Jen Gsell / 29, Reston, VA
I take life by the horns and ride it.


Jen Gsell's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Suburban
  • Relationship status: Serious
  • Hair Color: Red
  • Level of education: High School
  • Cash flow: Getting By
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Career
  • Current living situation: Significant Other
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: No Thanks
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Cool-Headed
  • Time to get ready: Less than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Nerdy,Hipster,Fashionista,Arty
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Discotec
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 5/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Long-Term Relationships

Jen Gsell's favorite drink

Mojito

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Questions Jen Gsell has answered:

What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
It's new year's. Let's drop it like it's hot, y'all!

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
If it's picked out with you in mind, then that's totally more valuable than the amount they spent.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
If they're kiss worthy, then sure. Why not?

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: Of course
It shows you care. It's flattering when the other person wants to show you off to his/her peers.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Better to look like you tried rather than look like a slacker.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Immediately after dating
It's a matter of courtesy. It shows you care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Same
It's not after the prom. We're adults, we can act like it, true?

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
Duh. Like you want the person to think they're fat? Not smart.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
Old school is cute, no buts about it.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Eggnog
Who doesn't love eggnog?

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
That means nothing to me.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
As long as you're not drawing an large amount of attention with your fidgeting, it's not a big deal.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Depends on what it's about. If it's about anything besides sports then I might find it alluring.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Manners and honesty are huge factors with girls. Be honest, but don't be rude.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I don't like fancy cocktails. Actually, it'd make me weary if a guy was a fluent cocktail Einstein.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Don't be a radio nazi. It's rude and it kinda says, 'I don't give a crap what you like'.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: None of these
I have to say he's not one of my favorite directors. I'm impartial to his stuff.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
That's probably the cleanest thing you both share orally, so yeah, why not?

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
I love when a guy wants to dance, whether he's good or not.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
If there's 'something' there, go for it. If you're just doing it on a whim, prepare to be let down.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
As long as you're really trying, then she'll understand and good things will come. It's just k

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
Don't really care.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
Unless something happened, work is over. Let's just relax.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
I'm not a politican, and I'm pretty sure you're not either. Let's say our peace and be done with it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Down it or don't. it's not a big deal.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
Jobs aren't super important to me. As long as your not mooching off me I don't care.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
If you each have different interests then explore them together. It'll be a fun process.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
As long as it's a good scent. I'm not crazy about 'jovan musk'.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Let's just say 'all you need is love', baby.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
That depends. Just don't be a jerk or grammar know-it-all at every turn.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Every few days is commendable. A guy who is close to his mom is usually respectful and has manners.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
As long as you bring gum!

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
If you're interested and have some kind of talent in his business, then why not?

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
If you've had a bunch of unrelated random jobs, it might not look so good.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Don't gloat about yourself, it makes you seem snobby.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Sexy underwear on a guy is just trying to hard. Be yourself.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
You need to have the right hair, body type and height to pull that off.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
As long as he has a wallet, I don't really care what it looks like.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
If he has a pompodore or spikes, mohawk or something like that. Otherwise it just looks greasy.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
I'm not a sports fan. So I don't really care about the socks part.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
One night stands are fine, but don't make the other person feel cheap by ignoring them.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
I don't really care about a guys 'grooming below' habits. As long as he showers, I'm happy.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
I'm friends with a lot of my exes - if a guy is, that's fine, but keep it honest and platonic.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The guy
We don't expect the guy to pay for birth control, so he can spring for condoms. It's courteous.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
Facebook answers a lot of questions. It saves time, and saves you from asking.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
Don't tell me, but don't be a scum bag and do something you shouldn't.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
It's a big no in the beginning. It leaves a bitter taste in our mouths. You're out with us, not

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
No explanation needed.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: If I do, take my lead.
It depends. In the beginning, dates should be mainly about the two of you, not your phones.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
If it's a mature coupling, then it can be done, but it's likely to end badly for one of the two .

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
What you don't know, won't hurt you. and really, it's none of your business (and vise versa).

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Leave it natural.
Unless you're Robin Williams hairy, don't sweat it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
It's not just the body that matters. Have the mind and good soul to go with it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
I love x-men and dragonball. It shows that you still remember that kid inside of you.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
There's really no rule for this. It depends on your chemistry and comfort with each other.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
I don't mind a little facial hair. Just not crazy about beards. It's just too Davy Crocket for me.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxers
There's something boyish and charming about boxers.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
It's really none of their business if you ask me. It's only acceptable to answer once you've gotten

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I guess i never thought about it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
Seriously...as long as there's toilet paper..I don't care.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
You can't say this about every guy. Some are pervier than others.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Totally depends on the situation to which you're putting your bros before hoes.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
Hey..we've all done it, you liars.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
Depends on the circumstances of their break up and how long they were together/how serious.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
If you trust her. If she's a big mouth then don't bother. It'll just blow up in your face.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
Whatever..people make mistakes. We'll get over it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
It's a fundamental right - makes the system work. Plus, keeps everyone in check.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Ok I know a Judd Clampit, but Apatow.....you got me there.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I'm just psyched if your literate.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
I don't wanna talk about politics..next!!!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Depends how drunk you are?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Who doesn't like a world traveler?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
If we're both throwing out stories, fine. But if you just love hearing yourself talk...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Beer is enough
Does that mean I'm attracted to losers?

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 2nd
Depends where you are. If someone yells 'get a room', then maybe you should take their advice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
It just shows that he's paying attention. And that always makes a girl feel nice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
But it's still gross. Sorry.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Don't tell me chivalry is dead again?

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Your friends are inviting you to their wedding because they want you there. Not your presents.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Buy him a few rounds, and he'll love you for life.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
I'm only guessing 'cause again....never had a hangover.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Not sure about that one. Depends on the drink and the drinker.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
But she might be using you after that.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
Who are you? UB40?

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
I drink both ways and I've never had a hangover. Scout's honor.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Who wants to risk having their crap stolen?

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: A dented can of beer
Beer is very much a guy drink. It just works.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
Like I said, Job equals good.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
What title? The title of the novel you're writing or the title to your car?

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Equal
Just have a job. Please.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Having a drink with co workers isn't a big deal but unless you're having drinks with your boss.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Point out how you've been an asset to the company but don't push.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
A guy who can work a room full of strangers is sexy. Period.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Phone
Phone is easiest because you don't have to worry about looking and sounding like an idiot.

Other questions from Dating First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
Well if he's wearing a monkey suit and I'm in a sundress, people are gonna look at me like I'm the m

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Unless you're tom selleck, I beg you not to grow one of these. We all know you're not tom selleck.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Who the hell does that?

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Unless you're emo or a skinhead, why do your pants need to be tighter than mine?

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Unless he's a 7-year old english lad on his way to school, I could care less what color socks are.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Ew......I can't even go there.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
I like when a guy has his own sense of style, a look that he made for himself. It's attractive.

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
Unless the guy is a complete spineless momma's boy, then it shouldn't matter.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
I guess it's only romantic if you both 'notice' the other in that way.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Yes
When i first saw my boyfriend, I knew i was in trouble. I thought to myself, if i don't talk to this

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
Funny can make a guy hotter. If he has a good sense of humor, that shows he's easy going.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I like to feel small and girly, and tall guys have the power to make that happen.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
It depends how large the bald spot is. And on what the guy's face looks like.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Two
This isn't 1922, no one's gonna get disembowled for “hanging out” after a date.

Other questions from Style

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