My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?
39%
If you love your girl, tell her.
- Sara Jagodzinski, 24, from Carol Stream, IL
"You should be able to trust her." - Stephanie Singer, 30, from New York, NY
"Make sure she doesn't tell anyone." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"But if you don't want it spread, don't tell anyone." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"If you love your girl, you would trust her." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I want to know everything!" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"We'll find out anyway and be pissed you didn't tell us. So tell us now." - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"I love being in the circle of trust." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It depends on the level of secret, and the level of secret-keeping ability your girl has." - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Unless she's a blabbermouth." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"You can tell her, but what does it have to do with loving her?" - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"If you think it's worth telling, that is." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"If we find out you know something and you didn't share you'll be in a baaaad place." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"Though it depends on the secret." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"Depending on how personal the secret is." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"Depends what the secret is and how it will make me view your friend." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"If you don't tell her, she's just gonna sneak into your phone and find out anyway." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Sharing is caring." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Eh am torn; depends on the secret. But is good to have communication lines with your lady open." - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"I tell my person everything. No secrets." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"You can tell her all you want, just don't tell him that you told her." - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"Sharing is up to you. If you two are that close, and she would do the same, then do it." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"It depends on your girl and the how big the secret is! Me personally…i’m telling!" - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Determine who will be more upset and how it will affect you." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"It’s sort of common knowledge that ‘don’t tell anyone’ means ‘except your girlfriend.’" - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"I wanna know all the dirt!" - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"It’s not like she’ll tell anyone." - Kelly Magsayo, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"...unless she’s going to blab." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Depends on what the secret is" - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Depends on the secret." - Krissy P, 25, from NJ
"Well it depends on what it is. Maybe I could give some good advice." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Unless she can’t keep her mouth shut." - Jill Hanner, 34, from Astoria, NY
"Yeah, cause eventually she will find out and will be upset you never told her." - Wendy Liu, 23, from Alhambra, CA
"It’s a way for a guy to shed off some burden that he carries. It also makes a girl feel special." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"As long as she is not going to tell and keeps it to herself." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"I'd tell you :-)" - Christine Behrens, 24, from Oakland, CA
"It's not in your best interest to let your girl think poorly of your friends.." - Jenna E, 32, from Davenport, IA
"If you love her and she loves you, she'll be like a steel trap with his secret." - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"If you trust her. If she's a big mouth then don't bother. It'll just blow up in your face." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"If she has a big mouth, keep it to yourself! It will only cause you strife in the future!" - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"Depends...." - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Open disclaimer should be: i won't tell anyone, except my girlfriend." - Britt Ancell, 26, from New York, NY
"Seriously, why bottle up that juiciness?" - Amber Sellers, 33, from Brooklyn, NY
"You're a team, but she better keep mum." - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"In a relationship you share everything!" - Kylan Conroy, 24, from Chicago, IL
"If you trust her it's fine." - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"A relationship works best when you are each others' best buddies." - Regina Melzer, 32, from Los Angeles, CA
"It’s situational, it really depends." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"It's kind of a given that you share things with your significant other." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"If she will be pissed if she finds out you didn't tell her, then you should tell her." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"You telling your girlfriend a juicy secret reassures her that she's the most important in your life" - Elise Stiller, 36, from Seaford, NY
"Priorities!"
61%
Never! Keep it in confidence.
- Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Respect your friend. Do you tell your best buddy everything your girlfriend tells you?" - Nicole Laws, 30, from Fort Lauderdale, FL
"If you want to keep someone's trust, keep your mouth shut." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"NEVER. NO EXCUSES!" - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"There are things she keeps from you too." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"If you spill your best bud's secrets you're probably spilling mine, too." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Unless it affects her then it's not her business." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Circle of trust." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"If you feel it should be kept in confidence then remain loyal. On the other hand, sharing is importa" - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Bros before hoes. Unless it's something really harmless that you know your girl won't share!" - Elizabeth Fenwick, 23, from Berkeley, CA
"It totally depends on the situation. If its something that affects you and your relationship, tell h" - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"Dudes should be dudes, keeps them real." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"It really depends on the secret, how good she is at keeping them, & how much it's worrying you." - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"I say never, but sometimes it happens." - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"Bros before hoes. Unless it's something really harmless that you know your girl won't share!" - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"Would you tell your best buddy a secret your girlfriend told you? I hope not..." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"Would you tell your best buddy a secret your girlfriend told you? I hope not..." - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"It's none of her business." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"Unless you just gotta tell someone!" - Kate Bailey, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Unless you just gotta tell someone!" - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"This one's tough. Whatever the case, if it's embarrassing to your friend, then NO." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"That's his business, keep it that way." - Aja Bernard, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"Loyalty is a man's best friend." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Is it your business to tell?" - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Unless I'm your girlfriend." - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"Some girlfriends are bitches." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"If it's that important to him, it's probably none of your girlfriend's business." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"I'd be pissed if you didnt tell me, but I wouldn't respect you as much if you did tell me." - Jessica Angst, 23, from Palm Beach, FL
"It is none of her business....." - Miana DeGardeyn, 33, from Chicago, IL
"Unless it directly affects your girlfriend, some things should stay between friends." - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"If it's not necessary for me to know...then don't tell me." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"What does she care?" - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Respect when a friend tells you something in confidence. Restraint is a sign of maturity." - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"The girl doesn't need to know. This is between you and your friend." - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"Somethings should remain between dudes. Ditto with chicks." - Jolene R, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"You can tell her if it's just about being private and thinking, not about gossip." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Depends on the secret...and the girlfriend." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Keeping your friend's secret will show her you can keep a secret." - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"You and your GF/fiancee/wife are NOT one person. Be a good friend." - Brittany Caudle, 25, from New York, NY
"Keep a secret." - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"It is always best to keep secrets...unless you need advice about it, keep it to yourself." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Buddy is buddy, girl is girl, secrets are secrets." - Shannon Harknett, 24, from New Orleans, LA
"If it is serious, it's not something to share unless I could really help wit something." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"You can tell if you want or not. No big deal." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Secrets are secrets for a reason." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Bros before hoes! No... loyalty is more important." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Bros before hoes. Unless it's something really harmless that you know your girl won't share!" - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"If the situation was reversed, what do you think the answer would be?" - Senait Mengstab, 30, from San Francisco, CA
"I don’t really care. But definitely don’t tell her that he told you a secret and then not tell her!" - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Circle of trust." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Females can’t keep secrets." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"It really depends on the secret" - Ann Dang, 24, from San Diego, CA
"You should trust that she isn’t going to tell anyone." - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"this is a toss up" - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"A secret should always be kept." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"A ‘don’t tell anyone’ means don’t tell anyone - girlfriends are not exempt." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Don’t break your buddy’s trust." - Becca Schepps, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"What people don’t know, doesn’t hurt them." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"The ability to do so can be sexy. Plus, I want to know you can keep a secret." - Doris Parker, 27, from Springfield, MA
"Just keep the secret to yourself, damn it." - Monique Lewis, 31, from New York, NY
"She doesn’t need to know everything." - Deborah Lau, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"No because girls will talk and if the secret is out, you lose a good friend." - Kate Bailey, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Situational. Maybe tell her. If it's important to him for you to keep quiet, respect his wishes." - Sherika Mair, 29, from West Palm Beach, FL
"Hello, it’s a secret." - Vicky Chivy, 26, from San Diego, CA
"A secret is a secret." - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"Respect your buddies too." - Nora Lahl, 31, from Milwaukee, WI
"Unless it directly pertains to her, keep your mouth shut." - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"If it doesn't concern your relationship." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Unless the secret is something that will ruin your relationship with your girlfriend." - Rosalind Sun, 23, from San Diego, CA
"If your friend said it was a secret, then be respectful and don’t tell anyone." - Angela H, 0, from North, CA
"That's between you and your buddy...would you want to know my girlfriend's secret's? Never mind, do" - Cat Davis, 25, from New York, NY
"She doesn't need to know anything unless it effects her." - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"Unless you need advice or feel like she might benefit from knowing." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"Your best friend will always be your best friend, but girlfriends may come and go…" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Depends on if he as adamant that you not tell a soul." - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"If it doesn’t concern her, why potentially lose his trust?" - Kelly Kaems, 30, from Kew Gardens, NY
"You should honor your best friend’s secrets." - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"It's a secret, keep it" - Yisell Muxo, 35, from Miami, FL
"Your friend confided in you, not both of you." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"Better not." - Pienby Laurence, 25, from Jersey City, NJ
"You should not violate the trust of anyone you are very close to." - Jackie Rivera, 25, from Miami, FL
"Don’t betray your buds. What if you break up? Then you just have pissed off friends, if any at all."