Should I always ask you about your day?
23%
Not necessary.
- Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"I'll probably start talking about it without you asking, otherwise nothing interesting happened." - Pienby Laurence, 25, from Jersey City, NJ
"Not every day. I am sure if I have something from a day to talk about, I will bring it up." - Kylan Conroy, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Just make sure you take some interest in my life!" - Becca Schepps, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"I like knowing whats going on when things are going on." - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"I'll tell you about it if there's anything to tell." - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"But it's nice! it's polite." - Wendy Liu, 23, from Alhambra, CA
"It should come naturally that we would talk." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"Not necessary but it is nice!" - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"I'll tell you the important stuff." - Angela Lee, 23, from Cerritos, CA
"If there is nothing to talk about then yes." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's nice to hear sometimes but don't ask me all the time; I'll probably end up telling you anyway." - Kate Bailey, 26, from Chicago, IL
"What does this mean? If you want to know how my day is, then ask. If you don't, then don't." - Miana DeGardeyn, 33, from Chicago, IL
"But it's nice and don't you want to know? We want to hear about your day too." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Don't ask unless you want me to rehash all my aggression." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Once in a while it's nice, but if something crazy happened, I'll tell you if I want to." - Miranda Elling, 32, from Chicago, IL
"I'll let you know if something ridiculous happened." - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"Depends on how close we are." - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"It's nice to have someone who is interested in what I do." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"Not EVERY day but you know a few times a week would be nice." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"If there are other conversations and you appear to care it's unecessary." - Jackie Rivera, 25, from Miami, FL
"I will most likely tell you in the event of something worth discussing; your job is to listen." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Isn't it natural that we talk about our days anyway? Don't worry about rules about asking me!" - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"It's a customary question, but you don't have to."
44%
It's mandatory, every day.
- Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Because life changes day to day!" - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"“Mandatory” is a harsh word, but yes, it would be nice if you asked." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's good for the relationship, and for the self, so definitely yes." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Not mandatory, but I think it's a nice gesture. Good icebreaker/conversation starter." - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"If you care you will ask." - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"It is a gesture that shows you care." - Sara Jagodzinski, 24, from Carol Stream, IL
"It's not mandatory, but it would be nice." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"I like that you care about my day." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"It shows that you care." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"It's just a kind thing to do." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's nice to know you care, even if I don't want to talk about it." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"Don't you care?" - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I had a great day. Thanks for asking." - Amber Sellers, 33, from Brooklyn, NY
"I'd like to know you are interested in me and my day." - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"Don't you care?" - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"It's sweet." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"It's a nice question. I wouldn't say mandatory, but it's good to seem interested." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"Talking about the day and events and struggles, is an important part of bonding." - Wendy Farley, 44, from Charleston, SC
"I want to know he's interested in me, even the mundane stuff." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Everybody likes attention." - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Show you care!" - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"Yes." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"I wouldn't say mandatory, but it's nice to be asked." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"Be interested in what I do." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Most of the time you'll get a one word answer, but sometimes I might need to vent." - Elise Stiller, 36, from Seaford, NY
"It really does show you care and are interested." - Sherika Mair, 29, from West Palm Beach, FL
"ahhhhhhhhhhhh some some cares" - Jill Hanner, 34, from Astoria, NY
"Yes- always ask! shows you care." - Deborah Lau, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"It's good to want to know about anything interesting happening. It shows that you care." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"Common courtesy." - Doris Parker, 27, from Springfield, MA
"It's common courtesy. And please return the favor." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Even if you don't care, ask." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's good to check in." - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"It's just another way of saying 'I care about how and what you are doing' and that's just nice." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Make me feel like you care, every day, every minute, every second... shouldn't be too hard." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"Yes, mandatory! If you care, you ask! Plain and simple." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"That's a nice gesture." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Care!" - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"It's the polite thing to do." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"It shows you care. And it's something both partners should practice." - Britt Ancell, 26, from New York, NY
"Isn't this just a nice way to start a conversation?" - Cat Davis, 25, from New York, NY
"It shows you care." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"It shows that you care even if you don't. It's a nice gesture!" - Corey G, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Mandatory is a strong word, but you should care about what I did all day long." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"It is nice, though."
33%
If I look like I need to talk.
- Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"But it's nice to check in, anyway." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"I work in an awesome place. I seldom have bad days. Sometimes, it's nice to know you care." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"I need to vent sometimes too." - Stephanie Singer, 30, from New York, NY
"It's nice to know you care." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"If it's not repetitive." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"It's always nice to be asked that..." - Shannon Harknett, 24, from New Orleans, LA
"Wouldn't you be a little interested anyway?" - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Only ask if you'll actually listen to the answer." - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"It would be nice...but not mandatory." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's not necessary, but if it seems like it's been a rough day, it'd be nice." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"It's nice to care about stuff like this. But sometimes it's unnecessary." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"Your genuine curiosity and concern is greatly appreciated." - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"Unless something happened, work is over. Let's just relax." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"If you can find another way to start the conversation, be my guest." - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"It's nice to be asked that." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"If you want to know, then ask!" - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"I don't think any question is mandatory, but it's nice to know you care." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Kinda generic." - Regina Melzer, 32, from Los Angeles, CA
"Thoughtful conversation is a turn on!" - Ann Dang, 24, from San Diego, CA
"If you'd like to; I don't care." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Unnecessary." - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"Sure, that would be nice." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"I like to think you care." - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"It shows you care." - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"But don't ask me unless you're actually going to sit there and listen to all I have to say." - Vicky Chivy, 26, from San Diego, CA
"Everyday" - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"But it's very sweet when a guy wants to know." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"I like when you notice things." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"I like if you care. Usually that's a good way to show it." - Jessica Angst, 23, from Palm Beach, FL
"It is polite to ask about your significant other's day!" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"It's a nice way to check in with someone." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"We are probably talking throughout the day anyway." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"If it comes up" - Nora Lahl, 31, from Milwaukee, WI
"Let's just talk. About stuff. Because we like each other."