Samantha Conniff / 24, Brooklyn, NY
I just moved to Brooklyn, just graduated from college, and just got a new job.


Samantha Conniff's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Rural
  • Relationship status: Serious
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Taxi
  • Work: Career
  • Current living situation: Roommates
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: No Thanks
  • Socialization: Average
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: Less than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Hipster,Outdoorsy
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Neighborhood Bar
  • Flavor of humor: Goofy
  • Her food: 3/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 2/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Normal
  • Dating style: Long-Term Relationships

Questions Samantha Conniff has answered:

What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: There's no particular age
Sometimes earlier, sometimes later. Although, I do think later can sometimes be better

Other questions from Dating
Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Please. It doesn't take much more effort.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I can't judge...I fidget.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Normally, unless they are pretentious.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Honesty
Honest but tactful.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I couldn't care less. If I want a fancy cocktail, we can find a nice bar.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Everyone should get to contribute.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
It was super entertaining/riveting.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
I'd prefer not.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Confidence can be hot... as long as dancing isn't too much of a stretch.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
It can happen... just be wary.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
It definitely depends on savings and if you have a plan/motivation.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
I don't feel strongly either way... although I can't say I'd ever want to live there.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
Not necessary...but can be nice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
Perhaps longer...depends on the topic.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Only in very rare circumstance do I not finish it.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
Slim chance...but a chance.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
They should be somewhat aligned... but you still should be individuals.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Subtle, please.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
No one can compare to the Beatles...even the Stones.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
Sometimes it can be hard not to...just need some self control...

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
More often is a bit creepy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
If you love something, why hide it? What do you think gum and mints are for?

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
My dad would never do that... but I could give it a try.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Good!
It depends on the job.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
It depends on whether it is genuinely interesting

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Sexy underwear for guys is a definite no.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It can look good/sharp.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
As long as it is decent.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
It can work...but don't overdo it.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Otherwise, they aren't too attractive.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
That seems about right.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
Not necessarily.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
It's nice to check up on someone that you were super close with.

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
It shouldn't be up to one sex or another, both people are responsible.

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
It was admittedly more intense in college.

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
Still...it's gross.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
But I might get a little annoyed...

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
Unless it is horrible service..remember how little they make an hour.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: Yes.
For emergencies only.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Bad idea.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
I haven't the slightest idea..depends on the person.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy neck & back.
I'd like to pretend that doesn't exist.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
But not too big...more of a athletic build. Tall is nice too.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
It is okay if you like them...but art and culture is going a bit too far.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
It depends. You should definitely be serious and know that she's into you too.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
Clean shaven is the only way.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Tighty-Whities
I don't really care, as long as it isn't something super strange.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Those things should stay private until necessary.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
That is verging on creepy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
I think....I've never thought about it too much.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
n/a

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
n/a

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Monthly
I'm sure that it really varies depending on the guy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Silliness
It is ok...only in jest.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
1 day. Period.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
I don't think there are any exceptions.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
It is always best to keep secrets...unless you need advice about it, keep it to yourself.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
It happens..people understand.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
It's important.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Offensive
I honestly don't know who that is...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
Smarts and interests are always attractive.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
One news source is never a good idea. Avoid.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It is just another activity.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Everyone should take the chance if they have it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
It can. It depends on the context.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I keep it stocked to cook during the week.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
I'm out of practice on bases...but PDA should be kept to a minimum.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
It is nice for them to notice changes. It shows they care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Flatulence is disgusting and is never okay.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
Just general politeness...whoever gets there first.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
They'll understand...it shouldn't be all about money anyway.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
It is always nice to get to celebrate with him.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Brunch is the best cure for everything.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Sometimes...sometimes four crummy.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, they’re just using you.
Try a drink and some conversation.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Do the best you can to clean it, then move on.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
Too much of either is a bad idea.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
It gets stained or lost otherwise...plus, it's annoying.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Red Wine
It depends on where you are...but red wine is always a nice touch.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
It is important for him to care about his career (although not become consumed by it).

Other questions from Success Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
It is important for him to care about his career (although not become consumed by it).

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
No work ethic and ambition will get you to a good place. Then, your title will fall into place.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
There are so many other things that I care about that that isn't on my radar.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Not necessary...but fun!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Secure interviews at other competitive firms.
There are more lay offs than raises right now.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Nobody enjoys them, but you can maybe eventually enjoy them more.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
There is something to be said about trying.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Every.time. Facial hair is a fail.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Horrid...and stupid.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
It can work for a certain body type. Something in the middle is much better.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Blazer
I guess....as long as they match something.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
Although I much prefer round toed shoes.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
I'd like him to care a bit about his appearance, but not make it his first priority.

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
You can always work on your relationship with her if you like him enough.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Weird
Not weird in a bad way...but a bit awkward.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
I haven't experienced it, but am not writing it off.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Successful
Not monetarily, but in the sense of them being ambitious and driven.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I can't explain it...just what I am attracted to.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
I feel a bit young for that.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Two
It all depends on the chemistry.

