Laura Lefkowitz / 35, New York, NY
I'm an attorney living on the Upper West Side of NYC.


Laura Lefkowitz's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Urban
  • Relationship status: Single
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: Grad School
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Taxi
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Lone Wolf
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: Less than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Fashionista
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Neighborhood Bar
  • Flavor of humor: Dirty
  • Her food: 4/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Plays the Field

Questions Laura Lefkowitz has answered:

Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Flowers are pretty and smile nice. Girls like that.

Other questions from Dating
How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
Required????? What?????

Other questions from Dating
Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
V-Day was no big deal to us.

Other questions from Dating
My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: No.
It's just another day.

Other questions from Dating
Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Classless.
Just not into the whole sexy lingerie thing. No judgment.

Other questions from Dating
We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
We've met for like 3 hours total. I don't know if I can spend marathon time with you yet. Flowers?

Other questions from Dating
Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
You'll be surrounded by lovey-dovey couples. If you dislike one another, it'll be uncomfortable!

Other questions from Dating
What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Cozy-up by the fire
NYE is overrated. It's 'amateur's night.'

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
The thought behind a gift is most important.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
A cute stranger, that is.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
An office party is usually pretty boring for a significant other.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
It usually cold and snowy. Comfort wins.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Once you're married
But seriously, shouldn't he be buying the gifts for his parents?

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
That's just how I do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too big?
I can always shrink it up.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Lame
Do people do that anymore?

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
No clever answer. I'm just not an eggnog fan.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
If you put soap on your feet you may slip and fall. The leftover soap and water does the trick.

Other questions from Dude 101 How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Somewhat important
It's nice to have a serious conversation every now and then.

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Cliché as it may sound--laughter really is the best medicine.

Other questions from Dating
What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
Depends on what is being fidgeted with...

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
A well spoken man is hot.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
Not USUALLY, no; it's been known to happen though...

Other questions from Dating
Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
If I didn't want to know, I wouldn't ask the question. Just don't be TOO brutal.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I'm a fabulous bartender. Leave it to me.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
Knowledge is power ;)

Other questions from Dating
Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Let's use both of our iPods. :)

Other questions from Mr. Manners If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
I love the teddy bear type.

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
I trust you...until you give me reason not to.

Other questions from Dating
What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Leo AND Mark Wahlberg AND Matt Damon. Yum.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
That's just creepy. I don't know why, but it just is. Ick.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
There is nothing worse than sitting in silence.

Other questions from Dating
She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
We just want to have fun. And an excuse to get a little closer.

Other questions from Dude 101 How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Actions speak the loudest in my opinion.

Other questions from Dating
Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
Go for it. Life is short.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
It's a bad economy. All I can ask is that you try your best. And don't ask to borrow all my saving

Other questions from Style Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: Yes
We have to define "a lot." I mean, they are probably exes for good reason.

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
I'm ambivalent, at best. The corn is tasty. And I loved Field of Dreams. Wasn't it shot there?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: No.
At this point in life, that's just a bit much.

Other questions from Dating
Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
I don't think any question is mandatory, but it's nice to know you care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Very damn important
Nice smelling man = such a turn on.

Other questions from Dating
How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
It's good to have debates, but it's also important to be whimsical and keep it light sometimes.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
Love is nice.

Other questions from Dating
We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
If you're thirsty, drink it; If not, toss it. Not a deal breaker.

Other questions from Nightlife In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
To a certain extent...he doesn't need to know what I ate for lunch, etc...

Other questions from Dating
If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
I love the struggling actors. It's a curse.

Other questions from Success Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: No
Off limits.

Other questions from Dating
To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I like to learn something new everyday. If you can be the one to show me, even better.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
A really hot girl flirted with my ex, and he was so flattered, it was adorable.

Other questions from Dating
What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
It should be something special just for me. Anything more gives me a headache.

Other questions from Dude 101 Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
What is "normal" anyway? Who wants to be average?

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I wanna hold your hand makes me melt.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I wanna hold your hand makes me melt.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
I'm a stickler for good grammar. I cannot stand when people misuse your/you're. Drives me nuts.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
Love it. Nothing wrong with treating a lady with a little respect.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
It's important to check in with mom.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
That's why they invented gum!

