Heather Callan / 25, Chicago, IL
I'm a dreamer and then a doer, always planning my next big move. For example, my last job was working as a sheepherder in Norway.


Heather Callan's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Suburban
  • Relationship status: Single
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Bike
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Roommates
  • Outlook: Optimist
  • Politics: No Thanks
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: Less than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Outdoorsy,Arty
  • Makeup stance: All-Natural
  • Hang Out: Neighborhood Bar
  • Flavor of humor: Goofy
  • Her food: 5/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 2/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for:
  • Dating style: Plays the Field

Heather Callan's favorite drink

Traditional Cuba Libre

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Questions Heather Callan has answered:

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
Take care of the one body you have, but no need to focus your life around working out.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: An invigorating hike
A hike in the woods, a bike ride along a river or even some white water rafting would be a blast.

Other questions from Dating
When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
I would never want a guy to tattoo my name on his body, so not a good sign if it's some other gal.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
You don't need to be a perfect chef, but dinner at home is cheap and him making the effort is great.

Other questions from Dating
When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
I love meat.

Other questions from Dating
During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Too heavy too early is a total turn off, but if I don't think you like me then I'm sticking around.

Other questions from Dating
In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
I'm emotional. He needs to be my rock and reality check.

Other questions from Dating
When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
When my guy looks me in the eyes it always feel great, however if he never took his eyes off me...

Other questions from Dating
What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
You gotta go all out.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
I'm broke too. I'll understand.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
Only comes once a year!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
It depends. Will it be fun? I don't want to go if it won't be fun.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
NYE!!!! Go all out in every way!

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Once you're married
Wait until you're family.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
You'll survive a couple of nights in seperate beds. Respect your elders. :)

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
Also, don't ask a ladies weight.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
Just make sure the person WANTS to kiss you before you bust it out.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Eggnog
Christmas is not Christmas without eggnogg!

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
And behind your ears too!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
Nervousness can be endearing. Hyper can be a bother.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
An intelligent and well-spoken man is one of the best.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Honesty
My last boyfriend was BLUNT! I really grew to like and respect it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I can't make any fancy cocktails.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Battles over tunage are some of the best! Road trip!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Intense!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
I'm only into guys with good hygiene anyways.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
So what if you can't dance? If she wants to dance with you, let loose, and have fun!

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
Chances are they are just doing their job. Wait 'til they get off.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Hopefully, you are with a cool, down to earth girl that behaves rationally.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
I've never been. Not sure I could get down though.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It is nice, though.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
The more you know, the more attractive you are... within reason.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
Not a big fan of chugging.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
If you are realistic and passionate about what you do, I don't care what it is, that's great.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
If you can get a balance of learning equally from one another, you are in a great place.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Too much is the worst.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Great stuff.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
Just do it later, in private, no need to set out to embarass someone.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
My mom is important to me.

Other questions from Dude 101 How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
My mom is important to me.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
Garlic makes a lot of dishes so yummy.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
If couples get close to each other's families and a 'hook up' is offered by the parents then that's

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Good!
I'm always moving to a new place, starting a new experience. It is exciting!

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I'm going to want to hear about all areas of your life, don't focus the whole night on your job.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: Nobody.
If you feel good in it, you look good in it.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
I say do what you want, but I don't think I really like the look.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
I never really notice a guy's wallet.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
I've seen it work both ways, just be confident with whatever you choose.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
I wear mismatched, multicolored socks all the time. :O)

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A high five before I get in a cab
Not sure, not my style.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
It is their bodies.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
It is great when two people can break up but stay friends.

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
That's fair.

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
You're a big boy, I'm not going to tell you what to do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
No need to get worked about stuff like that. You should be able to trust one another.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Fifteen percent
Wish it was Europe.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
The chances of it going wrong are high, and that is unenjoyable for everyone in the office.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
I'm not totally sure.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Leave it natural.
I don't like shaving either.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
I'm short and curvy, I want my guy to make me feel small.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Of course!!!! X-Men for life!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Depends on the couple and what kind of weekend away it is.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
It's juuust right.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
They seem comfortable.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
There are more important things in a couple's relationship then rushing into the sexual stuff.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
That is just not necessary.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Not a turn on if you can't even provide a life neccesity for yourself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
No need to share that with others when you are the only two participating.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
Girls are always tweaking and adjusting. I can't even notice everything among my friends that is cha

Other questions from Mr. Manners Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Cooler
I have an appreciation for local and live music as well.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
Take care of your boy first.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
NPR junky for life!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
I take that back... if you are under 4 years old it would be OK.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
He is over the top sometimes, but at least when he is insulting it is a joke.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
As long as your are reading about something you can learn from, it's cool.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
Jon Stewart can be your main source, but you've got to back him up with something else.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
No need to elaborate.

