
Erika San Miguel / 32, Larkspur, CA
I am happiest when I am around people I don't know, talking to people whose language I don't speak and eating strange food. Bring it on!

Mojito
Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Physical activity is very important - fit body, fit mind
Her answer: Let's go jogging together!
I want a challenge, Bikram, anyone?
Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Keep it classy
Her answer: Always a good look
Apron on a guy is so HOT
Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
As long as he knows what he wants and goes for it.
Her answer: Is passionate and open about his love for me
I want someone who is expressive. Means what he says and says what he means, no games
Her answer: Cool-headed
Always calm, cool and collected, but always passionate about things he loves
Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
Someone who is observant and appreciative of the world around us and me as well
Her answer: There's no particular age
When the time is right - is when it's right. Use your best judgment.
Her answer: If it had serious potential.
I did it and it was well worth it!
Her answer: Yes.
Unless she's allergic.
Her answer: Never.
Quality vs. size on this one.
Her answer: No.
Once I am done, I am done. There's no looking back - onward and upward.
Her answer: Yes.
We women don't ever know what we want, so always go the safer route-at least get a box of chocolate.
Her answer: Classless.
I buy my own.
Her answer: Creepy.
It may be a bit too fast for weekend get-aways…
Her answer: No.
I am not a Valentine's Day person, too much pressure. I prefer spontaneous acts of romance.
Her answer: Cozy-up by the fire
I'm not one for parties. I could do parties from time to time but I am more comfortable at home.
Her answer: The thought.
Need I say more?
Her answer: No.
Tricky question... I may. Is he cute and funny?
Her answer: No, thanks
Depends on how long we've been dating. Work is where I spend most of my time and I'm protective.
Her answer: Overdress
Always aim high. No one ever got kicked out of a restaurant by being too dressed up.
Her answer: Once you're married
Until then it's not your problem to buy my parents presents.
Her answer: Separate
Out of respect. My dad still thinks I am 16.
Her answer: little too small?
Trust me.
Her answer: Cute
Cute when tasteful. One person is the limit. Can't walk around with it kissing everyone in sight.
Her answer: Eggnog
Eggnogg is a tradition in my family.
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
You mean you don't have pumice and foot lotions? What's wrong with you, caveman?
Her answer: Intensely annoying
Just TELL me.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
I love to see brains working. It's so hot. Intelligence is sexy. Too much nonsense talking is NOT.
Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
I like well balanced people.
Her answer: Not at all
Least of my worries.
Her answer: Full democracy
We should be able to collaborate. Even better if we have the same taste in music.
Her answer: Goodfellas
I haven't seen the Departed.
Her answer: Use your finger
NO WAY. That is disgusting!
Her answer: Show her your moves
I want to see your moves.
Her answer: If you're game for public humiliation.
Do not harass them in their place of work. You can mistake politeness with chemistry.
Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Shit happens.
Her answer: Love it.
...and hate it at the same time.
Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
I work in an awesome place. I seldom have bad days. Sometimes, it's nice to know you care.
Her answer: Ditch it.
Don't act desperate.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I understand and support creativity. These kinds of expressions make the world so awesome!
Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I want to learn from you and it would be nice if you are open to learn from me.
Her answer: When I'm close to you.
I like it when I smell cologne and/or perfume when I lean in to hug/kiss, not 4 feet away.
Her answer: Beatles
Listened to it since I was a kid.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
I do that sometimes. As long as you're not uncouth about it.
Her answer: Once a week
I like a man who is family oriented. Not a mama's boy. Just family oriented.
Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
We can cancel each other out.
Her answer: Maybe?
It depends on the circumstance.
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Past is past. People do things for a reason and never judge. Ever!
Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Job, money, car - let me just say - those do NOT impress me.
Her answer: Everybody.
It's a state of mind. If sexy underwear makes you feel sexy, go for it!
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Do whatever - as long as you shower and put deodorant on and look put together.
Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
I think the little details are important.
Her answer: Depends on his style.
Just don't overload it that I can't run my fingers through it.
Her answer: Whenever
I think they're sexy. I want to see someone in athletic socks with 2 stripes and nothing else.
Her answer: A tender embrace
I have never had a one night stand. I don' know how I would react to such an abrupt relation.
Her answer: TRUE
Grooming is very important.
Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
There are exceptions, like if they have children together. Like I said, past is past.
Her answer: Split
It benefits us both - so, it should be split.
Her answer: The bio section is enough
Once in a while a new picture from a family or friend pops up and I'll check it out.
Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
Tell me about it. No secrets.
Her answer: Tell the story, leave her out.
I suppose, it depends on the story. I can tolerate some but not all the time.
Her answer: Fifteen percent
If she/he is a good server, give 20% or more.
Her answer: No.
I want all of your attention when we're having dinner. It is disrespectful to me. Leave the phone
Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
“My cardinal rule for work: NEVER, EVER date a coworker or boss! ”
Her answer: Dead-on.
