Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Love a healthy guy.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Let's go jogging together!
A couple that works-out together, stays together.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
Please get this covered up ASAP

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
So ROMANTIC

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
Just remember a girl is sitting in front of you and not your buddies.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Communication is the best asset in any type of relationship.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Be at ease and things just end up going at a nice flow.

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
A good guy will want to enjoy life with you.

Other questions from Dating What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: There's no particular age
Just make sure you are ready to commit.

Other questions from Dating Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Only if it's the beginning….

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: 1 year.
Start off small, you out do yourself this year what happens next year?

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
Double NO NO.

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
SO be super kind. Maybe breakfast in the morning.

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
Even if it's true, always get her something.

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
When you've been together a while or else it just says DOG.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Romantic.
Could go both ways, but I'll be positive and say it's romantic.

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
Too much pressure.

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
We're young. Cozy fire later.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
Then you'll get lucky.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: No.
I'd rather take a shot.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: Of course
That's when everyone shows off their better half.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It's the new year.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: A few years into the relationship
Try to care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Let's pretend to be good.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
Flatter me.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Lame
Better off with a small gift.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Eggnog
Be festive.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
It's a must.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
It's ok when you're nervous.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Someone ring the Fire Alarm.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
The truth shall set you free.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Shocking you would know how to make one other than just straight up.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Compromise.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Fell asleep during Gangs of New York.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
That's going overboard.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
And give her some dance space.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
Sure, make her feel good about herself in her work gear.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: 3 months
That's average time for one to get a new job.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Don't know it so can't hate it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's just a kind thing to do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Five minutes.
Can't we all just get along? Any more than 5 minutes and peace is out the window.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
That's a girl's move.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Talent normally starves before you get a big break.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: “I can show you the world”...
I really can....

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
I might want to get closer.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Stones
Stones can be pretty.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
Unless you know them very very well.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Sundays will do.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Please don't.
Again, please don't!

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Only if we're together in the long run and you'd be a great asset.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Only if we're together in the long run and you'd be a great asset.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
You a movie star?

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
No bragging. Two thumbs down.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
You better be busy buying me Victoria's Secret.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
You risk looking inappropriate otherwise.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
Hey, we're allowed several purses...let the man have ONE nice wallet.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
If you use it to slick long hair back, please just cut it.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
I'm from Texas, those things are too hot even in the winter.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Like a goodnight kiss, but it's a forever goodbye...

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
Men, please compromise.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
My ex calls all the time, I'm too nice to say stop!

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
It's 2009; we're all aware that there is only one Virgin Mary.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
So little time.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
In no other circumstance is this ok.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
If it's funny and not at all about her, she just happened to be there.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Fifteen percent
That's the least, if you had a great time, do 20%.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Uh, all eyes on me.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Too dangerous. I might get crazy.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
We don't want to tell you.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
That's going to get in my way for sure.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
Women like to know they are protected.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Are you the creator?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
As long as she is showing interest back then it's all game.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Like the first two days after shaving, then its gotta go.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
That's if you work out.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
Gotta come up sooner than later.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Always ask a ton of questions before scheduling a date - this advice from a guy!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
Hotels made it this way.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
This true?

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
You shouldn't be dating if this is still your train of thought.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
You should contact CDC.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Weird, get your own girls.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
What does she care?

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Its over!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
Privacy is a good thing.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Funny, don't know this guy.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Just show me you can read.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
Who's that?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Fun.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: For the moneyed elite
Unless you won the trip.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
It's in the past, let's look ahead.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Beer is enough
Corona Light.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
No show and tell here.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
Whole new do...you better notice!

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Leave it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Can never go wrong this way.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Special Congrats is so nice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Show him a good time.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
H20....take care of your body.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Please learn to drink.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
Make sure it's your idea & not hers.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
That's what you get, now have a beer!

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
What? Who says this stuff?

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Need you to be comfy.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
Love me some Vodka.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
Long as it's legal.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Unless it matters to you.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
Ms. Independent - present!

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Don't be a drunk.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Sell yourself.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Courage is a Man's must.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
You can tell a lot by a person's facial reaction.

Other questions from Dating First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
Overdress and I would worry that you're trying to show me out.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
Not too sexy.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
I would be uncomfortable for you.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
For rockers, and only rockers!

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Seriously, who cares?

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Pointy shoes might make me worry...

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
Make me wanna show you off.

Other questions from Style Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Kinda like the Taylor Swift song!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
That's code word for, you're hot and I want to jump on you!

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
It guarantees a good time.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
Just makes a girl feel safe.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
You try and hide it and we know you are not comfortable with yourself; now that's a turn off.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
Always go slow when you really like a girl.

Other questions from Style How have you been this year?

Her answer: A little of both
I play nice with people but love to be naughty on my girls night out.

Other questions from Dating Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: Yeah. A budget is best for the both of us.
Budget because there's more to life than gifts. Like renting a room every now and then.

Other questions from Dating Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Fly solo
Men can't hang with us.

Other questions from Dating Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: Other
Friends

Other questions from Dating During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: Partying
So many invites, can't turn down free food and drinks

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Carving the turkey
That's a man’s job...

Other questions from Dating Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the sack
Baby making time, but for married folks.

Other questions from Dating During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: Lose
Who?

Other questions from Dating The holidays are about:

Her answer: Family time
Gotta see the Fam

Other questions from Dating Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
That way if he's not impressed, he can't really blame it on me.

Other questions from Dating How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: Half the time we were dating
Take a breather, no one wants someone else's mess.

Other questions from Dating Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
But only a few can manage this - it's called Maturity

Other questions from Dating Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
He'll come around eventually

Other questions from Dating When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
I'm not dating Facebook, why advise.

Other questions from Dating How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've been in a relationship for a few months
It's ok, really guys...doesn't mean we want you to take notes.

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Very important
If you're very True to your religion.

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Somewhat important
You could learn from each other.

Other questions from Dating Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Hot
When you two have done it a few times.

Other questions from Dating Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
Be original.

Other questions from Dating NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Tom Brady
I hear his name more.

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Front man
They seem to groom more than the others.

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Mild
Don't want a runny nose in public.

Other questions from Style When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: I'm not tied to where I live.
If you don't feel you're at home then go make one with him.

Other questions from Dating Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
I just don't want my own.

Other questions from Dating Guys who play video games:

Her answer: He can play with his joystick alone
Boring, I'll make up my own game for us.

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Dog person
Love those crazy fur balls.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: No way. Too much baggage there.
That's dangerous.

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
Very handsome look

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: Edward
The mystery man, I love it.

Other questions from Style Sarcastic people are:

Her answer: Funny
They're smart.

Other questions from Dude 101 If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
Heels are hard to walk in.

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: I don't watch it
Yes men are mad

Other questions from Style Mad Men (gentlemen)

Her answer: I don't watch it
I have no idea.

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: Thin Crust
Easy to eat on a date, and I can eat more and impress him.

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Hard shell
I'm Mexican

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Rock
More options

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 90s
I love grunge

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: I don't watch it
Who?

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: Awesome idea!
Relax and enjoy the music.

Other questions from Dating Better job:

Her answer: Start-up
As long as he has a job.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Love
True love makes you feel like you can overcome those molehills.

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Across the country
Not too many people get this opportunity

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Rolls
Love the rolls.

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Can of soup
With some chopped fruit for dessert.

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: He can fix it
I'm not built to fix things.

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Take shorter showers
Cause I want some hot water too.

Other questions from Dude 101