
Heather Callan / 25, Chicago, IL
I'm a dreamer and then a doer, always planning my next big move. For example, my last job was working as a sheepherder in Norway.

Traditional Cuba Libre
Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
Take care of the one body you have, but no need to focus your life around working out.
Her answer: An invigorating hike
A hike in the woods, a bike ride along a river or even some white water rafting would be a blast.
Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
I would never want a guy to tattoo my name on his body, so not a good sign if it's some other gal.
Her answer: Always a good look
You don't need to be a perfect chef, but dinner at home is cheap and him making the effort is great.
Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
I love meat.
Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Too heavy too early is a total turn off, but if I don't think you like me then I'm sticking around.
Her answer: Cool-headed
I'm emotional. He needs to be my rock and reality check.
Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
When my guy looks me in the eyes it always feel great, however if he never took his eyes off me...
Her answer: Big party
You gotta go all out.
Her answer: The thought.
I'm broke too. I'll understand.
Her answer: Why not?
Only comes once a year!
Her answer: No, thanks
It depends. Will it be fun? I don't want to go if it won't be fun.
Her answer: Overdress
NYE!!!! Go all out in every way!
Her answer: Once you're married
Wait until you're family.
Her answer: Separate
You'll survive a couple of nights in seperate beds. Respect your elders. :)
Her answer: little too small?
Also, don't ask a ladies weight.
Her answer: Cute
Just make sure the person WANTS to kiss you before you bust it out.
Her answer: Eggnog
Christmas is not Christmas without eggnogg!
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
And behind your ears too!
Her answer: Hardly a habit
Nervousness can be endearing. Hyper can be a bother.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
An intelligent and well-spoken man is one of the best.
Her answer: Honesty
My last boyfriend was BLUNT! I really grew to like and respect it.
Her answer: Not at all
I can't make any fancy cocktails.
Her answer: Full democracy
Battles over tunage are some of the best! Road trip!
Her answer: The Departed
Intense!
Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
I'm only into guys with good hygiene anyways.
Her answer: Show her your moves
So what if you can't dance? If she wants to dance with you, let loose, and have fun!
Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
Chances are they are just doing their job. Wait 'til they get off.
Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Hopefully, you are with a cool, down to earth girl that behaves rationally.
Her answer: Hate it.
I've never been. Not sure I could get down though.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It is nice, though.
Her answer: 90+ minutes.
The more you know, the more attractive you are... within reason.
Her answer: Ditch it.
Not a big fan of chugging.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
If you are realistic and passionate about what you do, I don't care what it is, that's great.
Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
If you can get a balance of learning equally from one another, you are in a great place.
Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Too much is the worst.
Her answer: Beatles
Great stuff.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
Just do it later, in private, no need to set out to embarass someone.
Her answer: Once a week
My mom is important to me.
Her answer: Once a week
My mom is important to me.
Her answer: Why not?
Garlic makes a lot of dishes so yummy.
Her answer: Maybe?
If couples get close to each other's families and a 'hook up' is offered by the parents then that's
Her answer: Good!
I'm always moving to a new place, starting a new experience. It is exciting!
Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I'm going to want to hear about all areas of your life, don't focus the whole night on your job.
Her answer: Nobody.
If you feel good in it, you look good in it.
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
I say do what you want, but I don't think I really like the look.
Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
I never really notice a guy's wallet.
Her answer: Depends on his style.
I've seen it work both ways, just be confident with whatever you choose.
Her answer: Whenever
I wear mismatched, multicolored socks all the time. :O)
Her answer: A high five before I get in a cab
Not sure, not my style.
Her answer: FALSE
It is their bodies.
Her answer: Just don't cheat.
It is great when two people can break up but stay friends.
Her answer: Split
That's fair.
Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
You're a big boy, I'm not going to tell you what to do.
Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
No need to get worked about stuff like that. You should be able to trust one another.
Her answer: Fifteen percent
Wish it was Europe.
Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
The chances of it going wrong are high, and that is unenjoyable for everyone in the office.
Her answer: Dead-on.
I'm not totally sure.
Her answer: Leave it natural.
I don't like shaving either.
Her answer: Bigger than me.
I'm short and curvy, I want my guy to make me feel small.
Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Of course!!!! X-Men for life!
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Depends on the couple and what kind of weekend away it is.
Her answer: Stubble
It's juuust right.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
They seem comfortable.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
There are more important things in a couple's relationship then rushing into the sexual stuff.
Her answer: No
That is just not necessary.
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Not a turn on if you can't even provide a life neccesity for yourself.
Her answer: 1st
No need to share that with others when you are the only two participating.
Her answer: Not at all
Girls are always tweaking and adjusting. I can't even notice everything among my friends that is cha
Her answer: Cooler
I have an appreciation for local and live music as well.
Her answer: Depends
Take care of your boy first.
Her answer: Indispensable
NPR junky for life!
