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The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: Keep that body tight by all means! The more, the better.
As long as it's not an unhealthy obsession it's all good.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Fitness through shopping
It can just be window shopping but I think you can learn a lot about someone this way.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Tattoos can go very wrong, as long as its not based on an emotional situation or anything obscene.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
There's something very sexy about a guy who can cook and take control in the kitchen

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
Depends on the occasion and where we go, as long as he's eating it's all good.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
There needs to be some element of mystery there but also signs that tell you he's into you

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
He should be in tap with his emotional side but know how to deal with situations logically

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
As long as they're not wandering onto other ladies... or men.

Other questions from Dating Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
1 rose is always special.

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
It should never be expected on Valentine's Day…it should be a gift given for the right reasons.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yes.
I think about all of my memories on Valentine's Day.

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Nope.
If they're lonely then I'm sure they'll be a little less defensive.

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
We all like to feel some love, Valentine's Day's a little lame but it's fun to expect a little extra

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
I don't think there should be a day to remind a guy to be sentimental, lingerie could be funny.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Romantic.
It's all relative to how well we're hitting it off.

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
Expectations are higher and everything is always over the top, a first date should be more low key.

Other questions from Dating Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Are you that lazy?

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
Too much repetition of anything is annoying.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Depending on the topic.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
If I put in the effort to be honest and pleasant I expect it back.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I'm not into cocktails. I'd rather he knows his wine.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
I hate it when there's one person in charge.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Gangs of New York
Have yet to watch the Departed...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
It's one thing sharing saliva, but sharing germs and junk stuck between teeth... not such a big fan.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Just have fun on the dance floor, it shows when you're trying too hard and is boring if you avoid it

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
If there are sparks why avoid them? If it's not mutual, what's the loss?

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
As long as you're not sitting in front of the TV eating lucky charms and complaining all day.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
I actually have no feelings so I thought I'd be positive rather than negative.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
I'll probably start talking about it without you asking, otherwise nothing interesting happened.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
As long as we're both into the conversation, but I personally doubt I'd want to for too long.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
In a classy way without gulping it down like a drunkard.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
Money doesn't matter, it's more about the experience and how fun you are.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
We have to have some similar interests, but I'd love to be given different perspectives as well.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
It shouldn't reek of your cologne, but when I'm close, I'd like to be able to get a whiff of it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Personal preference.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
If you can pull it off in a teasing way and not in a condescending way then it's cool.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Every day
I'm not saying you need to give a break down of your day, just a check up.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Not if you're looking to get kissed.
I know that's so lame, but it's just not a turn on if you taste like garlic...

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Depends if I think you're worth my dad's efforts.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Depends if I think you're worth my dad's efforts.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Don't put working at McDonalds, even if that improved your communication skills.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
Don't brag about something unless I ask about it.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
If by sexy we're talking thongs he should only consider it if he wants me to laugh.. and then run.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It can be very casual smart.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
It doesn't have to be a brand, but a nice tidy wallet doesn't hurt.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
To keep it in place, not for that 'wet look'.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Lets keep them for working out in.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
If he's a friend, a kiss on the cheek is enough. If we're strangers, a graceful sneak away is go

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
It's called personal hygiene and putting it aside is the ultimate turn off!

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
Depends on the relationship and break up. If he was heartbroken, it could be a little threatening.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The guy
That's just what a gentleman should do.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I look at every picture
A picture is worth a 1000 words!

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
It's all good fun until you start having a bit too much fun with the girls.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
If she was part of the story, why not include her, she was part of your life, wasn't she?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
If service was great, then show your appreciation. If it wasn't, then the minimum should do.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: Yes.
As long as you're not giving it more attention than me.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
Hey, we only live once. But if anything goes wrong, don't say you didn't know about the rules...

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
She probably doesn't want to hurt your ego or make you think too much about it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy neck & back.
Too much hair on the body is never that great...

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
By bigger I mean taller, but I like a guy who has lean muscle and is toned.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
If you love them then it's just part of your charm.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
It's when you know you're both comfortable spending a lot of time together.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
There's something sexy about stubble; this is if it's balanced and not a bunch of stubble patches.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
There's just something sexy about them... if he's got a cute butt of course.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Unless you're addressing potential STDs why should it be important?

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
But I might after.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Maybe in college beer would have been enough, but I like a guy who can take care of himself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
I don't want to hear make out sounds or see a couple touching each other.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
It's never a bad thing.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
I don't really have a comment for this one, I'm just neutral about it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
Your friendship with him is more important than the potential relationship.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
Part of being in tune with the world.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Go to the bathroom or a place where you're alone.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Forgetting Sarah Marshall is one of my favorite movies.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I like a guy who reads, is up to date on current affairs, and reads for leisure.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
As long as you're getting news.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
Hygiene is so important, if a guy smells in any way I will run.

Other questions from Dude 101 Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
Haven't even thought of this before.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
Depends on the guy maybe?

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Really all depends on the bros and hoes we're referring to.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
If you think it's worth telling, that is.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Always be a gentleman and make her feel like a lady.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
It's happened to all of us. Depending on the bill just let your friend pay and reimburse him after.

Other questions from Dude 101 My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
You can always do something for them later, a card with your thoughts means a lot.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Give him a night to remember.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Water water water.

Other questions from Nightlife Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
Not if I ask.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
I wouldn't know.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 4 bad
Quality over quantity.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
If you can check it in why not?

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
It's all good fun.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
There's just something 'strong' about liquor straight up that's sexy.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Wear it with pride.
Who cares! It happens.

Other questions from Nightlife First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
It all depends on the place, but I prefer my first dates to be casual.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
I like the stubble but not the mustache.

Other questions from Style Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
Ambition is everything to me, I like to know a guy is going after his dreams.

Other questions from Success Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
I don't know about 'stupid' but I would prefer a polo and a cool colored regular t-shirt under it.

Other questions from Style Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
It doesn't have to be CEO, but I'd like to know you're trying to do something with your life.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
I don't want to have to pay for him everywhere I go, but I don't want him to, either.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
We aren't robots, no matter how routine our jobs are. Getting to know them better is healthy.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
If you believe you have done the work to deserve a raise and have proof, your boss will too.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
I'm not into the guy who needs to charm the crowd, but I like a guy who knows what to say.

Other questions from Success Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
You can't really go wrong with dark socks, unless you're wearing white pants.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Not into jeans that are too tight on a guy.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Something about them disgusts me and screams sleezy.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I like a guy who knows what looks good together. He doesn't have to keep up with latest fashions.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
Technology has made things much easier for us. Don't make her feel like you took the easier route.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Absolutely not.
Mothers usually end up playing such an important role, if I don't like her or then there's no point.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
We all know how short life is and how we can't wait for something to happen.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe in a lot of things 'at first sight' but love is a little extreme.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
Witty guys steal my heart.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
It's just subconscious but I feel more secure and in general it just attracts me more.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
Balding isn't a choice, bald is. If you're balding just shave all of it off.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Stay mysterious but some have pride. If someone calls you just call them back.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
Considering the dates are not too spaced out.

Other questions from Style