
Emily Pelton / 29, Brooklyn, NY
Emily P. is an ultra-rad, sexbomb designer; she will ruin you.

Mojito
Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Active guys are definitely more attractive than sloppy or lazy guys
Her answer: An invigorating hike
Exploring and exercising together is a great way to bond
Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Just not full-body tattoos
Her answer: Always a good look
Total turn on!
Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
it doesn't really matter. Though, you are what you eat...
Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Until you're super serious you don't want to come off too in love
Her answer: Hot-blooded
Hot is always better than cool
Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
Staring is creepy, but we also want you to seem interested in us.
Her answer: Yes.
YES! WE LOVE THEM!!!
Her answer: Never.
It's never required, you should give a gift that says something about her and what she's into.
Her answer: No.
Not a chance.
Her answer: Nope.
Not if they don't mind.
Her answer: Yes.
We all love V-day and even if we don't want it to be a big deal we still want you to do SOMETHING.
Her answer: Cool.
But only if you've been in the relationship for a while.
Her answer: Creepy.
Too soon! How do we know you're not a crazy ax murderer or something?
Her answer: No.
Waaaay too much pressure for that!
Her answer: Big party
Shouting in the new year with a bunch of friends is always the best.
Her answer: The thought.
It's always the thought.
Her answer: No.
You don't know where those lips have been!
Her answer: Of course
If we're invited!
Her answer: Overdress
Nice shoes always win.
Her answer: A few years into the relationship
No cheese logs please!
Her answer: Separate
Just make sure you figure this out before we get there.
Her answer: little too small?
We're probably going to exchange it anyway.
Her answer: Cute
Toootally cute
Her answer: Rum punch
mmm rum punch!
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Especially if they're stinky.
Her answer: Hardly a habit
I almost never notice fidgeting.
Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Awkward and uncomfortable.
Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
You've got to find a mix. Be honest but not mean.
Her answer: Not at all
In fact, I might be a tad worried if he knows too many of these.
Her answer: Driver
Don't touch my radio!
Her answer: Goodfellas
One of my all-time favorites!
Her answer: Use your finger
Eek, sick, sick, sick!
Her answer: Show her your moves
If you don't dance with her, someone else will!
Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
You may not want to do it while they're working... could get ugly.
Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
if you are financially comfortable, then there's no worries
Her answer: Love it.
Can't hate it because I've never been!
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's nice to know you care, even if I don't want to talk about it.
Her answer: Five minutes.
Could be longer if we agree :)
Her answer: Ditch it.
If you're actually thirsty then go for it but there's no need to chug.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
There's always a way to make money at something you're good at.
Her answer: Doesn't matter.
Having similar interests is good but you also need your own life.
Her answer: When I'm next to you.
You don't want to shower in cologne, but a hint is nice.
Her answer: Beatles
Like em' both, but gotta go with The Beatles!
Her answer: Totally unacceptable
It depends on the circumstance, but usually not.
Her answer: Once a week
Every day makes you seem like a momma's boy.
Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
I love garlic.
Her answer: Maybe?
It depends on how serious we are, and if you're a slacker or not
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
One month at a pizza shop is not that impressive.
Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Just don't be the one doing ALL the talking.
Her answer: The lady.
Um....yeah.
Her answer: Depends where you're going
Of course this always has the potential to look really stupid...
Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
We only notice a ratty old cartoon wallet - which isn't usually good.
Her answer: Depends on his style.
Just don't overdo it.
Her answer: Whenever
As long as you wear socks you're good.
Her answer: A kiss
However, I don't support the one-night-stand :)
Her answer: TRUE
Yes, trim! Please don't be looking like a giant hairball.
Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
Better for everyone if there isn't too much contact.
Her answer: Split
Depends on who's using it.
Her answer: The bio section is enough
Maybe a few pictures as well, but let's not get crazy!
Her answer: Under no circumstances.
No no no! Sick!
Her answer: If you’re thinking about her, why are we talking?
We really don't want to hear about your ex....no matter how relevant.
Her answer: Twenty percent
Unless they were really horrible.
Her answer: No.
It's really rude to take calls when you're on a date!
Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
There are loads of fish in the sea.
Her answer: Dead-on.
Hopefully she doesn't have a reason to lie...
Her answer: Everything.
But don't over-trim...that could get scary.
Her answer: Bigger than me.
As long as he's not skinnier than me we're good!
Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
A universe that I don't understand but still respect.
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
You can always ask!
Her answer: Stubble
I like a little stubble, but you gotta keep it neat.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
Leaves room to breath but also shows off your buns.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
You don't want to get into that too soon.
