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The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
No muscle heads.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
I love spending quality time together.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Keep it in good taste and not too dramatic

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
This is a huge turn on.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
Don't be shy...eat in front of me. But dont be a pig either.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Don't want it to be too over the top

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Just be ìcoolî

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
I love when a man takes notice of me.

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Under
That way you will use less.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
Depends on the guy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
That’s just rude.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
And that’s only if you had an unplanned sleep over at someone else’s home. That’s the ONLY exception

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That’s just rude, you’re not really his friend if you do. Also, what kind of girl is she?

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
It really depends on the secret

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
I would like it to get back to what it used to be, but I think it’s a necessity.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Offensive
I love a good comedy!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
I like when a man can have a conversation about something other than what he’s seen on the internet.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
You should get your news from a few different sources so that you can get different viewpoints.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It means that you’re into things like music and poetry, which means we’ll have more to talk about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
Traveling abroad exposes you to culture you wouldn’t see by traveling to another state in the U.S.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
That is very annoying.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
Give a girl some options.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Anything else, get a room.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
I like when he pays attention.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
That's just gross.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
This is 2009, fair game.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
This is 2009, fair game.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
Better than a card.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
Girls pick better clothes.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
Sleep also.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Cheap liquor makes your head hurt.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
We love free drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Remove the soiled piece of clothing. Party on.
Can't ruin my night.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
I have no idea! I top off my beer with liquor :)

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I like being treated like a lady.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
I like a man who can handle his liquor.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
He can't be doing anything illegal.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
This does not define me.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as I don't have to take care of him I'm fine.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
I have to see them enough at work all day.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
This is the best idea.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
I don't like networking either.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
He needs to look good.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
If he can pull it off it's fine.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
I don't like it.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Not good on men.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
As long as they aren't white tube socks, or in a wild color, I don't think it really matters.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
I just don't like them on men or women. I'm a round or square toe type of gal.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I love a guy who has style and can put together a great outfit.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
The other options are just rude.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
I don't care about her, it's about him.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Weird
Too much exposure.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe in lust at first site.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
I love to laugh.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
Love to reach up.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
Def. not cute.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Two days
Don't want to wait to long.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Four
Don't want to bring her home too early.

Other questions from Style What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Cozy-up by the fire
Don't need all the fuss.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
I dont really care about the cost.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
This is a 50/50. I'm not sure.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
I don't really want to meet your co workers.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Always overdress rather than underdress. Plus, it's a holiday. Jazz it up a little!

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: It's never standard
I'm not obligated to get them anything.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Don't disrespect the family. We can be together when we get home.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
No one wants to be a fat ass.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
It's ok, but It doesn't really matter to me.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
I don't like anything with milk.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Clean feet are in.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
I don't like it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It depends on what they're talking about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
I want both.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I really don't care.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
It's only fair.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Who?
I've heard of it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
Absolutely NOT!

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
She wants to dance with you.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
She's human.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
It depends on how important it is for you to have a job for her.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Don't really care.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
I like when you notice things.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
Just don't get too excited.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
If we're ready, it's time to go.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
As long as I don't have to take care of you.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I like when we're different.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Don't want a headache.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Stones
Love The Stones.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
That's rude.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
I love when he loves his mom.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
And pop a mint after.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
If you a good worker only.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Depends on the reason

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Not particularly
I want to hear about everything.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
The guys just need clean underwear.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
Definitely depends on where you're going.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
It's cute.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
I don't really care.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Any other time is just ridiculous.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
I think.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
Do what ever makes you look cutest.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
If it's over, why do you need to be that close?

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
Depends on what kind is being used.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
I don't have that much time.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I really don't care.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
I don't want to hear about that.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
I used to be a server, and we don't get paid that much.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
I'd prefer some personal time.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
I can't afford to loose my job for you.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Twenty percent less.
We don't want to.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
I like it smooth.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
As long as he is not super fat.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
That does not count.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
Don't want to be uncomfortable.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
I don't like being scratched.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxers
I love how he looks in them.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
I don't need to know what happened.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
But I probably should be.

Other questions from Mr. Manners