
Danielle L / 26, Chicago, IL
I am a recent college graduate, trying to find her way and enjoying the single life in the city!

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
You're on them all day, give them the proper care.
Her answer: Intensely annoying
Little boys fidget.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It's a turn on if it's respectful...and NOT about sports.
Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Be tactful and respectful. Be honest but find a way to express that doesn't kill the mood.
Her answer: Very
He should be able to fix whatever a lady asks for. You better know what's in a Long Island!
Her answer: Navigator
It's a fun chance for the driver to share some of their favorite music.
Her answer: Goodfellas
Goodfellas is classic. Know that.
Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
After some serious tongue action, germs don't matter.
Her answer: Show her your moves
Don't be shy. Effort is what counts! Be passionate!
Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
It's not very classy to hit on a lady while she's getting paid to serve you.
Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
If you have the situation under control, it shouldn't be too big a worry.
Her answer: Hate it.
What's the point?
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It shows you care. And it's something both partners should practice.
Her answer: Thirty minutes.
I couldn't be with someone whose political view was too different from my own.
Her answer: Finish it.
Down that thing.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I'd take a chance, but there'd have to be some serious advantages to make up for unemployment.
Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
Common ground is great and fun but it's also a turn on to turn each other on to different things.
Her answer: When I'm close to you.
It's sexier if I have to lean close to know how good you smell.
Her answer: Beatles
I feel like the sensitive, introspective ones lean towards the Beatles.
Her answer: Totally unacceptable
No one likes a know it all-especially an anal one.
Her answer: Once a week
More than once a week is excessive and perhaps cause for concern.
Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
Not a big problem.
Her answer: No way.
What a turn-off.
Her answer: Bad!
Stability is good. Too many jobs looks flaky.
Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I prefer a guy to talk about common interests rather than ramble about why he gets paid.
Her answer: The lady.
Only women have lingerie.
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It takes the right kind of guy to pull it off.
Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Seriously?
Her answer: Never!
Ewww. Gel? Are we in high school? There are much better hair products.
Her answer: Whenever
Socks don't matter.
Her answer: A kiss
Tenderness is always appreciated.
Her answer: TRUE
It is important to be groomed.
Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
“It's important to not live in the past, but some can pull of ex friendships that are harmless. ”
Her answer: The guy
If it goes on/in you, then YOU pay for it.
Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
I fully admit to using Facebook to its full potential as a recon tool.
Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
SO tacky and sad really. Act like you're more than walking hormones.
Her answer: If you’re thinking about her, why are we talking?
Leave the past in the past. Don't reminisce. It ruins the mood.
Her answer: Tip according to service
Really not a big issue. Just don't be cheap.
Her answer: No.
Absolutely NO. That thing does not exist when I do.
Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Please. So sleazy. Co-workers are a different story, though.
Her answer: Dead-on.
I can only speak for myself.
Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
Put some care into your body if you want to get close and personal.
Her answer: Skinny.
I am a fan of the thin, lean look personally. Don't care for the big muscles look.
Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Not a turn on. A couple is fine, but I would prefer a collection of solid literature.
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Impulsiveness can be fun. It's about the passion!
Her answer: Clean shaven
I like the soft feel of a clean shaven face, but facial hair can be sexy too!
Her answer: Boxer briefs
Not a fan of baggy clothing, whether it's outerwear or underwear.
Her answer: First date
It totally depends on your comfort level with each other, but openness is a good thing.
Her answer: No
I don't find it necessary just for a first date.
Her answer: Don’t care
As long as there IS toilet paper, who cares?
Her answer: Once a week
It depends on the guy. Real life is more meaningful than some fake representation of human expressio
Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Equally respect your friends and your girl. Never make a girl feel unwanted/disrespected.
Her answer: 1 day
Are you kidding??
Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Don't be a jerk. If you value the friendship, any ex-girlfriend is pretty much off limits.
Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Respect when a friend tells you something in confidence. Restraint is a sign of maturity.
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
A well-prepared man is a respected man. Have some forethought.
Her answer: Indispensable
Are you kidding? Public media are absolutely necessary and should not be underestimated.
Her answer: Hilarious
Love his movies! Right on the money.
Her answer: Hilarious
Indispensable
Her answer: Books
Literate is a must. Well-educated and well-read is such a turn on and gives you so much more to disc
Her answer: Nope.
There's not much worse than a guy who's clueless about what's going on in the world.
Her answer: The same
Open-mic nights can be fun. But don't over-think it.
Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Travel is wonderful. I recommend it to anyone who has the means.
Her answer: Yes
Don't list them. Let your world travels come up naturally in conversation. It's not a contest.
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Hospitality cannot be overrated. A variety of alcoholic beverages is preferable.
Her answer: 2nd
When in doubt, be classy. Find some privacy if you can't control your passion.
Her answer: Somewhat
It is reassuring to know that a guy pays attention. But if not, there's no need to feel upset.
Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
Oh dear lord...find a bathroom for your dirty business. Please.
Her answer: You do.
Little thoughtful gestures go a long way. Especially when true gentlemen are hard to come by.
Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Dinner is a nice gesture and so much more personal than a gift-wrapped box.
Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
It really depends on the person. But when in doubt, consult a thoughtful, observant female.
Her answer: Brunch!
Nothing better than stuffing your place with delicious breakfast food after a long night of drinking
Her answer: 2 good
Drinking is about more than just increasing your blood alcohol content. Be classy if you can.
Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
Whoa, one girl at a time. And the classy thing is to buy someone a cocktail, not a shot.
Her answer: Wear it with pride.
Just don't make a fuss. Complainers are the worst!
