Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Seriously? I didn't know guys didn't wash their feet EVERY time.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I've never even thought about this.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
And if it's too heated, uncomfortable as well. I'm not big on confrontation.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
These two really should go together most of the time.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Now, it's good if he's okay at drinking them every once in awhile.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
The driver can 'pull rank' though.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Goodfellas is a classic. It needs to be revisited though.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
When you've been together for awhile, this isn't a big deal every now and then.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
It's not about the dance moves, it's about having a good time and not caring what anyone thinks.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
You never know where you'll meet that special someone, just don't become a creepy customer.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
As long as you're actively searching, a great girlfriend will be understanding and supportive.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
I've only been for football games and I loved them.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
But it's nice and don't you want to know? We want to hear about your day too.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
Talking, debating and arguing are very different things; it depends on the personalities involved.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
If we've got to leave before you finish, there's no need to chug - we're not at a frat party.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
It's not about the money, it's about the company.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
While it's great to have some mutual interests, it's also fun to learn new things from each other.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Less is more.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
Unless you're just giving your buddies a hard time - otherwise, this is plain rude.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Every day seems a little 'momma's boy' once you've grown up.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
I wouldn't eat it every night but once in a while is no big deal.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
This depends on the relationship and the size of the business.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Versatility and experience are great. Not being able to keep a job is a different story.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
Although a man who is passionate about what he does, is sexy.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Sexy underwear for men is an oxymoron.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It's a versatile look and easy to throw on.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
As long as your wallet doesn't have velcro, I think it's all good.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
For a little bit of shape, sure. For cementing to the head, not so much.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
And never never in the bedroom.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
IF I have one, there's no need to be nonchalant/ashamed. If we had sex, we can kiss goodbye.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
This is definitely an equal opportunity issue.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
Unless it was a nasty breakup, there's a reason you were together. Staying friends makes sense.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The girl
I cover the pill, he should cover his side.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
It's too easy to get caught up and blow things out of proportion by poring over Facebook details.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
And if you want to go to a strip club on a regular basis, that's a problem.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
We had a life before we met each other, and that's ok!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
This is how they make their living, and if the service is good, they should be paid for it.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Unless you're expecting an important call, the Blackberry can take a break for an hour or two.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
You're just asking for trouble. And potential unemployment.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
Most of us really don't have anything to hide.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
It doesn't have to be perfect, but a little grooming goes a long way.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
And I don't want someone too obsessed with fitness.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
I'm sory but this is one type of literature I can't get into.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
Unless you're spending all of your time together, a weekend away can be a little much at first.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
But not everyday, that's just lazy.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Sexy without trying too hard.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
It's a little presumptuous to cover this on a first date but it certainly is warranted.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Although if I haven't met them before, I might.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
It's just neater that way.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Monthly
Moderation is key.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
The saying itself is ridiculous.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
Go commmando if you haven't done laundry.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
If she was a serious girlfriend, don't even think about it.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Unless it directly affects your girlfriend, some things should stay between friends.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
If you're with friends, acceptable. On a date, not so much.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
NPR is great and exposes you to corners of the world you wouldn't necessarily explore on your own.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Although I wouldn't want a guy to act like his characters most of the time.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
As long as a guy anything on a regular basis, he's probably well-rounded and intelligent.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
He's awesome but a little more substance is important.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It's not for me but I'm not opposed to the idea.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
Experiencing a different culture really expands your mind and puts life in perspective.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
As long as you aren't overtly bragging, I love to hear about your adventures.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
Drinks and snacks are a necessity - 'real' food is a bonus =)

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 3rd
I don't want someone pawing all over me in public but a little affection is cute.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
As long as he thinks I look great, I don't care if he notices the little things.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Gross.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
It may be old-school but it's sweet.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
A card may get lost in the wedding craziness; catching up is a great way to celebrate their new life

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
There's nothing better than spending your birthday with good friends.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Which should include a strong coffee, blueberry pancakes. And a bloody mary.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
You'll thank yourself in the morning.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
There are exceptions to the rule, but usually this doesn't get you anywhere with girls you actually

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
It works, I promise!

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Too much of anything, and you're never in the clear.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Only if you're somewhere with an official coat check; otherwise, you just seem too fancy and high-ma

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Red Wine
But I work for a winery so I'm biased - and I love having a Guinness too.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
I find it attractive when a guy is successful and loves what he does.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
I think titles can be limiting - both in terms of what others think of you and what you expect of yo

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
I only want to be with a guy who is independent, driven, and focused on the future. What he has in

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
This may not be the case in all industries, but in my work, this is one of the best ways to get to k

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Highlight your accomplishments - your employer will see how valuable you are to the company.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Practice your elevator speech until it’s natural.
Remember that most people feel the same way and find a way to connect... from there, it's easy.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Phone
Sometimes asking in person could be awkward and text/facebook can leave much interpretation..

Other questions from Dating First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
Within reason but I'd hate for a guy to look like he put more time into getting ready than I did.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Unless it's paired with a little bit of scruff... not as a staple though.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
And please don't pop the collars, ridiculous.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I think guys should leave tight-fitting pants to the ladies.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Unless you're wearing athletic socks with dress shoes, I'm not worried.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
If you know how to wear them - otherwise, I'd rather see you in a pair of Reefs.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
I don't want to date a guy who is completely clueless, fashion isn't the most important thing I look

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
It would be difficult to develop a serious relationship if I couldn't feel like a part of his family

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Although, this could also be bordering on weird... especially if it becomes a habit.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
An intense connection can start at first sight but to develop a meaningful relationship, you have to

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Successful
And this doesn't mean successful financially but I love it when a guy is proud of what he does.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
At least when I'm wearing heels... I don't want to feel like a giant.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
But that's a personal preference and certainly isn't a deal-breaker with the right person.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
Although there are no set rules - depends on the chemistry and the circumstances.

Other questions from Style

In order to experience the full Don Q content, Flash Player 10 is required.

Get it here or follow this link to bypass the detection if you know you have it installed

© 2010 Don Q | Don Q Home | Contact Us | Destilería Serrallés

Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy

¿Buscando el sitio de web puertorriqueño?

• @DonQ |
• @LadyData |
• foursquare |
• Buzzfeed |
• Facebook |
• Tumblr