My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?
69%
Yes.
- Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"We all love V-day and even if we don't want it to be a big deal we still want you to do SOMETHING." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"We women don't ever know what we want, so always go the safer route-at least get a box of chocolate." - Corey G, 25, from Chicago, IL
"You still need to recognize the fact the holiday is taking place." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Everyone wants to feel loved. You feel especially left out it nothing happens on Valentine's Day." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"We ALL care about V-Day!!! It's totally a trap! Do something romantic even if she says don't." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Even if she doesn't really care, ask her to be your Valentine. No gifts necessary." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"Everyone woman cares. Saying you don't care is just a way to feel better if you are a let down." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Even if she doesn't care, do something so she knows you notice, appreciate, and care about her." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"No girl wants to have a boring Valentine's Day, especially if her friends do something special." - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"99.9% of women do. I, fortunately, lie in the .1%." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Maybe not, but it sucks if you're in a relationship and NOTHING happens." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"Often women think they don't care, then the day comes & they're disappointed. Get a little something" - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"She may not care that much, but you should do something. Even if it's small and special." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Probably. Deep down we want the romance." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"Send her flowers anyway! No one hates getting flowers, do they?" - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"We all like to feel some love, Valentine's Day's a little lame but it's fun to expect a little extra" - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Duh. i mean, she may not care, but she still wants you to. hello!" - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"When a girl says that, at least get her flowers." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Even if she says she doesn't care, giving her a gift shows that you do care." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"99.9% of women care about Valentine's Day." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's always a trap!" - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"Even if it's true, she'll notice if you don't do or say SOMETHING." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"Probably. She is just trying not to set herself up for disappointment if you screw up." - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"Buy the damn flowers!" - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Yes and no. Honestly, I don't care much for it either, but that doesn't mean do NOTHING." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Usually women do care about it, even if they say they don't." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"What woman doesn't care about Valentine's Day and everything it means????" - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"At least get a teddy bear and candy..maybe flowers too..get SOMETHING!" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Every girl loves attention. Seriously. And some, like me, love it a LOT." - Elise Stiller, 36, from Seaford, NY
"Absolutely!" - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"Even if it's true, always get her something." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"She does at least a little." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"She has to care a little bit…so show a little bit of extra love." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Deep down she is most likely hoping for a romantic Valentine's Day surprise." - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Everyone wants some love on Valentine's Day!" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Unless you treat her special all the time, you better call a florist and make dinner plans." - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"Deep down inside every woman wants all the mushy stuff." - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"She probably doesn't want to put pressure on you, but she will likely appreciate a little effort." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"EVERY girl cares about V-Day." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Even if she doesn't you need to do something—flowers, chocolate, dinner…" - Regina Melzer, 32, from Los Angeles, CA
"Anytime you have an opportunity to show your love with a card or something thoughtful, do it!!" - Doris Parker, 27, from Springfield, MA
"Even if she doesn’t care, get her something sweet that lets her know you thought about her." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Some girls like to see guys go above and beyond…not me personally but others.." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Most likely. It's like if someone says they don't want to celebrate their birthday…they always do." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"TRAP! Translation: Be more creative than dinner and flowers!"
31%
No.
- Priscilla Torres, 26, from New York, NY
"Some girls aren’t into it. But, we also test you. So, just surprise her. Couldn’t hurt to be sweet." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"If she's lying about that, then you don't want to be with her anyway." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"She might not care, but she WILL appreciate you showing you care. Even if it's not extravagant." - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"Not necessarily. Your lady may not care. But odds are she cares a little." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"Some girls truly do think it's just as cheesy as you do." - Yisell Muxo, 35, from Miami, FL
"But be prepared….beware of Valentine Envy." - Nora Lahl, 31, from Milwaukee, WI
"Possibly. A small token is a good idea until you’re sure she’s cool." - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"It's probably not a trap, but you should still surprise with it least flowers." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Some people really don't like it." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"But find a way to show your appreciation for her anyway." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"If it is a trap, you need a new lady." - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"i personally don't care. I'm not wanting some GRAND night out, but a simple card or flowers will do." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"I don't like it either…but wouldn't mind if my special someone did something classy and personal." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Not all care about this Hallmark Holiday. Ask her what she would like to do. You're no mind-reader." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"You should at least get her a little something, like chocolate and flowers." - Aja Bernard, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"She's either just bitter, or you should look forward to a break up." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"Some people legitimately don't. Don't you know her??" - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"It's just another day." - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Still give her a card or ask her what she wants to do that day. go to a movie or bowling." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"What are you, 12? She wants to feel special. I doubt she cares what day it is."