Danielle L / 26, Chicago, IL
I am a recent college graduate, trying to find her way and enjoying the single life in the city!


Danielle L's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Urban
  • Relationship status: Single
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Getting By
  • Mode of transportation: Taxi
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Lone Wolf
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: No Thanks
  • Socialization: Average
  • Intravenous temperature: Cool-Headed
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Laid-Back
  • Applicable stereotypes: Fashionista
  • Makeup stance: Never leave the house without it
  • Hang Out:
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 4/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Plays the Field

Questions Danielle L has answered:

Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
You're on them all day, give them the proper care.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
Little boys fidget.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It's a turn on if it's respectful...and NOT about sports.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Be tactful and respectful. Be honest but find a way to express that doesn't kill the mood.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Very
He should be able to fix whatever a lady asks for. You better know what's in a Long Island!

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Navigator
It's a fun chance for the driver to share some of their favorite music.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Goodfellas
Goodfellas is classic. Know that.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
After some serious tongue action, germs don't matter.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Don't be shy. Effort is what counts! Be passionate!

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
It's not very classy to hit on a lady while she's getting paid to serve you.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
If you have the situation under control, it shouldn't be too big a worry.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
What's the point?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It shows you care. And it's something both partners should practice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
I couldn't be with someone whose political view was too different from my own.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Down that thing.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I'd take a chance, but there'd have to be some serious advantages to make up for unemployment.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
Common ground is great and fun but it's also a turn on to turn each other on to different things.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
It's sexier if I have to lean close to know how good you smell.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I feel like the sensitive, introspective ones lean towards the Beatles.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
No one likes a know it all-especially an anal one.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
More than once a week is excessive and perhaps cause for concern.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
Not a big problem.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: No way.
What a turn-off.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Bad!
Stability is good. Too many jobs looks flaky.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I prefer a guy to talk about common interests rather than ramble about why he gets paid.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Only women have lingerie.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It takes the right kind of guy to pull it off.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Seriously?

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Never!
Ewww. Gel? Are we in high school? There are much better hair products.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
Socks don't matter.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Tenderness is always appreciated.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
It is important to be groomed.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
“It's important to not live in the past, but some can pull of ex friendships that are harmless. ”

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The guy
If it goes on/in you, then YOU pay for it.

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
I fully admit to using Facebook to its full potential as a recon tool.

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
SO tacky and sad really. Act like you're more than walking hormones.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: If you’re thinking about her, why are we talking?
Leave the past in the past. Don't reminisce. It ruins the mood.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
Really not a big issue. Just don't be cheap.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Absolutely NO. That thing does not exist when I do.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Please. So sleazy. Co-workers are a different story, though.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
I can only speak for myself.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
Put some care into your body if you want to get close and personal.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Skinny.
I am a fan of the thin, lean look personally. Don't care for the big muscles look.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Not a turn on. A couple is fine, but I would prefer a collection of solid literature.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Impulsiveness can be fun. It's about the passion!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
I like the soft feel of a clean shaven face, but facial hair can be sexy too!

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Not a fan of baggy clothing, whether it's outerwear or underwear.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: First date
It totally depends on your comfort level with each other, but openness is a good thing.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I don't find it necessary just for a first date.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as there IS toilet paper, who cares?

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
It depends on the guy. Real life is more meaningful than some fake representation of human expressio

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Equally respect your friends and your girl. Never make a girl feel unwanted/disrespected.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
Are you kidding??

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Don't be a jerk. If you value the friendship, any ex-girlfriend is pretty much off limits.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Respect when a friend tells you something in confidence. Restraint is a sign of maturity.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
A well-prepared man is a respected man. Have some forethought.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
Are you kidding? Public media are absolutely necessary and should not be underestimated.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Love his movies! Right on the money.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Indispensable

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
Literate is a must. Well-educated and well-read is such a turn on and gives you so much more to disc

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
There's not much worse than a guy who's clueless about what's going on in the world.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Open-mic nights can be fun. But don't over-think it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Travel is wonderful. I recommend it to anyone who has the means.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
Don't list them. Let your world travels come up naturally in conversation. It's not a contest.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Hospitality cannot be overrated. A variety of alcoholic beverages is preferable.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 2nd
When in doubt, be classy. Find some privacy if you can't control your passion.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
It is reassuring to know that a guy pays attention. But if not, there's no need to feel upset.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
Oh dear lord...find a bathroom for your dirty business. Please.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Little thoughtful gestures go a long way. Especially when true gentlemen are hard to come by.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Dinner is a nice gesture and so much more personal than a gift-wrapped box.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
It really depends on the person. But when in doubt, consult a thoughtful, observant female.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Nothing better than stuffing your place with delicious breakfast food after a long night of drinking

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Drinking is about more than just increasing your blood alcohol content. Be classy if you can.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
Whoa, one girl at a time. And the classy thing is to buy someone a cocktail, not a shot.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Wear it with pride.
Just don't make a fuss. Complainers are the worst!

