Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Its not so much as keep up with me, but keep up with yourself.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: An invigorating hike
So we'll hike, and then hike a little farther. And when no one can see us we can make it romantic.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
The past is the past, as long as you can leave it there, I can too.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
You can cook? Sexy. Cook for me. Bring me coffee in bed. Massage me. You're perfect.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
Even garlic is okay if I like you. If I don't, I'm sure anything you eat will bother me.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Is passionate and open about his love for me
As long as its mutual, it isn't annoying.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Though you should never lack the ability to be passionate about love.

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
Don't be a drip.

Other questions from Dating Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
But sometimes they need a little help.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I fidget. A lot. A lot lot lot.

Other questions from Dude 101 When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
And who is counting.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
If we've shared other things, I think you'll have to deal.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
I don't need to chill in your man stench 20 minutes after you've left.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
I don't mind the other hair, but if you do, go for it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
I like when you feel like concrete.

Other questions from Dude 101 To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: “I can show you the world”...
I also love Alladin.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
I think that comic book obsession is adorable.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Every relationship moves at different paces.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
I like guys who care about things.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
I like the ending. But I can't not LOVE goodfellas.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Everything has its good and bad.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I love me some beatles.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Honesty
Also.. what you don't know doesn't hurt. so use discretion.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
I like knowing whats going on when things are going on.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
As long as you're not judging.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
But Driver's vote is two points.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
And the right answers, are my answers.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
You have exes and you did things, so I think I can handle it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
If you like your mom you're more likely to be a nice guy to gals.

Other questions from Dude 101 How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
But it's impressive.

Other questions from Nightlife How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
How well did she do and it's okay to tip more than 20.

Other questions from Nightlife She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Maybe you got moves, or you can just laugh at yourself.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
Go for what you believe in.

Other questions from Nightlife We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
We don't need that little bit.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: The more garlic, the better.
It's good. We can brush and swish and then kiss.

Other questions from Success Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: If I do, take my lead.
so, how interested are you in me vs your phone?

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Effort can keep me off your backóbut don't expect I won't be constantly trying to help.

Other questions from Style If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
He can talk to you, if you're an honest, good, hard working person.

Other questions from Success You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
I don't like to mix it. So maybe in another life, or in my next job.

Other questions from Success If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
As long as you're not the starvig artist that doesn't even paint.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Depends on what you do.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I like that you like your job. I like even more that you have other interests.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I might questions if you’re straight if you wear the sexy undies.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Sometimes the boy who keeps that childish one can show he’s got that fun side.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
Just don’t use so much I can’t run my hands through it.

Other questions from Style What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Make it feel a little rougher when we smooch.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
Smelly feet are the unacceptable thing.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
I like seeing the shape of your butt.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
Nothing like sneaking out.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
I don’t want to wax. I’ll be nice, but no wax.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
Also depends on how the relationship ended. But if you forbid something, you only add energy to it.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
Doing it is on both of us, so whoever remembers, should get it—or no sex.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
Gotta envision that life together…

Other questions from Dating When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: First date
Or whenever. That’s the past—and people have pasts. Whatever.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: Yes
Extensively, and then I ask them questions I know the answers to.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
That’s law.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
And why not.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Friends deserve more love than they get.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
Sometimes it happens.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Unless you’re gonna marry her, hands off.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
What people don’t know, doesn’t hurt them.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
I hate ATM fees.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
I love Radio Lab.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
People need to be less sensitive.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
So cool to sound stoopid.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
He makes sense of nonsense.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Stupid question.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Live a little.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
bc I’ve been to greece, italy, france, london, scotland, alaska, hawaii, israel, tokyo, san juan…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I actually don’t really care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Seriously? You can’t wait?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
But he should.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
But in my office, i mean house, go for it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
I don't like touching doors.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
If they're friends they'll understand.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Power Tools?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
And darkness.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 4 bad
Come on.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
But it never fails to try.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Or not. Accidents happen.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Don't be a drunk. Grow up.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
But I'll hold the claim ticket.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
Why does the beer can have to be dented?

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
Just don't be lazy.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Douchey.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as you're not a bum.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Be nice. Be social. Work hard.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
And then practice talking about yourself.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
I don't like babysitting guys.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
I'd rather him bring me flowers... and candy.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
As long as it doesn't cut my lips up when we're smooching.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
You should just wear a thicker shirt if you need two.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
Jncos.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Don't wear socks.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
But I'm keeping all mine until they come back in.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
But I like when he looks nice.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Facebook
It's easier.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
You can date them, but it probably won't work out.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
It shows you have some balls.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Yes
Why not? I guess I haven't seen anyone right yet.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Strong
So I feel tiny and adorable.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
So I feel tiny and adorable.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
I like hair, though.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Just don't call back immediately over and over and over.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
But it all depends on what you're looking for in the girl.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: If he'd never find out, what's the harm?
If you do it. Never tell, ever - otherwise you're selfish.

Other questions from Dating Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
If you ever cared you can give that much.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
Unless you're sure it'll be forever.

Other questions from Dating At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 60s
Harrison Ford.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
I want it.

Other questions from Dating Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Yup
I like it.

Other questions from Dating How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Never
E-mail is private.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
I would hope this is why.

Other questions from Dating If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: It depends on the guy
I don't know if at the moment I'd trust them to tell me the truth about if they remembered to take it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: No
Variety is the spice of life.

Other questions from Dating How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: There's never a time when he shouldn't
Or at least shouldn't offer.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: A six pack of beer
The others depending on the guy seem pretentious.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Um, other.
Jaw. Penis. Eyes.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
They're dumb if they don't.

Other questions from Dating What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The opportunity to advance
Cause life is about winning.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Family
Why isn't there an other in this question?

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Hourly
Sometimes I try never to text.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
I don't care about this.

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: What recession?
Ballin.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: All of the above
Get me drunk.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A dive with a dart board and a pool table
I like to sit.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I'll take the bartender's suggestion
I don't like decisions.

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: I don't really care, as long as he brings back two
Viva la chivalry.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: I can twist off a cap or pop a top.
Boys can do it.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Two-fingered whistle
Again, why isn't there an other category?

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Fun
Unless you're douchey.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Cucumber
And not a lot of sugar.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mojito
Never had one.

Other questions from Nightlife