Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?
66%
No
- Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"It shows you have life experience. Who wants an ignorant man?" - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"Maybe you have a bad memory, me too." - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"Not unless you bring up your long list out of nowhere, sans context." - Christine Behrens, 24, from Oakland, CA
"Include entertaining stories and don't tell me about foreign girls." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Travel is interesting. If I'm asking about it, I want to know!" - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I love to know where a person's been..it says a lot about them." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"It shows me your well traveled, just don't over do it." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"It shows me your well traveled, just don't over do it." - Jessica Angst, 23, from Palm Beach, FL
"No, its called experience...." - Miana DeGardeyn, 33, from Chicago, IL
"As long as you aren't overtly bragging, I love to hear about your adventures." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Unless you just start listing and the conversation wasn't going there." - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Making a list of places you want to go is better." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Depends- are we having a conversation about that..." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"Unless you're just bragging about it. But if we both travel, that's good conversation." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"I love to travel, so I'd be excited to hear that you do, too." - Stephanie Singer, 30, from New York, NY
"If it comes up in conversation, it's fine. Don't sit there and go down the list." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"It depends on your delivery. If you are doing it to show off, then yes." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"But don't forget to ask ME where I'VE been!" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"'Went to Ireland to visit family' Good. 'Went to Ireland where my boys and I got sloppy drunk' Bad." - Sara Jagodzinski, 24, from Carol Stream, IL
"It would be interesting to learn about new places, just try not to brag." - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"Not if I ask." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's fine to list them if the topic comes up, but don't dwell on the trips." - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"As long as you don't overdue on bragging. But I do want to know about your past." - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"I love to travel, I think it makes a great convo topic!" - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Why not?" - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"Take pride in your travels. I do!" - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"We can compare notes." - Shannon Harknett, 24, from New Orleans, LA
"I love people with interesting lives." - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"It can. It depends on the context." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"As long as you have more to talk about than how drunk you got at the Guiness museum." - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"Unless we're talking about travel. Then it's interesting." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"Nothing wrong with a little bragging..." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Just be ready to take me to new places." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Unless you're trying to be pretentious, you won't be. I may find it fascinating." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"It's exciting to share travel stories, AND it shows me you're adventurous." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"It's more about how you do something than what you're actually doing. Do it with tact." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"I love hearing about where people have been, then I can know what they like." - Regina Melzer, 32, from Los Angeles, CA
"It depends on how you say it. Tone, people!!!" - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Stories are interesting." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"If you don’t make it sound pretentious, it won’t be." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"If you’re boasting about it nonstop then it would be annoying." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"I travel a lot too so its cool. I bet I can top you!" - Rosalind Sun, 23, from San Diego, CA
"Maybe we can go again together." - Kelly Magsayo, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"It makes you seem worldly." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"It’s a great conversation starter." - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"It makes you seem well rounded." - Pienby Laurence, 25, from Jersey City, NJ
"Traveling can provide knowledge and understanding that can’t be acquired through other means." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"But don’t force it into conversation." - Ann Dang, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I like to hear about travel stories; depends on how you tell it." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"I’ve probably been to more places than you, so personally, I’m excited to find places in common." - Doris Parker, 27, from Springfield, MA
"Let me know where you went, I might want to see pics too! Never know, we might go together one day." - Monique Lewis, 31, from New York, NY
"Seems like you’re well rounded." - Wendy Liu, 23, from Alhambra, CA
"Why wouldn’t anyone want to get to know you better? I’d love to share my own experiences too." - Deborah Lau, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"I love hearing about vacations and travelling experiences." - Jill Hanner, 34, from Astoria, NY
"It makes you seem interesting, but don’t brag." - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Don’t brag." - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"As long as they’re not all about what you did with your ex and where you two went together." - Nora Lahl, 31, from Milwaukee, WI
"Are you just rattling them off, or do you really have a passion for travel? Be honest…" - Krissy P, 25, from NJ
"As long as you plan on taking me somewhere with you." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Who need to know." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"It makes you look more adventurous." - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"It makes you seem well-rounded." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"Only if there is no point to it…" - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"Unless it's all you talk about, and you think it makes you better than other people..." - Aja Bernard, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"I'm proud of the people I've met and places I've been. Maybe you should try it." - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Unless you're being a pretentious ass." - Elizabeth Fenwick, 23, from Berkeley, CA
