
Deborah Lau / 23, La Jolla, CA
I'm a happy girl just trying to live her life to the fullest.

Traditional Cuba Libre
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Again, that is unsanitary... wash your feet man!
Her answer: Intensely annoying
Sit still and control yourself!
Her answer: Dead-on.
We don't have that many partners to lie about.
Her answer: Use your finger
That is just gross and unsanitary.
Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Too much is a definite turn-off.
Her answer: Everything.
Please look manly
Her answer: Muscly and cut.
Honestly, who doesn't want a hot muscly guy!!
Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
Being in a relationship is always about learning more about each other and oneself.
Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Grow up and read real books.
Her answer: Couple months
Traveling is always exciting but wait a couple of months so that you're comfortable with each other.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
I want to see which man wins!
Her answer: Who?
Never heard of it.
Her answer: Hate it.
It sounds like a very backward state.
Her answer: Beatles
Classic band!
Her answer: Pleasantry
Honesty can sometimes hurt the other person so to play it safe, don't say anything mean.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's good to want to know about anything interesting happening. It shows that you care.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
I love eloquence and I would love to be corrected to learn as long as you're not cocky about it.
Her answer: Full democracy
Find something you both enjoy. It doesn't matter but just be considerate.
Her answer: Thirty minutes.
It's good to voice your opinions but any longer than 30 minutes will lead to an argument.
Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
Bringing up an ex just makes it awkward so please don't!
Her answer: Once a week
It's good to have space since you're grown up but very important to keep in touch.
Her answer: Not at all
It's just an additional bonus but it's not that big of a deal.
Her answer: Tip according to service
Tip according to service and time to day. Naturally, it's good to tip higher at dinner than lunch.
Her answer: Show her your moves
Show her you're a good dancer and she'll stay to dance.
Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
It's cute to be daring so if you two were eyeing each other all night, just do it. It wouldn't hurt.
Her answer: Finish it.
It shows that you're not wasting.
Her answer: Please don't.
That's gross.
Her answer: No.
Dinner time is eating time. Why do you need a phone? That's just rude.
Her answer: One month
If you're persistent enough, a month should be enough time to find another job.
Her answer: Maybe?
It depends if you're qualified for the job.
Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
It's fine to take a chance. You never know. They could be the one.
Her answer: No chance, sorry!
Sorry, I do not want to be living in the streets begging for food.
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
If they are manual labor jobs, then that’s a turn-off. But office jobs are good.
Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I don’t mind hearing but dont just only talk about your job.
Her answer: The lady.
It helps to get the guy turned on.
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Some guys can pull it off so just be confident and go for it :)
Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
It would be a big turn-off to see a guy carry a ripping wallet.
Her answer: Whenever.
Would you rather have a girl straighten her hair or just not brush it? You look better with gel.
Her answer: Clean shaven
I only like clean shaven guys
Her answer: Only when playing sports.
They’re ugly so just wear it when playing sports.
Her answer: Boxers
I don’t want to see anything stick out yet.
Her answer: A kiss
Quick kiss is simple and should do.
Her answer: TRUE
I like guys who are clean.
Her answer: Just don't cheat.
If a person is mature, talking to an ex is okay. Just don’t ruin the current relationship.
Her answer: The guy
Guys should always pay because it pleases them more.
Her answer: I look at every picture
Looking at pictures are fun and says a lot about a person’s personality.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
You don’t want to scare off the other person and make it awkward so that stuff can wait.
Her answer: No
No, that’s creepy to stalk.
Her answer: Over
Common sense.
Her answer: Daily
I think guys look at it daily to make themselves happy.
Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Depends how great the girl is.
Her answer: Seriously?
That is just so gross. Please change daily…
Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That would make it awkward. Respect his exes. You wouldn’t want him to do that to you.
Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
No because girls will talk and if the secret is out, you lose a good friend.
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Okay, that is just embarrassing. Grow up!
Her answer: Indispensable
There’s nothing wrong with it.
Her answer: Hilarious
It’s funny if you’re a good sport about it.
Her answer: Anything at all
I don’t expect too much so anything is fine as long as his brain is stimulating :)
Her answer: Yep
It doesn’t really matter.
Her answer: Cooler
It means you’re not shy so go for it!
Her answer: For the moneyed elite
It reflects your financial background.
Her answer: No
I love hearing about vacations and travelling experiences.
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
You never know what a girl craves so being prepared is always a good thing.
Her answer: 2nd
A little is okay to show your affection but be classy, not trashy!
Her answer: Definitely
It means at least he's paying attention.
Her answer: Never
That is just so gross. Use a restroom!
Her answer: First come, first served.
Girls are more independent nowadays so it doesn't really matter.
Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
It's okay to borrow money ONCE in awhile, but don't forget to pay back!!
Her answer: A night on the town.
Make it a night he won't forget. :)
Her answer: Brunch!
Big meals are holy grail!
Her answer: 2 good
Good drinks is a must. None of that cheap shit!
Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
You could be using them. Just do it and both of you guys will have a good time :)
Her answer: Remove the soiled piece of clothing. Party on.
The party is probably going to be stuffy and hot so just take it off ;)
Her answer: True
That's what I've always heard.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I don't want to lose it throughout the night by leaving it unattended or carry that baggage around.
Her answer: Shots!
I hate beer/wine so if he's drinking shots with me, that would be really fun.
Her answer: Of course
I want him to have a respectable job so I can brag about it to my friends.
Her answer: Yes
Title secures everything and makes it more valid.
Her answer: Higher
He needs to be able to support me.
Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
If you do something stupid while tipsy, it could screw up your reputation.
Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Most of the time, raises are political and not based as much on performance.
Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
Networking is the only way to get to know people.
Her answer: Underdress
It shows that he's comfortable.
Her answer: Every time
I like clean-shaven guys.
Her answer: Insane
WTF.
Her answer: Out
I don't want it so tight that I could see bulges of muscle on his legs.
Her answer: Slacks
So it could blend in.
Her answer: Out
Makes the feet look long and big like a duck.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
Your style says a lot about your character.
Her answer: Text
It's not too serious and awkward in person but very friendly.
Her answer: Absolutely not.
I have to eventually be comfortable around the mother for the relationship to work.
Her answer: Romantic
It's cute because you kind of know each other but there's still a sense of mystery.
Her answer: No
I like personality and you can't know a person's inner self without first getting to know them.
Her answer: Successful
Looks are temporary but a successful guy means that he's driven.
Her answer: Taller than me
I want to feel small next to him.
Her answer: A turn-off
That's nastyyy!
Her answer: One day
If it's too long, she'll forget and it'll be awkward. Too soon makes it too desperate.
Her answer: Three
It depends if she's conservative or liberal.