Her answer: No
I'm not creepy like that.
Her answer: Once a week
At the minimum.
Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
I love ice cream
Her answer: 1st
People don't want to see anything more than kissing.
Her answer: Definitely
If you don't notice it then it means you're not paying attention—baaaad very bad!
Her answer: Cooler
Live music rules!—even if it's amateurish.
Her answer: Depends
First you have to wait a long time—then you have to ask your friend about it.
Her answer: Indispensable
I think my childhood would've been lacking without it.
Her answer: Never
It's gross.
Her answer: Hilarious
I'm still laughing.
Her answer: Anything at all
As long as you can read.
Her answer: Yep
You can get your news anywhere, but it's always best to make your own opinions.
Her answer: Seriously?
Sick!
Her answer: Over
Over! Definitely over!
Her answer: Once a week
And I'm pretty naïve about this, so it's probably more often than that.
Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
You stupid hoe!
Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
If we find out you know something and you didn't share you'll be in a baaaad place.
Her answer: You do.
It makes us feel special
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Cash! Get some! Don't be a bum!
Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
You absolutely have to give something. If you're broke, get creative.
Her answer: A night on the town.
You can't beat quality time with a friend.
Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Lots of water and sleep.
Her answer: No
But don't forget to ask ME where I'VE been!
Her answer: True
But not if you're going to have 10 beers—there's just no clearing anyone for that
Her answer: 2 good
Bad drinks make you feel sick.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Coats are bulky and get in the way.
Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
Girls love free drinks—but you're most likely not getting anything out of it.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
As long as he gets you a drink first, he can have whatever he wants!
Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
Seriously, if you're drinking red wine you better be at dinner - and you are way too clumsy.
Her answer: Don’t care
As long as he doesn't have holes in his pants, we're good.
Her answer: Every time
Mustaches are creepy, there's just no way around it.
Her answer: Not really
As long as it makes him happy—nothing worse than someone who hates their job.
Her answer: Stupid
Eck!
Her answer: No
Obviously doctor sounds a little more enticing than waiter—but it really doesn't matter.
Her answer: Don’t care
As long as he has goals and is making a living.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
If you're asked, you should totally go, just don't get bombed and start saying stupid things!
Her answer: In
They can be skinny, but they can't look like they're choking your ass or giving you a muffin top.
Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Know what you're really worth, you don't want to seem over-confident.
Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
But don't just talk to them the whole time.
Her answer: Who cares?
As long as he's wearing socks I'm good with it.
Her answer: Out
Don't like 'em—they tend to make guys look feminine...or like a witch.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
But not too much style—then it starts to make us girls feel like we need to compete.
Her answer: In person
It takes more balls to ask in person so you'll get extra confidence points right off the bat.
Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
The apple doesn't fall far from the tree—you have to make sure it's not something genetic.
Her answer: Romantic
But not if you're the guy on the corner asking her for money on her way to work.
Her answer: No
That would be lust—which is nice—but it's not love.
Her answer: Funny
Not the corny, joke-telling idiot—the witty, creative type.
Her answer: I don’t care
Doesn't really matter as long as it's not awkward when you hug/kiss.
Her answer: A turn-off
If you're going bald you should just put the rest of your hair out of its misery.
Her answer: Two days
You call too soon and you just look desperate, but if you call too late then you look like a jerk.
Her answer: Three
If it involves brownies and a movie, then awesome, but you shouldn't have too many expectations beyo
Her answer: Buzz off - I'm already in a relationship
Hands off!
Her answer: I love it!
Just hope the other person is also falling in love!
Her answer: Very important
If you don't make me laugh to the point of tears then you are not funny enough
Her answer: Extremely important
I also like talking about trivial things and making fart noises...
Her answer: No
I hate making the first move
Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
I would like to see what I'm getting myself into
Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
You have to have physical attraction, I'm just not attracted to huge people
Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
Extremely suspicious!
Her answer: Nothing to talk about
At least if you have something to talk about you can make it through the date
Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Actions speak louder than words! It's all the little things that really make the difference
Her answer: No
It's just way too awkward
Her answer: Yes, but I would not play that much.
Everybody has hobbies, you have to let people be happy and do what they love - even games!
Her answer: Very damn important
Smelling good is a huge turn on
Her answer: Yes
In it right now!
Her answer: Yes
If it's important then they should know about it
Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
It depends on how long they've been broken up
Her answer: Yes
It's insanely disrespectful to flirt with someone else like that
Her answer: Weird
Yup
Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
Love it!
Her answer: Visual/spatial/artistic
I love creative people and how they think