundane detail. No one cares." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"I think it's a balance of sharing your lives with each other but you shouldn't feel over obligated." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's nice to talk and keep each other informed" - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"I don't want my guy to get bored." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"For the most part" - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"I think it's important to keep them in the loop but not bore them with everything." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"The question is who wants to know your every move you make anyway?? eeeww weird! " - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"It's nice to talk about what happened in each others day, but keep some mystery." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"I think it gives reassurance and comfort just to know." - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"The things he needs to know" - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"If we talk often, they will probably know." - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I believe in a bit of privacy. Only details that are important are out of the norm activities." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Everyone needs a little mystery." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Guys don't want to hear about every detail of a girl's daily life." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"It's a part of sharing everything with my significant other." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Too many details can sound boring, but both should be telling a story or two that highlights the day." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"That's how you become part of their life." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Depends on how long you've been together and the nature of the relationship" - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"He doesn't need to know the mundane details, but checking in is a good thing." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"More so if we live together so I'm not worried about where you are if you don't come home on time." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"I like to inquire on their day to day & inform them of mine to see if they might overlap somewhere." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"But there is something such as too informed!" - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"Not the minute details, but I think it's important to share what happened during your day." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"Leave out the gross stuff." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"You don't need to tell me the number of expense reports you did today, but you can. I'll listen." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"He doesn't need to know my every moment, but general info is ok" - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Only the interesting ones." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"Striking a balance is best." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"They don't need a blow by blow, but I do want them connected to what I have going on." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"These details will naturally be shared just by spending time together, no need for extra sharing." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"If he's interested."
2%
I don’t do serious relationships
- Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"I don't even like when my friends/family try tell me all their daily details."