Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?
13%
Sure, no problem.
- Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"What's in the past is there for a reason" - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"If you don't trust your significant other you can't have a solid, healthy relationship. " - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"THIS IS TOTALLY NORMAL. Two people can have dinner together. Get. Over. It." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"I want to trust my man enough to do what ever he wants even dinner with the ex. " - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"Trust is key, without it we would all go crazy!" - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Pretty amazing that they can be friends." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"I think it depends on each person. My ex & I have dinner w/ no problems, why shouldn't my partner?" - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I would hope that I'm confident enough in my relationship to be comfortable with that."
57%
Not thrilled, but go ahead.
- Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Gotta let them have their freedom." - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Trust is key, but I would be a bit upset" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I would not be happy" - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"That trust has to be there. (Also depends on the nature of their relationship.)" - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"I can't tell my BF what to do. All I can do is trust him." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"It depends on how long they dated, how serious it was and how long ago they broke up. " - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I'm not one to tell a guy what to do, but I will not be happy about it." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Naturally, I'd be on edge, but if I pick you I trust you. Insecurity isn't a good look." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Depends how they're relationship is.." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"I'm secure in all my assets to know he'll pick the obvious choice. And if he doesn't I don't want him." - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"I'll trust until given a reason not to." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"If I trust the guy, I'd let him go away with the ex, if I don't trust him, I'd be annoyed if he txtd." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"I would ask a MILLION questions before and after!! But since he asked instead of just doing, ok." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Have fun! But not too much." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"These can be murky waters. Step carefully!" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Depends..." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"I should be able to trust him. Besides, she's an ex for a reason." - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"It partly depends on their current relationship, but trust and security should be present." - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"They are an adult, I should be able to trust them." - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"This is always so awkward. " - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"Extremely suspicious!" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"This just happened to me a few weeks ago- Be very cautious to not hurt feelings." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"If there's no agenda (from either party), then I wouldn't mind." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Can't prohibit that. We're all adults." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"What goes around, comes around." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"If that's an issue, you have bigger issues..." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Life happens." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"You can go, I'll be out at that concert you'd love in that outfit you love." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"If I didn't trust my man to be with ANY girl, I wouldn't be with him - that's including ex gfs." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Why are you even meeting up?" - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"I trust you...until you give me reason not to." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Not up to me to tell you who you can and can't spend time with... just don't make it TOO much time." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Dinner once, fine. Dinner twice, I will whine." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"I won't say no, but you should refuse her invitation."
30%
No way!
- Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I'd personally tell her to go eff herself." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"It depends on how long the relationship lasted, but it's usually best to just not go down that road." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Hell no bitch. " - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"I wish I could say I'd be okay with this, but that's not realistic at all." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"What's the point of them going out to dinner?" - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"A chat on the phone will do - we broke up for a reason." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"The past is the past for a reason. No going back & re-living the old days." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"That is just unnecessary." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"If she's really his ex, I should either be invited along or he shouldn't go. Not appropriate." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"But I'd be happy to tag along." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Absolutely not." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"I would say hi to her. What's there to hide?" - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I would have "Not thrilled", but I probably would give him hell, which is almost like saying no way." - Tashyana Lowe-Chin, 0, from
"If I can't go alone then neither can he." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"Only one reason they would want to be alone. What's done, is done." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Shouldn't need to." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"What could they possibly have to talk about?" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"What on earth do they have to talk about? Nothing. Bye bye."