In matters of heart a guy should be:
63%
Cool-headed
- Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"Be at ease and things just end up going at a nice flow." - Becca Schepps, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"Though you should never lack the ability to be passionate about love." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"But care." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"I'm emotional. He needs to be my rock and reality check." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"Relax, guy" - Aja Bernard, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"its very unattractive if a guy cant keep his cool." - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"I'm not a fan of bad tempersóleave the macho fights to Jersey Shore" - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"A cool-head allows him to think clearly about the situation." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Hot-blooded can be a bad trait at times." - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"Definitely should be cool and easy going." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"Hot-Blooded to me means scary and jealous and that is not cool with me so keep it cool brothas..." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"I love someone who can handle things without getting all worked up." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"Again, life is too short." - Jenna E, 32, from Davenport, IA
"A bad temper is a deal breaker for me." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Guys who are hot-blooded may not be thinking as rationally about the relationship as cool-headed men" - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"You need someone who can keep things in perspective, especially if you're hot-blooded." - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"Definitely say how you feel, but make certain first." - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"I'm most comfortable with easy-going and level-headed guys." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"This is tricky. You want someone who can be thoughtful in the end." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"I need someone to be my rock! So keep it cool and under control!" - Krissy P, 25, from NJ
"I think it's good to be a little bit of both." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Always calm, cool and collected, but always passionate about things he loves" - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Nobody likes someone who flies off the handle at every little thing." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"Be realistic that a relationship could work in the long run" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Its good to show you have self-control" - Miranda Elling, 32, from Chicago, IL
"If everyone were reasonable, there'd be less fighting." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"Tempers are not attractive" - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"Think, then react...problems happen any other way!" - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Love is Patient." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"Although hot-blooded may be ideal and passionate, a cool-headed guy is good for the long run." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"Just be ìcoolî" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"I don't like hot blooded EVER." - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"He should be in tap with his emotional side but know how to deal with situations logically" - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I'm hot-blooded enough for the both of us, methinks." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"I often need someone to reel me in. I know I'm unrealistic more often than not." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"It is so great to be laid back because life is too short to get all fired up" - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Guys should not be afraid to show a special woman that they are not so tough"
37%
Hot-blooded
- Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"I choose passion over calm, logical, boring mindset!" - Wendy Liu, 23, from Alhambra, CA
"He should always be pursuing her in some way." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Sometimes logical reasoning just gets in the way." - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"Passion is a must. The difference between a friend and a more-than is that you should be hot for me." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"I want to know you're human, but keep it in check, don't go all psycho." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"All is fair in love and war!" - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"With a good dose of thoughtfulness." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"In matters of the heart you will do crazy wonderful things that are not rational but need to be done" - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Being passionate is a good thing!" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"Hot is always better than cool" - Monique Lewis, 31, from New York, NY
"Be passionate and sincere" - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"Heat is good." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"You have to show some passion or the girl will become disinterested." - Priscilla Torres, 26, from New York, NY
"I like my man passionate" - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"The only way to be" - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"Keep the thinking in the office." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Passion is sexy - and a huge turn on." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"The hotter the better!" - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Passion is always a great quality but level-headedness is also an important factor" - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I like guys who are passionate about what they believe in" - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Passion baby!" - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"if you possibly can, be passionate and sensible."