If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?
60%
Separate
- Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"It depends on the parents' rules. At least you get to save your juices for when you're home!" - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"My parents are old fashioned, and I feel I have to respect their wishes." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"It at least shows the parents that you respect their wishes. Just assume to sleep in separate beds." - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"But in the same room." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Just out of respect." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"Even if we live together, as long as we are not married, we won't sleep in the same bed at my mom's." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"It's more fun to sneak back and forth." - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Though it depends on how long the relationship is. Yet you should be respectful." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"Unless your parents are ok with it." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Unless the parents are the one to insist, be the gentleman and sleep in separate beds." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"It's all about first impressions." - Corey G, 25, from Chicago, IL
"If you've never slept in the same bed before at the parents, it's probably a bad idea to start now." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"Don't disrespect the family. We can be together when we get home." - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"If the rules are... don't... then don't." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"My parents are uber-Catholic. Sorry!" - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"Just make sure you figure this out before we get there." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"It is just out of respect." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"It's a courtesy to the parents." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"Let's pretend to be good." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Give them the option of putting us in a room together." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Keep it old school." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"There will be SNEAKAGE." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Always be respectable to her parents." - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"It's a matter of respect. Plus, my father would NEVER go for it. It's been attempted before." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"My parents probably think I'm a lesbian because I've never had a boy to their house." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Unless we are married, it is separate beds out of respect." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"Just to show respect for the parents." - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"Prepare for seperate ones, unless Mom insists otherwise." - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"That's just how I do." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"You'll survive a couple of nights in seperate beds. Respect your elders. :)" - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"My dad's old fashion." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Out of respect. My dad still thinks I am 16." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Unless you've been dating over a year, or are engaged or married, separate rooms are respectful." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"Separate beds unless we live together/are engaged." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Most parents won't care, but to show respect that this isn't your home, offer to sleep separately." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"Depends on her parents, but show respect & don't suggest same bed - let her or them do that for you."
40%
Same
- Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"My folks happen to be cool." - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"Hey, whatever your parents are comfortable with. Their house." - Kelly Magsayo, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"As long as you don't try any hanky panky and we've been dating for a couple years..." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Obey the parents, but there's nothing wrong with waking up early to go to your 'separate' bed." - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"It's not after the prom. We're adults, we can act like it, true?" - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"If my parents know we're sleeping together, just go for the same room instead of sneaking around." - Jenna E, 32, from Davenport, IA
"My family is pretty 'modern' so this would be cool with them." - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"Should we try? Typically, there are pretty clear rules about this kind of thing." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"I think it really depends on the family!" - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"It depends on how long you have been dating and if you have met the parentals." - Joellee LeClair, 34, from Dallas, TX
"We are adults." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"Unless we are really religious, let's get over the modesty." - Miranda Elling, 32, from Chicago, IL
"And there's no trying. We will sleep in the same bed." - Rosalind Sun, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Separate beds would mean we are fighting. Sleeping the same bed means our relationship is okay." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"My parents don't care." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"But it all depends on your parents." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"We are all adults." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"I would say same, but I guess it depends on how conservative the parents are." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"It depends on how long you've been dating." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Come on- they know what's up... right?!" - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's not 1956 anymore! Happy Holidays!" - Kelly Kaems, 30, from Kew Gardens, NY
"We are adults! Let go!" - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"It really depends..." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Again, depends. But general rule of thinking is we aren't in high school..."