
Ashley Hayes / 24, Los Angeles, CA
I'm intelligent and fun-loving, what could be better?!

Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
As long as he's healthy, I'm good
Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
A walk at sunset sounds beautifully romantic
Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
Nothing trashy, that means no names, naked chicks, or barbed wire
Her answer: Always a good look
One less thing I have to do!
Her answer: Tofu and veggies ... the healthier the better
I like a vegan plate
Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Don't come on too strong, but let her know your interested
Her answer: Cool-headed
A cool-head allows him to think clearly about the situation.
Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
We should be enjoying this beautiful world together.
Her answer: After they graduate college
I think around 30. I figure. At 30 you should be in the right place in life.
Her answer: If it had serious potential.
Moving requires a serious commitment!
Her answer: Yes.
Very appreciated, just the thought alone is cute.
Her answer: Never.
I'd never say it's a requirement, but it's nice.
Her answer: No.
An ex is an ex for a reason.
Her answer: Yup.
If she's lonely and vulnerable, it's better to just send her a drink, and leave it at that.
Her answer: Yes.
Even if she doesn't care, do something so she knows you notice, appreciate, and care about her.
Her answer: Classless.
Buy me something that doesn't say 'sex.'
Her answer: Creepy.
After a week, you're still getting to know each other!
Her answer: Yes.
A short date is nice, but no movie and no dinner. Go out and do something fun!
Her answer: Fancy dinner
Celebrate the amazing year to come.
Her answer: The thought.
Always the thought that counts.
Her answer: Why not?
Mr. Why Not? For 2010.
Her answer: No, thanks
It's not mandatory.
Her answer: Overdress
You never want to be one underdressed at a party! Better to look fabulous.
Her answer: A few years into the relationship
You give gifts to family and friends. If they feel like either, then give a little gift.
Her answer: Separate
My parents are old fashioned, and I feel I have to respect their wishes.
Her answer: little too small?
'Does this make me look fat?'
Her answer: Cute
Sounds romantic.
Her answer: Rum punch
I can't drink eggnog. Gross.
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Do a weekly scrubbing.
Her answer: Hardly a habit
I fidget for sure.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
As long as it's about something intelligent.
Her answer: Honesty
Honesty is key to any relationship.
Her answer: Not at all
Let me make one!
Her answer: Full democracy
Should be a consensus.
Her answer: None of these
My favorite is Cape Fear.
Her answer: Use your finger
No thank you!
Her answer: Try not to fall
Just do your best and have fun.
Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
They get hit on all the time, I'd say it's just better to leave them alone.
Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
With the bad economy I'd say 3 months or less, especially if you don't have a lot in savings!
Her answer: Love it.
I can't hate something I know absolutely nothing about.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's good for the relationship, and for the self, so definitely yes.
Her answer: Five minutes.
Talking politics often leads to arguments. Cut it short and simple.
Her answer: Finish it.
Just finish it.
Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
If you are able to support yourself that's fine. You should be able to take a girl out though!
Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
We should have similar interests but be able to learn something new about each other every day.
Her answer: From across the room.
I'd rather smell a nice deodorant or something.
Her answer: Beatles
Such trend-setters.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
Clue people in on the little mistakes.
Her answer: Once a week
You should include her in your life, let her know what you're up to. Trust me, she wants to know.
Her answer: Why not?
I'd eat garlic, so yes.
Her answer: No way.
Definitely a no. If anything were to happen it could turn into a huge ordeal.
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
It all depends on whether it's a job or a career.
Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
I would love to hear about your job, interests and other hobbies.
Her answer: Nobody.
You're just taking them off anyways...
Her answer: If you want to look like a loser.
Blazers do not go with jeans. Just wear a nice shirt and you'll be fine.
Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
I hate seeing wallets literally held together by duct tape.
Her answer: Never!
Let it be all natural.
Her answer: Whenever
Just no socks with sandals!
Her answer: A kiss
A kiss just adds to the fun.
Her answer: TRUE
This is definitely a rule. If you don't trim at all, you can't expect her to.
Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
I really don't think you should speak to your ex. Nothing good can come of it.
Her answer: Split
If you want it, supply it.
Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
I like to know as much as possible about the guy.
Her answer: Under no circumstances.
Gross.
Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
Not a good idea to talk about ex girlfriends.
Her answer: Fifteen percent
10-20% is good manners.
Her answer: Yes.
It's so rude to take a call during dinner.
Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
If the attraction is mutual, go for it! Just let it be a sexy little secret!
Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
It's hard to always be honest.
Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
Any hairy part. I think too much hair is gross.
Her answer: Bigger than me.
As long as they're healthy it shouldn't matter.
Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Nerdy.