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Those rules are silly. Each drinker has his/her own unique body chemistry.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Depends on the venue.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
I'm not picky so long as the guy is a drinker and can keep up with me (which isn't asking a lot)!

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
It is necessary that a guy's occupation agrees with my values and what I think is important in life.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
I care much more about personal characteristics than such formalities.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Equal
For the purpose of dates and outings it does make things less stressful if both are coming from the

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
I would definitely lean towards yes. It never hurts to build rapport outside of the workplace.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
You cannot overestimate being well-informed.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Practice your elevator speech until it’s natural.
Knowing the difference between cocky and confident is a must.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
If she's worth taking out on a date, she's worth the time and energy of a phone call at least.

Other questions from Dating
How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
If she's worth taking out on a date, she's worth the time and energy of a phone call at least.

Other questions from Dating
First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
I dress pretty casual myself. As long as he doesn't look like a slob, I wouldn't worry too much.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
I've seen some crazy facial hair. A neat mustache can be very flattering, but not for everyone.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
I'm not crazy about polos to begin with. So two at once is definitely a sin.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
I LOVE fitted clothing on guys. Nothing's worse than a man swimming in his clothing.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
Why should socks matter? Unless, of course, they're worn with sandals. Horrible.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
I don't like to give trends too much lip service. If you can pull it off, go for it.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I find that style plays an important part in physical attraction.

Other questions from Style Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Weird
Asking out complete strangers everyday seems really desperate.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
That is next to impossible, considering love is a very powerful feeling that takes time to develop (

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
Intelligence is a deal breaker for me. Smart is sexy. And it also adds to a guy's sense of humor.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I am short, so that's not asking much! Although, short is only a problem if he has a height complex.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
They don't have to be. If a man is overall well-groomed and stylish, it's not an issue.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Two
An invitation up doesn't have to have sexual overtones. Can be a way to spend time together in priva

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
I would never even consider it--terrible.

Other questions from Dating
Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
In person is the proper way to go.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
I take my job seriously and it would be too easy for things to get messy.

Other questions from Dating
At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 50s
Good-looking men can still be quite handsome into their fifties if they take care of themselves.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: If I found the right guy...
It can be wonderful, but I'm not sure if it's something I necessarily want.

Other questions from Dating
Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Yup
It can be fun! You could meet a great person that you otherwise wouldn't.

Other questions from Dating
How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Never
I quit. But I would not read another person's messages or email without their permission.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
Real romance isn't about getting laid. Behavior in hopes of sex I wouldn't call romantic.

Other questions from Dating
If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Absolutely
Most sexually active men, yes.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: No
Too many men are missing out on great sex.

Other questions from Dating
How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: There's never a time when he shouldn't
It's not about money. A guy should want to show her a good time, without her worrying about a thing.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
I like my men to like whiskey.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
I love to watch a man's arms. And the arms do the holding!

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
Vulnerability takes balls.

Other questions from Dating
What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The people
People can make or break a job experience.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Career
A self-made man is sexy. Drive, ambition, and success are too.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Weekly
It's not my preferred method of communication for friends.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: I find them gross and I hope guys do as well.
NOT sexy. Real is sexy. Artificial anything is a turn-off.

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
You have to be smart with your money.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: On the rocks
Cold and delicious.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A dive with a dart board and a pool table
Dives are badass, but a swanky lounge is sexy--if it's non-pretentious.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
I don't like to get too bored with my drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are a bit too picky with their liquor
It can be classy or annoying depending on the guy. But it's good to know the good stuff!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Anything beyond ice and liquor is going to end poorly.
I usually keep it simple.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Wave a $20
Money says, I want to buy!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Lame
Showy bartenders are just silly.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Cucumber
Cucumber is most refreshing.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Cucumber Mojito
Perfect for summer!

Other questions from Nightlife Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Someone to come home to
I love looking forward to a special someone to end my day with.

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I love it!
One of the greatest experiences!

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Humor is an aphrodisiac.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Extremely important
I am attracted to people who are passionate and opinionated.

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: Yes
Would hate to pass up an opportunity for a meaningful connection.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: No. Why spoil the mystery?
I might to a follow-up search afterwards if the date goes well.

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
Ideally, we are each equally attracted to one another physically speaking.

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
If there's no agenda (from either party), then I wouldn't mind.

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
I'd rather have an enjoyable experience than no connection whatsoever.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
I like to do little things that let my partner know that I'm thinking of them.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: Yes
As long as there's no separate agenda and I could be including in the hang-outs, I'd be cool.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
It's not something I'm very excited about, but it's not necessarily a drawback by itself.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Important-ish
A little body musk is okay, but nothing too intense please.

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
I look forward to the next time.

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
Ideally, we would both share our day-to-day happenings with one another.

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
If it truly did not bother my friend and they gave the greenlight, sure. Otherwise, definitely not.

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: Yes
I considerate it very rude.

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
Normal sounds utterly unchallenging. I like to question the "normal."

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Unnecessary but appreciated.
I find it very thoughtful whether it's the man OR the woman.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Logical/mathematical
I enjoy the intellectuals.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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