Other questions from Success Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Social/interpersonal
I like someone who can talk to anyone.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Let's see if we get past a couple of dates first, shall we?

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Bad!
It's important to know whether or not someone has staying power.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
I don't mind hearing about your work, especially if it's important to you.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: Nobody.
I'm all for cotton. Cotton is comfy.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It's a yuppy look, but a CUTE yuppy look.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
Women look at the little things to decipher a man's style. Every little bit counts.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
Touchable hair is the best. As long as it looks good and isn't too sticky or hard.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Leave the knee highs on the field/court.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
Let's avoid the ensuing awkwardness, please.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
C'mon boys...it's tit for tat. Literally.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
I'm friends with almost all of my exes.

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
We're grownups. It's the responsibility of all involved parties.

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I look at every picture
It's interesting to see if pictures of his ex are still up!

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I'm not your mother, not my job to tell you where you can and can't go. Have fun, but not too much

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
She came. She saw. She's gone. Who cares?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
I was a waitress. It was hard. I always leave a nice tip, and hope my date will as well.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Are you really THAT important?

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Business and pleasure do not mix...sad but true.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
Taking the fifth on this one...

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
I make the effort. Why cant you!?!?

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
Honestly, I really just like a good face and nice hands. But he should be taller than me.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
There is something about men and their comic books. I don't get it, but I don't judge it either.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Rules were made to be broken. Ask whenever it feels right.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
A five o'clock shadow is sexy and manly.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Enough coverage while snug in the right places. How can a girl resist?

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
I think this stuff comes out gradually over time. No need to have a 'discussion.'

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: Yes
I think it's important to have a little background info. Just don't tell your date that you Goog

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Someone to come home to
i need someone to snuggle with me--its really cold outside.

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I like to just let it happen
Que sera, sera.

Other questions from Dating
Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
If it goes under it hangs against the dirty bathroom wall. Ew.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
As they said in Avenue Q, 'the internet is for porn...'

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Good message, poor wording.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
I'm just being realistic. I know you boys like to turn them inside out on day 2.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
The body's not even cold. Not cool!

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
Sh*t happens. Not really a biggie.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
Maybe I'm lowbrow, but it just bores me.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
He is amazing and by the way, I want to marry Seth Rogen.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
It's so important for a man to be well read.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
He's hilarious and the world is too full of sad stuff already.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Never been, have no comment.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
It's important to see how others live.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
It's nice to know that a guy is well traveled, curious, etc.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Beer is enough
Beer is tasty.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Nothing under any clothing. Get a room!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
As long as he knows *something* is different. Boys don't understand haircuts and the like.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
I say only with a legitimate problem, but I had a boss with a legitimate problem and it was creepy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
Chivalry is dead ;)

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Your friends love you for who you are and *should* understand.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Boys and booze, you can't go wrong.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Used to be hair of the dog, but I'm getting too old for that.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Nothing beats a nice stiff drink.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
But don't be mad if the cute girls don't want to take the shots!

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Remove the soiled piece of clothing. Party on.
Everyone spills. No need to be embarassed.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
Too much of either and you're not so clear...

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Coats are expensive.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
A man with a glass of liquor straight up or on the rocks is just hot.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
As long as he's employed!

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Titles are just words.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
Money comes and goes.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Drinks with coworkers is the best place to get the office gossip!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
It's critical to be prepared and to show them you are serious.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Have a shot, it always helps.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Phone
Be a man, pick up a phone.

Other questions from Dating
First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
I like a man who makes an effort to look good for me.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Let the upper lip breathe...stop hiding, we can't.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Let the upper lip breathe...stop hiding, we can't.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
No such thing as '2 popped collars cool.'

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I don't want to know that his legs are skinnier than mine!

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
As long as they match some article of clothing, it's all good...

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Pointy shoes on men? Not cute...

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
A guy's style can tell you a lot about him.

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
As long as she lives in another state.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Why not, life is short.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
There is only lust at first sight

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
Humor makes everything easier.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I'm tall, I like a tall man.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
We are all getting older.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
No need to play by any hard and fast rules.

Other questions from Style

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