Her answer: After the 'L' word.
So romantic.
Her answer: Stubble
I like a little bit of scruff.
Her answer: Boxers
Tighty-whities aren't too sexy.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Once you're an item you have to talk about 'how many.'
Her answer: No
Most guys I know aren't even on Google.
Her answer: A turn-off
We know you can't help your genes, but I don't want to date my grandpa!
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I love good food, be prepared.
Her answer: Somewhat
We didn't get the hair cut for him!
Her answer: Less cool
I don't think anyone would wanna hear ME sing.
Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That's just an un-written rule.
Her answer: Indispensable
PBS is awesome.
Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
When holding it in is not an option.
Her answer: Hilarious
Love 40 Year-Old Virgin.
Her answer: Anything at all
Just read.
Her answer: Yep
What's 'news' ?
Her answer: Seriously?
Ask your mommy to buy you more.
Her answer: Don’t care
As long as it's ON THE ROLL!
Her answer: Daily
Are you kidding?
Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
Anyone that calls themselves a bro, usually isn't my type anyway.
Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Keeping your friend's secret will show her you can keep a secret.
Her answer: First come, first served.
Just be classy.
Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
Make sure you can pay for dinner, BEFORE dinner.
Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Anything special, just let them know how happy you are for them.
Her answer: A night on the town.
What could be better than a night out with me?
Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Coffee and cigarettes.
Her answer: No
Just be ready to take me to new places.
Her answer: 2 good
If it gets you drunk...
Her answer: Yes, it’s lame.
I might get chilly.
Her answer: No, they’re just using you.
If you want to waste money, go for it.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
I'll take a cocktail.
Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
Find another shirt.
Her answer: Overdress
No one wants to meet a bum on their first date.
Her answer: 60% of the time
All depends on the face.
Her answer: Of course
He should be happy with what he's doing!
Her answer: Stupid
Gross. Add popped collar to that
Her answer: No
What title? Everyone can be labeled.
Her answer: Out
Skinny jeans are not meant for men! Ew.
Her answer: Don’t care
Doesn't matter to me.
Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Jobs don't have to interfere with the social life.
Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Sell yourself as a vital part of the company. They'll see you deserve a raise.
Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Confidence is definitely key.
Her answer: Slacks
Match socks to the pants so it flows.
Her answer: Out
None
Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
There are definitely more important things.
Her answer: In person
In person, no question about it.
Her answer: Yep!
You're dating the man, not his momma.
Her answer: Romantic
If you see them every day, you obviously have something in common.
Her answer: Maybe?
Love at first sight doesn't mean it'll last.
Her answer: Smart
Love the smarts!
Her answer: Taller than me
Feeling like you're protected is great.
Her answer: A turn-off
I like a full head of hair.
Her answer: One day
There is no rule! If it went well, call her!
Her answer: Three
Three dates, unless you really hit it off.
Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
I love and respect my partner too much to sink that low!
Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
You owe the person a face-to-face convo.
Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
You don't want to shit where you eat.
Her answer: 60s
I love older men.
Her answer: If I found the right guy...
I don't believe in one soul mate per person, but rather a few...if you find that right one, sure!
Her answer: Nope
I like dating people I see on a day to day basis.
Her answer: Once in a while
I know I shouldn't, but if he leaves his page up, I'll peek!
Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
I try not to think that ALL men ONLY want sex...My man wanted more right from the start.
Her answer: Absolutely
I pray every day that this gets invented!
Her answer: Guys can never be satisfied.
Is anyone ever satisfied?
Her answer: There's never a time when he should
I believe you need to work that kind of stuff out during your first date.
Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
Very classy.
Her answer: Arms
I like a pair of strong arms to hold me tight and make me feel safe.
Her answer: Of course
Real men can show and share their emotions. There is nothing wrong with that!
Her answer: The opportunity to advance
I think it depends on how much it will advance your professional life.
Her answer: Career
If you enjoy what you do for a living, that to me is the ultimate status symbol.
Her answer: Weekly
I'll text when I think of them.
Her answer: I find them gross and I hope guys do as well.
Women shouldn't feel the need to have bigger boobs. Be happy with what you have.
Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
Well, I'm trying to cut back...
Her answer: With a twist
I love my drinks with juice.
Her answer: An outdoor rooftop with a beautiful view
A wonderful view of the city sounds gorgeous.
Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
I like to try new things.
Her answer: I don't really care, as long as he brings back two
I guess it's cool if you know what you like.
Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
I can make a mean cocktail!
Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
Lean farrr over.
Her answer: Lame
No thanks.
Her answer: Black and Blue (with blackberries and blueberries)
Mmmm delicious.
Her answer: Black & Blue Mojito
I love blueberries.