Other questions from Dude 101 Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
Still serves the same purpose.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Never
I'd prefer not to think about it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
Just be a good friend and boyfriend. If you can't figure it out, I can't help you.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Respect your friend. Do you tell your best buddy everything your girlfriend tells you?

Other questions from Dude 101 Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
Avoid awkward situations.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
No worries. As long as it is taken care of, it is taken care of.

Other questions from Dude 101 My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Taking them out means you get to spend time with them.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Everyone wants a night out, a change of pace, plus you can go with them!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
Enjoy responsibly.

Other questions from Nightlife Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
It depends on your delivery. If you are doing it to show off, then yes.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Don't drink too much!

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
A night out should be enjoyable. It should not be tolerating bad drinks just to get drunk.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
If you came over to my house I would expect you to hang it up, not throw it over the sofa.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
Talk to them first. Don't send the wrong message with your first encounter.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Red Wine
This implies he enjoys a drink or two and is not out to party like a college boy.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Wear it with pride.
Everybody spills, trips, snorts, makes bad jokes, so move on!

Other questions from Nightlife First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
If he overdresses then it tells me he is taking this seriously. Being prepared is never bad.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
If the mustache is well kept and you are confident with it as part of your look, then good for you!

Other questions from Style Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
I care in that it is a part of him and who he is. I will also care what his hobbies are.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
My title doesn't define who I am, so why should I expect yours to define you?

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
I'm dating him for that reason.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
I don't believe in schmoozing, but creating healthy relationships allows for a better environment.

Other questions from Success Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I'm curvy, my guy can't be the 'skinny' one.

Other questions from Style I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
They will already be familiar with your work. When you meet, display some additional knowledge.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
It is unavoidable, but also understandable that you would want to use your support network.

Other questions from Success Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Just make sure your clothes are clean and fit you.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
A square toe is handsome, but pointy? I don't think so.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
It shouldn't be his #1 priority but he should have enough confidence to want to take care of himself

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
This should be a given.

Other questions from Dating
Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
I'm not dating his mother and his mother is not dating me.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Everyone in your life (except maybe family) was a stranger at some point.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
All that implies is that you were instantly attracted to one another physically.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
I want my guy to challenge me. I'm an intelligent woman and he needs to be able to keep up.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I am a shorter woman with some extra curve. A taller man makes me feel petite.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
As long as you take care of yourself, stuff like that doesn't matter.

Other questions from Dating
How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Never play games! If you made a new friend would you wait to call them back?

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
Inviting a girl up should not imply anything other than, 'I just want to keep hanging with you.'

Other questions from Style Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Someone to come home to
I'm looking for my best friend and life long partner in crime. :)

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I love it!
I've never really fallen in love, but I'm interested. Done right, I think it could be great.

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Make me laugh when the rest of my day didn't!

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Extremely important
I've got a brain, I use it all day everyday and I want you to keep up.

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: Yes
It takes me a little while, but if I'm seeing a friendship growing easily I will make the move. ;)

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: No. Why spoil the mystery?
I don't think it's a bad idea, I've just never done it.

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
I want to live a long and happy life with my husband one day.

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
It depends on how long they dated, how serious it was and how long ago they broke up.

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: No physical attraction
I have to be confident that eventually it can grow past friendship and into romance.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
I like to make things with my hands that would be useful to my friends, family or boyfriend.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: No
I'd like to think yes, but I don't know for sure. It depends on a lot of variables.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
I would, but my brothers are this way and it gets hard sometimes to spend time with them, etc.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Very damn important
Be clean!

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: No
I once cared deeply for someone, but always knew we wouldn't stay together.

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Some
These details will naturally be shared just by spending time together, no need for extra sharing.

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
In general I try to put my friends and other women first. Too often women sabotage each other.

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
I hope to be with someone outgoing and friendly, but I also hope he respects me enough to not push it.

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
Hard to say. If normal is dull, then no. If weird is socially awkward, then no. Can I be quirky? :)

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
It's a form of respect and adoration. I want both.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Logical/mathematical
I want a smart man that demonstrates his intelligence in a way I usually don't. Balance me out.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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