"I love to travel and hope you do too!" - Kylan Conroy, 24, from Chicago, IL
"It is attractive when a guy has some experiences." - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"Just don't repeat constantly." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"When it`s interesting and not boastful." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"Helps me to enlighten people." - Amber Sellers, 33, from Brooklyn, NY
"I want to know you're cultured." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"I'm very interested to hear about your life experiences." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"I like to hear that a guy is cultured & likes traveling;don't need to hear about his sexplorations!" - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"But it all depends on the delivery and how it comes up in conversation." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"It shows you have goals and ambition." - Cat Davis, 25, from New York, NY
"I want to know what interests you." - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"Not if it is done during conversation." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"I like to hear that a guy is cultured & likes traveling;don't need to hear about his sexplorations!" - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Don't be shy to talk about your adventures." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"It all depends on the context and delivery." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"I think it's fascinating hearing stories about travel." - Nicole Laws, 30, from Fort Lauderdale, FL
"Talking about your life makes you interesting and gives me an idea of how cultured you are." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"I love to travel and hear about other people's travels." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"It makes me know that you have good taste in travel locations!" - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"I love hearing about where people have been, then I can know what they like."
34%
Yes
- Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"That's just a little weird." - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Unless asked." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Don't list them. Let your world travels come up naturally in conversation. It's not a contest." - Kelly Kaems, 30, from Kew Gardens, NY
"A fine line on this one - if it comes up, ok." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"It's in the past, let's look ahead." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"If it is relevant thats fine, otherwise don't brag." - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"I'll find out eventually...." - Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"If I want to know, I'll ask." - Jackie Rivera, 25, from Miami, FL
"Unless there’s a really killer story that relates completely to the conversation…otherwise…lame." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Unless I ask, or have been there too." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Unless I ask you, don’t list them off." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Unless we're comparing travel notes." - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"Especially if you list places you went with your ex..." - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I don't care to know unless I ask. :-)" - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"If it's an unsolicited list, it's annoying." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"It depends, there's a cool way to deliver." - Jolene R, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Also depends how you say it, i like hearing about experiences." - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"It can. Wait until I ask." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"If you've got good stories it's alright, but a list sucks." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I've been to all of those places too. Big deal. I want to hear all of the places you're going to tak" - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"No need to advertise and make people feel badly." - Angela H, 0, from North, CA
"Be humble, unless you took me or are planning on it." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"Probably. But secretly we care." - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Never name drop, you will just look like a douche bag." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"A laundry list of where you’ve been=pretentious. Mentioning it when relevant=interesting." - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"You can inform me but don't dwell. Let the past be the past." - Becca Schepps, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"bc I’ve been to greece, italy, france, london, scotland, alaska, hawaii, israel, tokyo, san juan…" - Yisell Muxo, 35, from Miami, FL
"A little bit." - Kate Bailey, 26, from Chicago, IL
"If it's in a 'list', then yes." - Senait Mengstab, 30, from San Francisco, CA
"But not if you’re asked." - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"If we're both throwing out stories, fine. But if you just love hearing yourself talk..." - Jenna E, 32, from Davenport, IA
"Bragging is a huge turn-off." - Brittany Caudle, 25, from New York, NY
"Depends how you do it." - Vicky Chivy, 26, from San Diego, CA
"Yea." - Britt Ancell, 26, from New York, NY
"Just learn to work it in to natural convo." - Sherika Mair, 29, from West Palm Beach, FL
"Who needs to know." - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Listing them is pretentious. Bringing up your trip to italy over spaghetti is not." - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"I want to know that you're cultured, but I don't need you to give me a list." - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"It's nice to know that a guy is well traveled, curious, etc." - Elise Stiller, 36, from Seaford, NY
"...unless it’s relevant to the conversation!" - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"That is very annoying." - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"Keep Amsterdam drug useto yourself. Assume everyone else has done it to—because they have—and save" - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"You should not talk about it if you aren't asked." - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"Don't one up me...that pisses me off."