Her answer: Nice
This has been my most angelic year yet
Her answer: Yeah. A budget is best for the both of us.
We both had a really rough year, so we'll probably just make each other gifts!
Her answer: Fly solo
I don't go out on Black Friday, and would never force him to brave L.A stores on Black Friday!
Her answer: Other
No idea yet. Maybe stay in L.A with the boyfriend and tell our families we love them and miss them!
Her answer: Shopping
I buy buy buy during the season. Even when I have no money money money
Her answer: Carving the turkey
I like making dinner, but if he wants to carve the turkey, I'm down!
Her answer: Hitting the sack
Staying in L.A. where there's beaches and snow at Big Bear
Her answer: Lose
I may live in L.A but I'm FROM Detroit! And they will LOSE! Like always !!!
Her answer: Family time
I'm hoping to see my family. Family during the holidays is so important. Friends are family too
Her answer: Somewhere new
I don't go on first dates, but I like to try somewhere new
Her answer: Half the time we were dating
I hear it takes three months for each year you were together to get over it...
Her answer: No, I've seen this person naked.
It has NEVER worked for me!
Her answer: At a friend's party
That's where I met my man. I think either a party, or somewhere you both have something in common
Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
It's SO immature to constantly be changing your status. Just grow up, and figure your shit out first
Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
It's just like any other date, I guess...
Her answer: Very important
You have to be on the same level of spirituality
Her answer: Very important
I could never date a republican!
Her answer: Hot
Hahaha sexting is super sexy
Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
I am becoming a Marriage and Family Therapist, so I use my own style for sure. My parents are nuts!
Her answer: Tom Brady
Yes please
Her answer: Bassist
I like them all, but a sexy, shy bassist hits my weak spot
Her answer: Spicy
I like the spice
Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
I would consider
Her answer: He can play with his joystick alone
Ugh, they all play them, don't they. I'll join in on a few, but for the most part, leave me out.
Her answer: Cat person
I AM BOTH AND HAVE BOTH! I love all animals. Dogs are definitely more intense tho
Her answer: No. I'm the only one that needs a closet for my footwear in this relationship.
No no no no no no
Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
I love a nerd.
Her answer: Funny
I AM Ms Sarcasm
Her answer: I don't watch it
No thanks
Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
This is Los Angeles, Honey
Her answer: Joan
Joan has such sex appeal
Her answer: Don
Don Draper is the sexiest man alive!
Her answer: Thin Crust
Any pizza, as long as there's no cheese on it...
Her answer: Hard shell
Hard with lots of jalapeños
Her answer: Rock
Alternative, folk, post-mod, electro-pop, Indie music please
Her answer: 60s
60's and 70's however I'm all about what's new
Her answer: I don't watch it
No thanks
Her answer: Awesome idea!
I guess if you have the same taste in music it would work, however there is possibility for disaster
Her answer: I'm all for it
I love it. I love Mr. Moms
Her answer: Start-up
I like a man who creates his own success
Her answer: Love
Both please, but love is so important
Her answer: Across the country
I moved over 2,500 miles to begin my professional life. And it's been great so far!
Her answer: Yuck!
I cannot stomach sushi
Her answer: Roasted chicken
I'm a pretty good cook. Come over for dinner.
Her answer: He can fix it
If I don't want to deal with it, I'll pass it on to him
Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
I am very eco-conscious and like a man who appreciates Mother Earth
Her answer: Someone to come home to
I'm happy coming home to my man of six years.
Her answer: I love it!
Falling in love may just be chemical reactions in the brain but I'll take it.
Her answer: Very important
I need wit and sarcasm.
Her answer: Extremely important
Because of my profession I like talking about life and philosophy.
Her answer: Yes
Girls should never be afraid to ask a guy out.
Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
I haven't, but that's not saying I wouldn't.
Her answer: No.
You can encourage your man, and give him a work out buddy.
Her answer: No way!
A chat on the phone will do - we broke up for a reason.
Her answer: Nothing to talk about
There had to be mental simulation too!
Her answer: Touch: Give them a hug, massage or kiss
Studies show men respond better to physical touch, more so than words.
Her answer: No
Stay away from my man! Roar!
Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
As long as it makes him happy, and he spend enough time with me!
Her answer: I just don't care...at all
As long as there's no stank!
Her answer: Yes
I'm in love.
Her answer: Yes
As a significant other, he should be your best friend.
Her answer: No
That's a dating no-no.
Her answer: Yes
A hem! No flirting with extra women.
Her answer: Weird
I live my life the way I choose to, not based on what anyone else thinks.
Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
Feminism is in, but chivalry is not dead!
Her answer: Visual/spatial/artistic
I'm always torn between the artist and the scholar.