How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?
38%
After we've gone out a few times
- Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's just like any other date, I guess..." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Haven't done this one yet." - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"We must be comfortable with each other but nothing established." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Date to a wedding isn't too big of a deal. Plus I must really like you if we've been out a few times" - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"A wedding is a celebration; it doesn't have to be too serious." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"As long as he's a fun guy, I'll take him along. Booze, food, cake--weddings are fun!" - Monique Lewis, 31, from New York, NY
"It's not a big deal to me-if he wants to go, that's cool" - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"It can be a fun, casual date with a new person you are dating, or a fun date for a long relationship" - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"As long as he's a good dancer and won't be a sloppy drunk, he's good to go!" - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Weddings are always a guaranteed great time no matter who you bring!" - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"But if it's a family event, give it more time." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Actually, I don’t believe in this rule - when the time is appropriate you will know..."
47%
After we've been in a relationship for a few months
- Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Don't rush this one, but after a few months they would be offended if you didn't invite them." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I don’t rush those family occasions" - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"It's ok, really guys...doesn't mean we want you to take notes." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Depends on whose wedding. For a family members wedding we need to have been dating a while!" - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"After we've said we're bf and gf, sure." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Otherwise, who knows who you'll meet at a wedding?!" - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Weddings are serious" - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"You don't want to make the bride and groom pay big bucks for some guy that you just met." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Bringing a guy to a wedding can send some seriously effed up signals." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Weddings are NO BIG DEAL. " - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"I need to know this person pretty well before taking him anywhere near my family and friends" - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"It depends on who's getting married, what the situation is, where it is, etc." - Wendy Farley, 44, from Charleston, SC
"Three months minimum" - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"I think this is kind of a big deal..." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"People are going to remember him so he better be a good one"
0%
After we're living together
16%
We don't even need to have met
- Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"As long as you're o.k. asking" - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"I've taken a stranger before, and it was a blast!" - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"...as long as it's an open bar" - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"Why the hell not? Fun is fun. Just don't take it seriously. " - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Pick one up on the way over. It's a great first date."