Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
I love to work out, so if we both enjoy this and can even do it together it's all the better!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: An invigorating hike
Lets be fun, social, active and take in the sites!

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Naked Ladies
I mean, really?!?!?!

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
It's a rare but special find!

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
I just want him to take are of himself and have enough manners not to slop, drip and lick his plate!

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Too much too soon is too much reason to run away!

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Think, then react...problems happen any other way!

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
I don't like it when people stare, take in life and the surroundings.

Other questions from Dating Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
They are pretty and simple, can't go wrong!

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
I believe the gesture is what's important, BUT a stuffed animal holding a little balloon is NOT ok.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
Over it!

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
We single ladies are DRUNK on Valentine's Day. Let us wallow in self-pity. Find us on the 15th.

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: No.
i personally don't care. I'm not wanting some GRAND night out, but a simple card or flowers will do.

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
If it's sexy/classy! I won't be happy if it's trashy/costume-esqu, WE will decide our fantasies!

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
Unless I proclaim my love for you and wanting to carry your children already, you need to slow down!

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
It's a Hallmark Holiday, but some people put a lot of stock on the day… too much for a first date.

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Fancy dinner
Dress up, nice dinner, lots of champagne and in bed by 2am!

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
I'm poor, so I'm creative... much better than getting an extravegant gift with nothing behind it!

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
It's like Vegas!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
Unless it's a big deal, I'd rather do the booze bash by myself, I don't want to have to babysit!

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Think fun, festive and sexy... 'cause I'll be in fun, short, tight and sparkly!

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: It's never standard
If you've been dating two weeks, not necessary. After you've met them, it's appropriate.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Prepare for seperate ones, unless Mom insists otherwise.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too big?
Too small makes me fee fat and makes me think you'd rather I was smaller.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Lame
It's too cliche. Come up with a way to get me underneath it instead... sneaky and sweet!

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
I never got the point of eggnog... It's kinda nauseating! But punch is always fun (and dangerous)!

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Wash your feet, or they are not coming near me!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
People have little quips, but if you can't sit stilll for a minute, I might smack you!

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Unless they are 'debating' over me!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
If you are not honest, she won't trust you. If you are brutally honest, she will leave you!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Navigator
The driver should be paying attention to the road, unless I'm the driver because I can multi-task!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Amazing cast, intense movie!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
DO NOT TOUCH MY TOOTHBRUSH!

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
If you can't at least get on the floor with me and try to have fun, then it isn't going to work!

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
If she's into you, she will be glad you did... but be aware, she probably gets asked out a lot.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Depends on a lot, but if you are looking and being responsible, then she should be understanding.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
I'll love anything until you give me a reason to hate it!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
It's a customary question, but you don't have to.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Five minutes.
I don't really know very much about politics, but certain issues will set me off.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Don't waste a good drink!

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I'm a talented starving artist, so I can understand and appreciate!

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
It's always fun to try something new, and also very important to have things that are just yours!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
I like to get a hint of your smell when around you, it will only make me want to get closer to you!

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Across the Universe anyone???

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
If you do it in a fun way!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
It depends on your relationship, but I talk to mine every day!

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
I don't care, as long as we have gum!

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
This can be an awkward arrangement. If I bring it up, then it's appropriate, but don't ask.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
As long as you are employed and happy, I don't care what is or isn't on your resume!

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
If you bore me with your interpretation of “awesomeness”, we are moving on!

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
My sexy underwear stops at a thong, but I don't want to see anything frilly coming from his end!

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Work it! I'll tell you if it doesn't look right, but dressin' up is always nice!

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Doesn't matter; my ex's was duck taped together. I thought it showed character (aka-lots of use!)

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
Just not the whole bottle!

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
I love to wear mens' knee highs, so wear whatever makes you happy!

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
It happens in the moment, you can't analyze or overthink it.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
A little grooming would be nice!

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
As long as I'm your number one, you can still talk to her, just no hanky panky!

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The guy
I don't have stock, so I'm assuming he has some on him.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
Until we get serious, I want to to find out everything from him first.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Just don’t tell me about it.
I don't care, I just don't want to know, or at least not know the details!

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
I've got lots of stories, and I'm not going to censor who is involved, so you shouldn't either!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
Unless there was a fire on the table where my hair and eyebrows were singed off my body...20%.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
If it's our first date, put it away. If we've been together for a while, then it's fine.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
No mixing of business and pleasure-at least not at work!

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
I don't lie about important details, but you will never fully understand the number!

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
I only say this because if you are too hairy, I will vomit!

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
I just want you to be taller than me, and have some muscle...just rock what you have!

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Put 'em away, I think they are silly.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
Depends on how the relationship is moving; both parties should be hinting at it before it is asked.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
Some guys can get away with a little more, but this is definitely on a person by person basis.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
I wanna see his tight little butt!