Benefit of the doubt. Innocent until proven guilty. This is not MTV.
Her answer: Everything.
I dont know if I can date someone with a hairy back. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
Her answer: Bigger than me.
I don't like guys that are too bulgy. I like them tall and lanky but toned.
Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Whatever rocks your boat.
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Spontaneity is nice.
Her answer: Stubble
I love the dirty look.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
...or nothing.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
I think it's nice to be open but sometimes - past should be past.
Her answer: No
I like the element of surprise, although, after the date if I was interested, I would Google them.
Her answer: Someone to come home to
I've always been the happiest when I have someone to shower love to and vice versa
Her answer: I like to just let it happen
I like things to happen organically.
Her answer: Very important
Are you kidding? That's my first requirement.
Her answer: Extremely important
If you can't pique my interest with a mentally stimulating conversation, you're out.
Her answer: No
I don't think I've asked anyone out myself but if I like someone I'll drop hints.
Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
This day and age, it doesn't hurt to know what they have out there in the ether...
Her answer: Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
I can't imagine not being physical and doing physically challenging things with my potential mate.
Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
If I didn't trust my man to be with ANY girl, I wouldn't be with him - that's including ex gfs.
Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Uncomfortable silences are the worse. If I wasn't physically attracted I at least gained a friend.
Her answer: Touch: Give them a hug, massage or kiss
I am a tactile person but I am also flowery with my words when I am in love.
Her answer: No
Going out to talk or dinner once in a blue moon is fine, but spending too much time is A NO NO.
Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
As long as it doesn't affect our time together.
Her answer: Important-ish
Sometimes the "natural" smell is the best -
Her answer: Yes
...and it feels amazing!
Her answer: Some
He doesn't need to know the mundane details, but checking in is a good thing.
Her answer: No
Once they've dated my friend/sister - they are a NO FLY ZONE.
Her answer: Yes
Depends on how intense it was but in general YES.
Her answer: Weird
It's all an abstract.
Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
I sure hope chivalry isn't dead. I am still old fashioned in that sense.
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Food, glorious food.
Her answer: 1st
There are things that should be done in the privacy of your own home.
Her answer: Somewhat
Depends on what I've done to it.
Her answer: The same
Just a fun thing to do. No judgments
Her answer: Depends
Ask your friend. Never, ever let a girl/guy come between your friendships.
Her answer: Indispensable
Free speech.
Her answer: Never
Just not right.
Her answer: Hilarious
Love his movies!
Her answer: Books
I like well-read guys.
Her answer: Yep
Not that important.
Her answer: Seriously?
Why are we discussing this?
Her answer: Don’t care
As long as there's toilet paper. Tomato TomAto.
Her answer: Once a week
I think I'm being conservative.
Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Always a time and place...always.
Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
Sharing is caring.
Her answer: You do.
Gentlemen: always a turn on.
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Always be prepared.
Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
It's the thought that counts. Buy them a gift when you've hit it rich!
Her answer: A night on the town.
But it also depends on who it is and what they're into.
Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
Moderation is a good mantra.
Her answer: No
Why not?
Her answer: Neither
I really don't know.
Her answer: 2 good
Quality instead of quantity.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Practicality.
Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
Only if you want.
Her answer: A dented can of beer
Rough is sexy, sometimes. Beer gut, never.
Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Was a flight attendant. This happened a lot in the plane.
Her answer: Don’t care
Just be yourself, but shower.
Her answer: Never
Love the scruffy look.
Her answer: Not really
No furtive thing going on (on the side). Honest way of living
Her answer: Insane
Big no no.
Her answer: No
Again, confidence and sense of humor.
Her answer: Don’t care
Just take care of your bills and don't mooch.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
It's good to socialize in a moderate way. Don't get drunk and stupid. Let your manners speak for you
Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Always, always do your due diligence—and practice your greatest sales pitch ever.
Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
I love guys that exude confidence.
Her answer: Slacks
Details, details, details.
Her answer: In
Only if you're a girl.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I like guys who can put on anything and make it look good and reflect their character.
Her answer: In person
Call me old-fashioned.
Her answer: Yep!
I'm not in a relationship with their mother.
Her answer: Romantic
Just don't be stalker—I've had those before—there's a fine line between romantic and creepy.
Her answer: Maybe?
Hasn't happened to me. I would love to think it is.
Her answer: Funny
Funny and Smart and Good Looking—I want the whole kit and caboodle.
Her answer: Taller than me
I just can't picture myself with a shorter man - matter of preference.
Her answer: Not a problem
Lack of sense of humor IS a problem.
Her answer: Immediately
This is actually a disclaimer to my answer: Call her if you feel like it - no games.
Her answer: Four
Depends on how you carry yourself throughout the date and how much I like your sense of humor.
Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
I believe in the law of the universe: KARMA
Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
Always in person. Need I say more?
Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
Never mix business with pleasure. It's not a good idea, EVER.
Her answer: 70+
I am a big believer of: You're only as good as your feel inside.
Her answer: If I found the right guy...
I've permanently turned off my biological clock. I do not feel societies pressure regarding this.
Her answer: I tried it once. Not for me.
Too much time spent online. I can't hang.
Her answer: Never
I look at his wall but I don't go to his messages, that's a bit excessive.
Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
I'd like to think we are all made of the same stuff...but I could be wrong
Her answer: Absolutely
I think men are regimen oriented just as much as women.
Her answer: Yes
I would hope so. Mine is.
Her answer: The first few dates
I think equality in a relationship is important. Both people should be able to contribute to it.
Her answer: A glass of fine Don Q Gran Añejo
What more can I say?
Her answer: Abs
I really like nice fingers and shapely calves..but abs will do.
Her answer: Of course
Showing your emotion makes you human, it doesn't gauge your manliness.
Her answer: The people
I have to feel comfortable where I work otherwise, the money and the opportunities will never matter.
Her answer: Family
I am family oriented.
Her answer: Daily
I keep in touch.
Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
NO matter what...
Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
FOR SURE.
Her answer: All of the above
Depends on my mood.
Her answer: A dive with a dart board and a pool table
I like comfy and down to earth.
Her answer: I don't really drink
I don't need to drink to have a good time.
Her answer: I don't really care, as long as he brings back two
I am not that nit picky.
Her answer: Lean all the way over the bar
A little cleave never hurts.
Her answer: Fun
Sometimes it is...
Her answer: Watermelon
OOOhhh yeah
Her answer: Cucumber Mojito
Cool and Refreshing.
Her answer: I can twist off a cap or pop a top.
Simplicity is beauty.
Her answer: A little of both
Time and place for everything-
Her answer: No way! The holidays happen once a year.
If it's expensive it's probably because it's worth it - Price is not a determination for me
Her answer: Fly solo
I like shopping by myself, besides, it's nicer to take your time and linger...
Her answer: Other
HAWAII - baby!!
Her answer: Sweets
I don’t party but I can eat.
Her answer: Opening the can of cranberry sauce
Or whatever he wants to contribute, as long as he contributes
Her answer: Hitting the beach
So not a winter girl...
Her answer: What?
Exactly.
Her answer: Chillaxing
With or without - definitely about chillaxing and reflection...
Her answer: Somewhere new
Surprise me!
Her answer: At least a year
Or for as long as it takes to find yourself again and get over the previous relationship
Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
Sure - anything is possible. Time heals all wounds. The more friends the better.
Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
I am currently with my future husband but if not, I won’t be judging where I meet him
Her answer: Right before we break up
Need I say more?
Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
Actually, I don’t believe in this rule - when the time is appropriate you will know...
Her answer: Not that important
There are far more important things that you should be looking for in a partner...like employment!
Her answer: Not that important
Sometimes, he could be misdirected - it's fun to have a repartee about politics now and again...
Her answer: Hot
Time and place...time and place
Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
I am my own person
Her answer: Neither
Not my types...
Her answer: Guitarist
I like the way they strum those strings and then move their hips...yummy
Her answer: Atomic
Burn baby, burn!
Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
I have one of my own, so, who am I to judge?
Her answer: He can play with his joystick alone
Not into it...I tried.
Her answer: Dog person
I love Dogs...I'm allergic to cat dander
Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
Who cares??? As long as they're not high heels.
Her answer: I draw the line at pocket protectors
I love a nerd, a geek, a dork, a dweeb...
Her answer: Rude
There are way too many smart asses in the world and not enough modest and well meaning ones...
Her answer: Edward
Bite my neck, por favor
Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
Or a bike...but no tandem bikes
Her answer: I don't watch it
Who are these people??
Her answer: Don
I dont know how he is as a character but he sure is HOT
Her answer: Deep Dish
I want something I can sink my teeth into...lots of pizza sauce.
Her answer: Soft shell
Hard shell shatters all over the place
Her answer: Reggae
Bob Marley, Rules!
Her answer: 70s
Bread, Beegees, etc.
Her answer: I don't watch it
Who are these peoples???
Her answer: Awesome idea!
Sure! Why not? The world is our oyster.
Her answer: I'm all for it
If it works, it works...don't knock it, don't judge it.
Her answer: Hedge fund
Start ups are shaky
Her answer: Both
Why can't I have both? This is my world!
Her answer: Around the world
Why not? Life is waiting to be had...new adventures= personal growth
Her answer: Sashimi (without rice)
White Tuna, Yellowtail, Salmon - OMG...my mouth is watering...
Her answer: Lobster Thermidor
Hey, can't a woman dream??
Her answer: I can fix it
For the most part, I try
Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Whatever he can do to contribute to mother earth
Her answer: Social/interpersonal
Love people with high emotional quotient. They are the best to talk to and be friends with.