Do I open the doors, or does she?
66%
You do.
- Miki Taka, 27, from Columbus, OH
"Always be a gentleman." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"No question." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"No question." - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"A hint of chivalry is much appreciated." - Kylan Conroy, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Chivalry is not dead!" - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"It`s a man's duty!" - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"Man up, girls find it comforting." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Men, open the doors for your lady. It'll knock her socks off." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"It's a simple gesture that will get you a lot of cool points, trust me!" - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"I like a door opened for me but if she dresses like a hippy let her get her own door." - Jenna E, 32, from Davenport, IA
"I don't mind getting the door, but if he gets it...points for him." - Jolene R, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"It's just nice, even if it's old school." - Elizabeth Fenwick, 23, from Berkeley, CA
"Be a gentleman." - Elizabeth Fenwick, 23, from Berkeley, CA
"Be a gentleman." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I am a Queen, it would be unheard of for me to open any door myself." - Theresa G, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"CHIVALRY IS NOT DEAD!" - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"Be a gentleman, at least in the beginning." - Mekalia Reid, 27, from New York, NY
"But if there's a second door, she will get there first and should open that for you." - Shelly Kaplan, 28, from Chicago, IL
"I looove when a man opens the door for me." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"Please be a gentleman." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"Please be a gentleman." - Nicole Laws, 30, from Fort Lauderdale, FL
"It's just a nice thing to do. It shows you care." - Allison Baxley, 29, from New York, NY
"Chivalry is still appreciated by most women." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"At least at first." - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"Don't tell me chivalry is dead again?" - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Chivalry is not dead, show her that she matters enough to open a door." - Jessica Angst, 23, from Palm Beach, FL
"Proper Etiquette" - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"But try not to make it awkward if she beats you too it!" - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"This is the one time that a man can be a straight up gentleman." - Stephanie Singer, 30, from New York, NY
"Be a gentleman." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"Unless it's an awkward situation and you can't do so smoothly." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"It makes us feel special" - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"I don't need my door opened 100% of the time, but it makes a night out more romantic." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"Always, always, always open doors for a girl. Always." - Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's always nice to have a guy act chivalrous." - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"Always be a gentleman and make her feel like a lady." - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"Was that question real?" - Carly Twisselman, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"I am all about chivalry and tradition, it accentuates the male and female roles." - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"Chivalry is not dead! My man opens the door for me and I feel special every time!" - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"Depend how many points your trying to score!" - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I've never dated someone who doesn't open my door." - Miana DeGardeyn, 33, from Chicago, IL
"It may be old-school but it's sweet." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"Can never go wrong this way." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Little thoughtful gestures go a long way. Especially when true gentlemen are hard to come by." - Greta Eagan, 30, from New York, NY
"Please, guys- ALWAYS open the door for us and carry our bags." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Chivalry shouldn't be dead. Guy should always open the doors!" - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Try. But I might not always let you." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"You do, you do, you do. hello!?" - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"It's a nice gesture if you can manage it. Wouldn't you do the same for your mother/sister?" - Brittany Caudle, 25, from New York, NY
"Chivalry is NOT dead.. always be a gentleman, not only to the girl you're after." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"Let's bring that chivalry back to life guys!" - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"It shows you are a gentleman. Little things like opening doors are the things that girls notice." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Gentlemen: always a turn on." - Nancy Spruiell, 43, from New York, NY
"I want the best of both worlds. Chivalry is not dead. I make my own money, but I'm still a lady." - Kelly Magsayo, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"Modern day chivalry should still exist to an extent." - Krissy P, 25, from NJ
"I love when a guy opens the door for me or pulls out my chair." - Senait Mengstab, 30, from San Francisco, CA
"You should, but if she is cool, then she won't really expect it." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"Prove that chivalry isn't dead!" - Nora Lahl, 31, from Milwaukee, WI
"What are you, an animal? Open the damn door!" - Nadia Reiman, 28, from Brooklyn, NY
"Who says chivalry is dead? It's nice to have a door opened for you, though not crucial." - Vicky Chivy, 26, from San Diego, CA
"I open it." - Pienby Laurence, 25, from Jersey City, NJ
"I know, really archaic, but I will still wait for you to do so." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"You do. Period." - Rosalind Sun, 23, from San Diego, CA
"A gentleman always opens the door." - Ann Dang, 24, from San Diego, CA