Her answer: Neither
Those rules are silly. Each drinker has his/her own unique body chemistry.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Depends on the venue.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
I'm not picky so long as the guy is a drinker and can keep up with me (which isn't asking a lot)!
Her answer: Of course
It is necessary that a guy's occupation agrees with my values and what I think is important in life.
Her answer: No
I care much more about personal characteristics than such formalities.
Her answer: Equal
For the purpose of dates and outings it does make things less stressful if both are coming from the
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
I would definitely lean towards yes. It never hurts to build rapport outside of the workplace.
Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
You cannot overestimate being well-informed.
Her answer: Practice your elevator speech until it’s natural.
Knowing the difference between cocky and confident is a must.
Her answer: In person
If she's worth taking out on a date, she's worth the time and energy of a phone call at least.
Her answer: In person
If she's worth taking out on a date, she's worth the time and energy of a phone call at least.
Her answer: Don’t care
I dress pretty casual myself. As long as he doesn't look like a slob, I wouldn't worry too much.
Her answer: 60% of the time
I've seen some crazy facial hair. A neat mustache can be very flattering, but not for everyone.
Her answer: Insane
I'm not crazy about polos to begin with. So two at once is definitely a sin.
Her answer: In
I LOVE fitted clothing on guys. Nothing's worse than a man swimming in his clothing.
Her answer: Who cares?
Why should socks matter? Unless, of course, they're worn with sandals. Horrible.
Her answer: In
I don't like to give trends too much lip service. If you can pull it off, go for it.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I find that style plays an important part in physical attraction.
Her answer: Weird
Asking out complete strangers everyday seems really desperate.
Her answer: No
That is next to impossible, considering love is a very powerful feeling that takes time to develop (
Her answer: Smart
Intelligence is a deal breaker for me. Smart is sexy. And it also adds to a guy's sense of humor.
Her answer: Taller than me
I am short, so that's not asking much! Although, short is only a problem if he has a height complex.
Her answer: A turn-off
They don't have to be. If a man is overall well-groomed and stylish, it's not an issue.
Her answer: Two
An invitation up doesn't have to have sexual overtones. Can be a way to spend time together in priva
Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
I would never even consider it--terrible.
Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
In person is the proper way to go.
Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
I take my job seriously and it would be too easy for things to get messy.
Her answer: 50s
Good-looking men can still be quite handsome into their fifties if they take care of themselves.
Her answer: If I found the right guy...
It can be wonderful, but I'm not sure if it's something I necessarily want.
Her answer: Yup
It can be fun! You could meet a great person that you otherwise wouldn't.
Her answer: Never
I quit. But I would not read another person's messages or email without their permission.
Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
Real romance isn't about getting laid. Behavior in hopes of sex I wouldn't call romantic.
Her answer: Absolutely
Most sexually active men, yes.
Her answer: No
Too many men are missing out on great sex.
Her answer: There's never a time when he shouldn't
It's not about money. A guy should want to show her a good time, without her worrying about a thing.
Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
I like my men to like whiskey.
Her answer: Arms
I love to watch a man's arms. And the arms do the holding!
Her answer: Of course
Vulnerability takes balls.
Her answer: The people
People can make or break a job experience.
Her answer: Career
A self-made man is sexy. Drive, ambition, and success are too.
Her answer: Weekly
It's not my preferred method of communication for friends.
Her answer: I find them gross and I hope guys do as well.
NOT sexy. Real is sexy. Artificial anything is a turn-off.
Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
You have to be smart with your money.
Her answer: On the rocks
Cold and delicious.
Her answer: A dive with a dart board and a pool table
Dives are badass, but a swanky lounge is sexy--if it's non-pretentious.
Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
I don't like to get too bored with my drinks.
Her answer: Are a bit too picky with their liquor
It can be classy or annoying depending on the guy. But it's good to know the good stuff!
Her answer: Anything beyond ice and liquor is going to end poorly.
I usually keep it simple.
Her answer: Wave a $20
Money says, I want to buy!
Her answer: Lame
Showy bartenders are just silly.
Her answer: Cucumber
Cucumber is most refreshing.
Her answer: Cucumber Mojito
Perfect for summer!
Her answer: Someone to come home to
I love looking forward to a special someone to end my day with.
Her answer: I love it!
One of the greatest experiences!
Her answer: Very important
Humor is an aphrodisiac.
Her answer: Extremely important
I am attracted to people who are passionate and opinionated.
Her answer: Yes
Would hate to pass up an opportunity for a meaningful connection.
Her answer: No. Why spoil the mystery?
I might to a follow-up search afterwards if the date goes well.
Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
Ideally, we are each equally attracted to one another physically speaking.
Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
If there's no agenda (from either party), then I wouldn't mind.
Her answer: Nothing to talk about
I'd rather have an enjoyable experience than no connection whatsoever.
Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
I like to do little things that let my partner know that I'm thinking of them.
Her answer: Yes
As long as there's no separate agenda and I could be including in the hang-outs, I'd be cool.
Her answer: Yes, but I don't like video games.
It's not something I'm very excited about, but it's not necessarily a drawback by itself.
Her answer: Important-ish
A little body musk is okay, but nothing too intense please.
Her answer: Yes
I look forward to the next time.
Her answer: Yes
Ideally, we would both share our day-to-day happenings with one another.
Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
If it truly did not bother my friend and they gave the greenlight, sure. Otherwise, definitely not.
Her answer: Yes
I considerate it very rude.
Her answer: Weird
Normal sounds utterly unchallenging. I like to question the "normal."
Her answer: Unnecessary but appreciated.
I find it very thoughtful whether it's the man OR the woman.
Her answer: Logical/mathematical
I enjoy the intellectuals.