Her answer: Never
I take that back... if you are under 4 years old it would be OK.
Her answer: Hilarious
He is over the top sometimes, but at least when he is insulting it is a joke.
Her answer: Anything at all
As long as your are reading about something you can learn from, it's cool.
Her answer: Nope.
Jon Stewart can be your main source, but you've got to back him up with something else.
Her answer: 1 day
No need to elaborate.
Her answer: Don’t care
Still serves the same purpose.
Her answer: Never
I'd prefer not to think about it.
Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
Just be a good friend and boyfriend. If you can't figure it out, I can't help you.
Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Respect your friend. Do you tell your best buddy everything your girlfriend tells you?
Her answer: First come, first served.
Avoid awkward situations.
Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
No worries. As long as it is taken care of, it is taken care of.
Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Taking them out means you get to spend time with them.
Her answer: A night on the town.
Everyone wants a night out, a change of pace, plus you can go with them!
Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
Enjoy responsibly.
Her answer: No
It depends on your delivery. If you are doing it to show off, then yes.
Her answer: Neither
Don't drink too much!
Her answer: 2 good
A night out should be enjoyable. It should not be tolerating bad drinks just to get drunk.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
If you came over to my house I would expect you to hang it up, not throw it over the sofa.
Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
Talk to them first. Don't send the wrong message with your first encounter.
Her answer: Red Wine
This implies he enjoys a drink or two and is not out to party like a college boy.
Her answer: Wear it with pride.
Everybody spills, trips, snorts, makes bad jokes, so move on!
Her answer: Overdress
If he overdresses then it tells me he is taking this seriously. Being prepared is never bad.
Her answer: 60% of the time
If the mustache is well kept and you are confident with it as part of your look, then good for you!
Her answer: Of course
I care in that it is a part of him and who he is. I will also care what his hobbies are.
Her answer: No
My title doesn't define who I am, so why should I expect yours to define you?
Her answer: Don’t care
I'm dating him for that reason.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
I don't believe in schmoozing, but creating healthy relationships allows for a better environment.
Her answer: Out
I'm curvy, my guy can't be the 'skinny' one.
Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
They will already be familiar with your work. When you meet, display some additional knowledge.
Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
It is unavoidable, but also understandable that you would want to use your support network.
Her answer: Who cares?
Just make sure your clothes are clean and fit you.
Her answer: Out
A square toe is handsome, but pointy? I don't think so.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
It shouldn't be his #1 priority but he should have enough confidence to want to take care of himself
Her answer: In person
This should be a given.
Her answer: Yep!
I'm not dating his mother and his mother is not dating me.
Her answer: Romantic
Everyone in your life (except maybe family) was a stranger at some point.
Her answer: No
All that implies is that you were instantly attracted to one another physically.
Her answer: Smart
I want my guy to challenge me. I'm an intelligent woman and he needs to be able to keep up.
Her answer: Taller than me
I am a shorter woman with some extra curve. A taller man makes me feel petite.
Her answer: Not a problem
As long as you take care of yourself, stuff like that doesn't matter.
Her answer: Immediately
Never play games! If you made a new friend would you wait to call them back?
Her answer: One
Inviting a girl up should not imply anything other than, 'I just want to keep hanging with you.'
Her answer: Someone to come home to
I'm looking for my best friend and life long partner in crime. :)
Her answer: I love it!
I've never really fallen in love, but I'm interested. Done right, I think it could be great.
Her answer: Very important
Make me laugh when the rest of my day didn't!
Her answer: Extremely important
I've got a brain, I use it all day everyday and I want you to keep up.
Her answer: Yes
It takes me a little while, but if I'm seeing a friendship growing easily I will make the move. ;)
Her answer: No. Why spoil the mystery?
I don't think it's a bad idea, I've just never done it.
Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
I want to live a long and happy life with my husband one day.
Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
It depends on how long they dated, how serious it was and how long ago they broke up.
Her answer: No physical attraction
I have to be confident that eventually it can grow past friendship and into romance.
Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
I like to make things with my hands that would be useful to my friends, family or boyfriend.
Her answer: No
I'd like to think yes, but I don't know for sure. It depends on a lot of variables.
Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
I would, but my brothers are this way and it gets hard sometimes to spend time with them, etc.
Her answer: Very damn important
Be clean!
Her answer: No
I once cared deeply for someone, but always knew we wouldn't stay together.
Her answer: Some
These details will naturally be shared just by spending time together, no need for extra sharing.
Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
In general I try to put my friends and other women first. Too often women sabotage each other.
Her answer: No
I hope to be with someone outgoing and friendly, but I also hope he respects me enough to not push it.
Her answer: Weird
Hard to say. If normal is dull, then no. If weird is socially awkward, then no. Can I be quirky? :)
Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
It's a form of respect and adoration. I want both.
Her answer: Logical/mathematical
I want a smart man that demonstrates his intelligence in a way I usually don't. Balance me out.