Other questions from Style How have you been this year?

Her answer: A little of both
Work-hard, play-hard

Other questions from Dating
Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: We've never talked about it.
I try to be generous not just monetarily but with gifts that are sentimental, funny, etc.

Other questions from Dating
Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Drag him
He likes to shop as much as I do

Other questions from Dating
Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: My parents
And I can't wait

Other questions from Dating
During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: Partying
Every holiday, vacation, etc. needs a nice bottle of wine to accompany it

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Carving the turkey
Whatever he prefers, but everyone should contribute!

Other questions from Dating
Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the beach
Going to the beach is the way to go in winter; I need the vitamin D...and a tan

Other questions from Dating
During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: What?
I haven't a clue...

Other questions from Dating
The holidays are about:

Her answer: Family time
It's always great to see the family...but relaxing would also be an added bonus

Other questions from Dating
Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
Something new and exciting is a nice way to start a relationship

Other questions from Dating
How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: Half the time we were dating
That seems about right. It really is different for every person

Other questions from Dating
Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
I guess it depends on the person, amicable break ups can happen

Other questions from Dating
Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
I'm not quite ready for that step. Dating is another story

Other questions from Dating
When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: As soon as we break up
That would be most logical

Other questions from Dating
How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
It can be a fun, casual date with a new person you are dating, or a fun date for a long relationship

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Not that important
I'm not religious, but would be okay dating someone of any religion who is moderately religious

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Very important
We tend to have a lot more in common when we have the same political views

Other questions from Dating
Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Not
Definitely not into that

Other questions from Dating
Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Yup. They're doing something right.
They do a lot right. They've been married for 30 years

Other questions from Dating
NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Tom Brady
I don't know who Mark Sanchez is...and Tom managed to marry Gisele, so I give him credit for that

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Guitarist
I'm actually really not sure...I'm not super attracted to band members generally

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Spicy
I love spice! It can spruce up almost any dish

Other questions from Style When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: If it had serious potential.
Sometimes it is worth it to take to risk and make the effort

Other questions from Dating
Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
I think I have to add the caveat "in a few years"

Other questions from Dating
Guys who play video games:

Her answer: Pass the controller; I'll frag your ass
They can be fun in moderation

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Cat person
I said cat because that was my childhood pet, but I really like both!

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
Most definitely. Good style is a big plus

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
I think it can work...depending on the guy. Geek can often equate to smart

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: I don't watch it
Really have avoided getting into the Vampire films, shows, fan clubs, etc.

Other questions from Style Sarcastic people are:

Her answer: Rude
I love sarcasm, in moderation

Other questions from Dude 101 If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Meet me at the subway station
That's normally what happens

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: Peggy
Tough choice, but Peggy has really made it in man's world, which is quite commendable.

Other questions from Style Mad Men (gentlemen)

Her answer: Don
He is lame this season, but, all in all, I would still chose Don (mostly because of his shady past).

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: NY Style
Def, def, def. It will be one of the things most missed about NYC if I end up moving

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Soft shell
Ew..I'm not a big fan of either

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Rock
I hate anwering that question. I don't have a favorite...depends on the mood, song, etc.!

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 60s
Tough to answer...they all have their ups and downs.

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: I don't watch it
Not a clue. I haven't gotten into the Vampire craze

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: Awesome idea!
Not for a first date, but otherwise would be very fun. Drinks afterwards to talk if need be

Other questions from Dating
Better job:

Her answer: Start-up
Just a generalization, but he probably has more passion for his job making that choice for a career

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Both
Some money is necessary, Love definitely is

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Across the country
Dream jobs are hard to find.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Rolls
I typically go for rolls, but Sashimi is also delicious

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Roasted chicken
I would think that's best...not too over the top, not too simple

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: He can fix it
Most of the time. When I try to fix things, I'm known for making them worst

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Recycling is a must!

Other questions from Dude 101 Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Someone to go out with
Perhaps something like a partner in crime

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I like to just let it happen
Then you know it's genuine.

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Nothing wrong with laughter

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Extremely important
Smarts are a must.

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
I can't help it...I like being asked

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: No. Why spoil the mystery?
Very creepy...I have not gone that route

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
I'm really just not attracted to large guys....

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
Trust is key, but I would be a bit upset

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Awkward.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Words too, but actions can be more impactful

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: Yes
It would be hard though

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
I think this is more of a maybe...he'd have to have a lot of other things going for him.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Very damn important
It is a huuuuge part of being attracted to someone

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
Twice

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
It is nice to be with someone who cares about the day-to-day

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: No
Not okay, ever.

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: Yes
How could you not be?

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
More like "interesting."

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
Love it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Logical/mathematical
This one was a hard one....they are all valuable

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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