Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?
15%
Just don’t tell me about it.
- Kate Sample, 31, from Chicago, IL
"And if you're very good, you'll get a lap dance at home." - Priya Massand, 30, from Flushing, NY
"Again, hear no evil, know no evil. Or whatever the hell that saying is." - Ashley Becker, 26, from New York, NY and Miami, FL
"I don't care, I just don't want to know, or at least not know the details!" - Veronica Cheung, 24, from San Diego, CA
"I'd rather you not, if that matters." - Sara Koch, 30, from Youngstown, OH
"I think it's disrespectful if you're in a serious relationship. But otherwise, knock yourself out." - Lisa Miao, 27, from New York, NY
"I don't mind at all, I actually like hearing about it, or going. No reason to be weird about it." - Luana Suciu, 25, from Boston, MA
"And make sure your friends don't tell me either." - Jacquelyn Tillotson, 31, from Miami Beach, FL
"The good guys don't usually enjoy strip clubs." - JoAnna Di Tullio, 24, from Boston, MA
"Actually, tell me about it. I don't mind." - Sara Jagodzinski, 24, from Carol Stream, IL
"Just come back home to me." - Anne C, 24, from Miami, FL
"I would really prefer you not to. It would only make women feel more insecure in a relationship." - Alicia Cohen, 37, from New York, NY
"EEEEEEEEEWWWWWWWW!!!" - Sara Bour, 23, from Urbana, IL
"I'd prefer not to hear about the guy's nights out." - Katrina Robinson, 28, from Charleston, SC
"Actually, you can even tell me about it. Get a lap dance—just don't screw or touch any strippers."
33%
Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
- Angela Lee, 23, from Cerritos, CA
"You shouldn't go to those places- it shows your distasteful side." - Justine Bour, 26, from Chicago, IL
"If you have a girlfriend then I don't think it's necessary to be visiting strip clubs all that often" - Jackie Rivera, 25, from Miami, FL
"Only if you HAVE to. And certainly don't enjoy it." - Vida James, 28, from New York, NY
"Not into the idea of you paying to be dry humped." - Rosie Dehoyos, 29, from Dallas, TX
"In no other circumstance is this ok." - Miana DeGardeyn, 33, from Chicago, IL
"And if you want to go to a strip club on a regular basis, that's a problem." - Molly Millett, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"I am not a fan of dating someone who is really into those kinds of things." - Erika San Miguel, 32, from Larkspur, CA
"Tell me about it. No secrets." - Kate Cohen, 27, from Syosset, NY
"I'll be your lapdancer..." - Kate Bailey, 26, from Chicago, IL
"O, have fun with the boys. Don't get into trouble." - Claire Watkins, 25, from Santa Cruz, CA
"Can I?" - Grace Kang, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Special occasions are fine. Just don't be creepy and make a habit out of it." - Cat Davis, 25, from New York, NY
"Just be tasteful." - Vicky Kuo, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Don't do anything to jeopardize the relationship, though." - Cheng-Cheng Lok, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"Special occasions only!" - Julienne Irons, 27, from Los Angeles, CA
"If I'm with you, I'm gonna trust that you'll be hands off." - Frankie Robinson, 36, from Chicago, IL
"Just don't be a regular and we are all cool!" - Jessi Odenbach, 28, from Chicago, IL
"Gross." - Jennifer Beio, 26, from Chicago, IL
"Aren't we a little old for that, outside of bachelor parties?" - Karoline D'Angola, 24, from Bernardsville, NJ
"I might put up a fight if you actually want to go." - Danielle L, 26, from Chicago, IL
"SO tacky and sad really. Act like you're more than walking hormones." - Emily Woolf, 26, from Brooklyn, NY
"Bro fests usually contain boobs, so I won't put up a fight." - Samantha Conniff, 24, from Brooklyn, NY
"Still...it's gross." - Deeana Lowe-Chin, 24, from Miami, FL
"Strip clubs are cool..but let's not make it a habit." - Grace Hsieh, 22, from San Diego, CA
"Only for occasions." - Ashley Potter, 26, from Milwaukee, WI
"And if you touch anyone I'll punch you in the face." - Marisa Zupan, 27, from Brooklyn, NY
"Sigh. They're gross and dumb. But if you have to go it's all fun and games right....right?" - Kristin Castro, 24, from San Francisco, CA
"I'm being nice with this one...." - Amber Sellers, 33, from Brooklyn, NY
"Special occasions only." - Amy S., 25, from Chicago, IL
"Do you really want to go? Why?"