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
It's a little awkward, but it needs to happen before ANYTHING else happens.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Unless he's Justin Timberlake what am I going to find?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Water is enough
If you invite me over there better at least be water and something to eat.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
I am NOT a fan of PDA, especially on the first date.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
It would be nice if he noticed, but we will point it out anyways!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Cooler
You are takin' life by the balls! Go for it!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
I mean, NO, don't do it! But if 'buddy' is a lose term, screw it!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
You mean like the people with the megaphones on street corners? Irritating!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
Sometimes, it just happens.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
After google-ing who he was, I think his stuff can be funny!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
As long as you're reading something, then a convo can be had!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
I love Jon Stewart, but it's made up (for the most part)!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
Seriously?

Other questions from Dude 101 Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
Grab and wipe!

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Never
Never as in I don't like to think about it!

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
I am not a hoe! But my hoes would come first!

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
I say never, but sometimes it happens.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
But try not to make it awkward if she beats you too it!

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
It happens, just don't let it happen on a date, or that could be embarrassing.

Other questions from Dude 101 My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
Do what you can, don't go overboard, they will understand.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Who doesn't love chillin' with their friends!?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
For me it's a Chai Tea Latte and some scrambled eggs!

Other questions from Nightlife Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
I love to travel, I think it makes a great convo topic!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
I don't drink beer so I'm not sure how that works...

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Who wants shitty drinks?

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: Yes, it’s lame.
Throw it on the back of your chair, unless the restaurant makes it super easy.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
Shots make you look scummy. Drinks say, even if we don't talk, have a nice night!

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: A dented can of beer
Depends on the guy! But I'd prefer the can isn't dented!

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
It probably won't help much, but we try and then laugh!

Other questions from Nightlife First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as what I'm wearing isn't totally out of place, it doesn't matter.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Unless you're Tom Selleck, lose the 'stache'.

Other questions from Style Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
I'm avoiding all mobsters, but anything else should be fine!

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Job title? No. Just appreciate yourself!

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Equal
On the job? Equal. In a relationship? I don't care, just so long as we each pull our weight!

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
It can be fun, but as long as you do your work and get along with people, drinks are an added bonus!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Asking for advice and strategic moves is always a good idea, but trust yourself!

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
I hate it too, but smile, nod and grab a drink from the bar!

Other questions from Success Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Never paid attention to that, just stick with neutral colored socks and we're all good!

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
I guess they are OK, just as long as they are not pointier than mine!

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
Style IS an important issue. It's a way of expressing yourself, so have fun with it or ask for help!

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Phone
Sometimes in person is not an option. Phone, but don't text me, not at least for the first date.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
If the hate is bad, end it. If it's 'dealable' ride it out, then deal with it once there's a ring!

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
In NYC, seeing someone every day has its own special relationship, even if you've never talked.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
I believe in the possibility, but have yet to experience it, so I'm a skeptic.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
I spend all day entertaining people, so when I'm with someone they better be able to match my wits.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
It's not a huge deal to me personally, but I love feeling small in a guys arms!

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
Just shave your head, or keep the hair short, much less noticeable, and much hotter.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Do us a favor and stop playing 'hard to get', if you like us, call us!

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
Chemistry might click sooner, but don't jump into the bedroom if you are really interested in her.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
At the end of the day it's trust and integrity.

Other questions from Dating Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Nah. It's easier over email or text.
Technology drives the current world, so I prefer No Text, but a phone call is ok.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
Sometimes you can't help it. If you spend all your time at work you might meet that person there!

Other questions from Dating At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 70+
Each man is his own. Some guys lose it at 20, you just never know.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
I believe in love and if marriage is how you culminate it than that's wonderful.

Other questions from Dating Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
I'm not ready to throw in the towel to that just yet.

Other questions from Dating How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: All the time
He lives in Chicago, so it's fun to see what he's up to when I'm not there.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: The possibility of sex
They might do it to be nice, but at the end of the day, they know what they want!

Other questions from Dating If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: It depends on the guy
I'd like to say yes because then they would have more protection, but some guys are lazy!

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: No
No, but I think the same for women. We are in an age where everyone is wanting something more.

Other questions from Dating How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: There's never a time when he should
i love it when he pays, but I ALWAYS offer to chip in.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: A six pack of beer
Just as long as he's not sipping Cosmos!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
I like the feeling of comfort and security!

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
I want to know how you feel, don't try to cover up to show YOU'RE A MAN, just don't be a wuss!

Other questions from Dating What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The people
The most important thing to me is: Will this make me happy!?

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Career
I don't care about 'status'. I care about personal strength and charisma.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Hourly
All the time! I love my Crack-Berry!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: I find them gross and I hope guys do as well.
No Heidi Montag here!

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: What recession?
OOPS! I live like a rock star, a poor one!

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: On the rocks
Just enough to keep it cool!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: An outdoor rooftop with a beautiful view
Nothing better than a great breeze and a glass of vino!

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I stick to one type of drink the whole night
I try to not mix, but sometimes it happens!

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
Or are trying to overly impress!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
My style changes on my mood! But the key is FUN and FRIENDS!

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Lean all the way over the bar
Smile, and make eye contact!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Fun
I think people like a show, but sometimes it looks too pompous!

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Traditional
Flavors are fun, just don't like it to be too sweet!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mint-less Mojito
Not a fan of Mint in my drinks!

Other questions from Nightlife