"It's gentleman-like." - Claire Griffin, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Chivalry is not dead. Open the door for her." - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"You're trying to please her." - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Girls always notice little things like that. Always." - Yisell Muxo, 35, from Miami, FL
"Always." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"So sweet." - Becca Schepps, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"I don't like touching doors." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"It's manly." - Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Viva chivalry!" - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"It is an absolute must. It shows that you care and have manners." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"Chivalry is so not dead!" - Vicky K, 25, from Chino Hills, CA
"Be a gentleman!" - Cat Davis, 25, from New York, NY
"Chivalry isn't dead. Just make sure youre girlfriend isn't a diehard feminist." - Monique Lewis, 31, from New York, NY
"SOUTHERN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" - Angela H, 0, from North, CA
"Be a gentleman!" - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"Be a man, be a gentleman, open the freakin door" - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"Everyone loves a gentlemen." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"But don't let me catch you slipping through a door in front of an old lady!" - Francesca Lacuesta, 29, from Sacramento, CA
"Chivalry is not dead if you revive it." - Elise Stiller, 36, from Seaford, NY
"Chivalry is alive and well!" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"While things are new, but after a few dates then first come first serve." - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"Be a gentleman!" - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"I don't know about other girls, but I am a Queen. It'd be unheard of for me to open any door myself." - Sherika Mair, 29, from West Palm Beach, FL
"If I open it, I'm going to keep walking. Nice knowing you." - Jill Hanner, 34, from Astoria, NY
"Always open the door."
0%
She does.
34%
First come, first served.
- Doris Parker, 27, from Springfield, MA
"Chivalry isn't dead, but no need to go crazy. My hands work, just don't let the door hit me!" - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"Equality is the name of the game...but don't slack off being a gentleman. :)" - Deborah Lau, 23, from La Jolla, CA
"Girls are more independent nowadays so it doesn't really matter." - Shannon Harknett, 24, from New Orleans, LA
"The first one to the door should hold the door for the other." - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Just general politeness...whoever gets there first." - Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"Opening a door for a lady is sweet." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Avoid awkward situations." - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Just be classy." - Sara Jagodzinski, 24, from Carol Stream, IL
"I'm more independent so I open my own doors, but some girls do like it opened for them." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"It's all equal in 2009." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Chivalry is not dead. It's still appreciated. But not over-the-top." - Regina Melzer, 32, from Los Angeles, CA
"Be a team! We're equal right?" - Wendy Liu, 23, from Alhambra, CA
"But it doesn't hurt to see his effort in trying to get to the door first." - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"It's nice if a guy opens them, but I'm not going to stand there and wait." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Egalitarianism is nice. Make sure you do it sometimes." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"I don't like when men rush to the door to open it. Most of the time it feels calculated and awkward." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"It's always nice to open doors for people, no matter who they are." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"This is 2009, fair game." - Amber Sellers, 33, from Brooklyn, NY
"We're all equal already." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"I'm not going to wait for someone to open the door for me, but its nice when he does on occasion!" - Kelly Kaems, 30, from Kew Gardens, NY
"Come on, move on with this one!" - Schuyler Pham, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"But always be a gentleman." - Aja Bernard, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"Haha, chivalry is dead!!!" - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Don't care!" - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"Both sexes should be polite." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"It's rude if you get to the door first & don't open it for the other person, regardless of gender." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"If I'm there first I'll open it." - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"Both sexes should be polite." - Christina Johnson, 31, from New York, NY
"Practical." - Shelby Kovant, 25, from New York, NY
"Don't care!" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"I don't mind opening my own. Do not open my car door - I feel like the guy is my servant!" - Britt Ancell, 26, from New York, NY
"And no holding awkwardness. You can step out before me..." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"This is 2009, fair game." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Nice to do, but certainly not necessary." - Johanna Beyenbach, 29, from New York, NY
"Who cares." - Amy Liu, 23, from San Diego, CA
"There shouldn't be too much of a double standard nowadays." - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"But you should always try to open the door for her." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"It's a nice gesture, but if you aren't even near the door yet, it's just awkward." - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"Chivalry is dead ;)" - Christine Behrens, 24, from Oakland, CA
"If it's heavy try to get there first, but never push her out of the way to be chivalrous." - Jackie Rivera, 25, from Miami, FL
"Chivalry isn't completely dead... It's nice every once in a while." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"A little of both is the best way to go I say." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"Doesn't matter; I have a hand." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"It's just a door." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"Chivalry is highly respected."