Deborah Lau / 23, La Jolla, CA
I'm a happy girl just trying to live her life to the fullest.


Deborah Lau's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Urban
  • Relationship status: Dating
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Getting By
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Roommates
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: Disorganized
  • Socialization: Average
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Nerdy,Fashionista
  • Makeup stance: Never leave the house without it
  • Hang Out: Cocktail Lounge
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 3/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 2/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Plays the Field

Deborah Lau's favorite drink

Traditional Cuba Libre

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Questions Deborah Lau has answered:

Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Again, that is unsanitary... wash your feet man!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
Sit still and control yourself!

Other questions from Dude 101 When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
We don't have that many partners to lie about.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
That is just gross and unsanitary.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Too much is a definite turn-off.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
Please look manly

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
Honestly, who doesn't want a hot muscly guy!!

Other questions from Dude 101 To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
Being in a relationship is always about learning more about each other and oneself.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Grow up and read real books.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
Traveling is always exciting but wait a couple of months so that you're comfortable with each other.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
I want to see which man wins!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Who?
Never heard of it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
It sounds like a very backward state.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Classic band!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Pleasantry
Honesty can sometimes hurt the other person so to play it safe, don't say anything mean.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's good to want to know about anything interesting happening. It shows that you care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
I love eloquence and I would love to be corrected to learn as long as you're not cocky about it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Find something you both enjoy. It doesn't matter but just be considerate.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
It's good to voice your opinions but any longer than 30 minutes will lead to an argument.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
Bringing up an ex just makes it awkward so please don't!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
It's good to have space since you're grown up but very important to keep in touch.

Other questions from Dude 101 How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
It's just an additional bonus but it's not that big of a deal.

Other questions from Nightlife How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
Tip according to service and time to day. Naturally, it's good to tip higher at dinner than lunch.

Other questions from Nightlife She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Show her you're a good dancer and she'll stay to dance.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
It's cute to be daring so if you two were eyeing each other all night, just do it. It wouldn't hurt.

Other questions from Nightlife We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
It shows that you're not wasting.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Please don't.
That's gross.

Other questions from Success Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Dinner time is eating time. Why do you need a phone? That's just rude.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: One month
If you're persistent enough, a month should be enough time to find another job.

Other questions from Style If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
It depends if you're qualified for the job.

Other questions from Success You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
It's fine to take a chance. You never know. They could be the one.

Other questions from Success If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: No chance, sorry!
Sorry, I do not want to be living in the streets begging for food.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
If they are manual labor jobs, then that’s a turn-off. But office jobs are good.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I don’t mind hearing but dont just only talk about your job.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
It helps to get the guy turned on.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Some guys can pull it off so just be confident and go for it :)

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
It would be a big turn-off to see a guy carry a ripping wallet.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Whenever.
Would you rather have a girl straighten her hair or just not brush it? You look better with gel.

Other questions from Style What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
I only like clean shaven guys

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
They’re ugly so just wear it when playing sports.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxers
I don’t want to see anything stick out yet.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Quick kiss is simple and should do.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
I like guys who are clean.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
If a person is mature, talking to an ex is okay. Just don’t ruin the current relationship.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The guy
Guys should always pay because it pleases them more.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I look at every picture
Looking at pictures are fun and says a lot about a person’s personality.

Other questions from Dating When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
You don’t want to scare off the other person and make it awkward so that stuff can wait.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
No, that’s creepy to stalk.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
Common sense.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
I think guys look at it daily to make themselves happy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Depends how great the girl is.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
That is just so gross. Please change daily…

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That would make it awkward. Respect his exes. You wouldn’t want him to do that to you.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
No because girls will talk and if the secret is out, you lose a good friend.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Okay, that is just embarrassing. Grow up!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
There’s nothing wrong with it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
It’s funny if you’re a good sport about it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I don’t expect too much so anything is fine as long as his brain is stimulating :)

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
It doesn’t really matter.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Cooler
It means you’re not shy so go for it!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: For the moneyed elite
It reflects your financial background.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
I love hearing about vacations and travelling experiences.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
You never know what a girl craves so being prepared is always a good thing.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 2nd
A little is okay to show your affection but be classy, not trashy!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Definitely
It means at least he's paying attention.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
That is just so gross. Use a restroom!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
Girls are more independent nowadays so it doesn't really matter.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
It's okay to borrow money ONCE in awhile, but don't forget to pay back!!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Make it a night he won't forget. :)

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Big meals are holy grail!

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Good drinks is a must. None of that cheap shit!

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
You could be using them. Just do it and both of you guys will have a good time :)

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Remove the soiled piece of clothing. Party on.
The party is probably going to be stuffy and hot so just take it off ;)

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: True
That's what I've always heard.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I don't want to lose it throughout the night by leaving it unattended or carry that baggage around.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Shots!
I hate beer/wine so if he's drinking shots with me, that would be really fun.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
I want him to have a respectable job so I can brag about it to my friends.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
Title secures everything and makes it more valid.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Higher
He needs to be able to support me.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
If you do something stupid while tipsy, it could screw up your reputation.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Most of the time, raises are political and not based as much on performance.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
Networking is the only way to get to know people.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
It shows that he's comfortable.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
I like clean-shaven guys.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
WTF.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I don't want it so tight that I could see bulges of muscle on his legs.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
So it could blend in.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Makes the feet look long and big like a duck.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
Your style says a lot about your character.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Text
It's not too serious and awkward in person but very friendly.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Absolutely not.
I have to eventually be comfortable around the mother for the relationship to work.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
It's cute because you kind of know each other but there's still a sense of mystery.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I like personality and you can't know a person's inner self without first getting to know them.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Successful
Looks are temporary but a successful guy means that he's driven.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I want to feel small next to him.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
That's nastyyy!

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: One day
If it's too long, she'll forget and it'll be awkward. Too soon makes it too desperate.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
It depends if she's conservative or liberal.

Other questions from Style

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