8%
Under no circumstances.
- Rebecca Nashleanas, 25, from Los Angeles, CA
"It's really unattractive for a man to go to a strip club." - Emily Pelton, 29, from Brooklyn, NY
"No no no! Sick!" - Ashley Hayes, 24, from Los Angeles, CA
"Gross." - Sandy Tragos, 32, from Chicago, IL
"What is the point?" - Marianna Branda, 23, from Miami, FL
"I can be your stripper..." - Susie Jones, 29, from Naples, Fl
"If you want a show, call me to come over." - Kimone Campbell, 27, from Palm Beach, FL
"Why get a girl?"
44%
Yes, but no lap dances.
- Rachel U, 26, from New York, NY
"Look, but don't touch." - Dominique Vance, 23, from New York, NY
"In fact, I'll take you with me, I have friends there! Go have fun, and then come home to me." - Pienby Laurence, 25, from Jersey City, NJ
"Do what you want. I have no desire to be in a relationship with someone I cannot trust." - Miranda Elling, 32, from Chicago, IL
"Guys like strip clubs. Guys like porn. Big deal." - Renee Lucas, 30, from New York, NY
"I don't even care about the lap dances. Do what you want, but come home at the end of the night." - Tiffany Clarke, 25, from richmond, ca
"Enjoy your life. You only have one." - Genevieve Melzer, 27, from San Francisco, CA
"You got all you need at home!" - Corey G, 25, from Chicago, IL
"Guys do that together, but just look." - Anna Bykova, 23, from San Francisco, CA
"If you don't touch anything, then yes." - Kate DAlleva, 25, from Morristown, NJ
"If you want a lap dance, just ask." - Mercedes Tahir, 23, from New York, NY
"What? Of course you can. But, yea, no lap dances (maybe at a bachelor party)." - Vanessa Jeong, 28, from San Leandro, CA
"If I trust you, just don't abuse it." - Ashley Woolley, 25, from Chicago, IL
"You can look - but don't you touch!" - Erika Thomas, 25, from Miami, FL
"I believe in the “look but don't touch” approach." - Heather Callan, 25, from Chicago, IL
"You're a big boy, I'm not going to tell you what to do." - Britt Ancell, 26, from New York, NY
"And lap dances too! I'll come along." - Whitney R, 25, from Princeton, NJ
"Have a lap dance for all I care, just know I'll be doing the same." - Dominique Jackson, 29, from Los Angeles, CA
"Those girls better not get too close and don't enjoy it too much." - Jessica G, 25, from Boca Raton, FL
"I consider lap dances cheating..." - Kira Wilkinson, 27, from Washington, DC
"And don't give them my money :)" - Stephanie Singer, 30, from New York, NY
"And you better tell me about it - no lies!" - Jen Gsell, 29, from Reston, VA
"Don't tell me, but don't be a scum bag and do something you shouldn't." - Jessica Barrutia, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Strip clubs are strip clubs- I'm not worried about you going home with a stripper." - Gina Kim, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Yes, but I'd like to know about it." - Elinor N, 23, from New York, NY
"ENJOY!! As long as I don't have to worry about what STDs you might have picked up!" - Ann Dang, 24, from San Diego, CA
"Watch, but don't touch." - Maya Calaway, 24, from Boston, MA
"It's all good fun until you start having a bit too much fun with the girls." - Paula L, 28, from Miami, Florida
"I really don't care." - Jennifer Manghisi, 27, from New York, NY
"You can have a lap dance all you want." - Kylan Conroy, 24, from Chicago, IL
"Let guys be guys!" - Tiffany Davis, 32, from San Diego, CA
"I don't want some stripper rubbing her junk all over you!" - Laura Lefkowitz, 35, from New York, NY
"I'm not your mother, not my job to tell you where you can and can't go. Have fun, but not too much" - Jessica Angst, 23, from Palm Beach, FL
"If I am there... we can get lap dances together!" - Shannon Harknett, 24, from New Orleans, LA
"Just don't make it a regular thing." - Lucy Malcolm, 26, from New York, NY
"Absolutely, and I'd like to go with you." - Sarah Conrad, 27, from New York, NY
"Have fun, but come home to me!" - Lauren McHenry, 26, from Dallas, TX
"Haha, sure." - Wendy Farley, 44, from Charleston, SC
"I don't want to know details, though." - Jessica Chang, 30, from Los Angeles, CA
"Unless you're okay with me getting lap dances from guys." - Alison Dichter, 31, from New York, NY
"Seh's not going to start dating you anyway, so why not?"