
Wendy Farley / 44, Charleston, SC
I'm a 42 year old customer service manager who wants to be a writer and an entrepreneur when she grows up.

Mojito
Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Playing it cool doesn't hurt!
Her answer: There's no particular age
I'm 35 and getting married for the first time next year.
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Scrub your feet please - it helps you keep them from being stinky and from fungal infections.
Her answer: Hardly a habit
I'm a fidgety girl sometimes, so get over it.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Love a debate between smart guys. Dumb guys, not so much.
Her answer: Honesty
Be honest with me, but do it in a respectful and constructive way.
Her answer: Not at all
Don't drink so. Don't care really.
Her answer: Full democracy
Both parties should be allowed to pick, but there should be consensus on what we listen to.
Her answer: None of these
My favorite Scorsese movie is The Age of Innocence.
Her answer: Use your finger
Um... sorry, but not only is it a little gross, it's very unsanitary.
Her answer: Try not to fall
It's ok if you can't dance, it's about fun, not perfect suave moves.
Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
While we're on a date? OMG - NO!
Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Unemployment is ok IF you are motivated to get back to supporting yourself.
Her answer: Hate it.
I wish there was a happy medium here - I don't really love it or hate it.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
I want to know he's interested in me, even the mundane stuff.
Her answer: Thirty minutes.
If we agree then we can talk longer. I just don't want to fight.
Her answer: Ditch it.
Leave it please.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Talented starving artists are great if they're pursuing their art and not the high score on HALO.
Her answer: They should be completely aligned.
I'd rather be with someone that I have more in common with, who shares my values.
Her answer: When I'm next to you.
I love it when a guy smells good, but isn't overwhelming.
Her answer: Beatles
Hey Jude.
Her answer: Totally unacceptable
This is actually something I used to do. But it's rude and puts people off, so I've stopped.
Her answer: Once a week
Every day would be a red flag.
Her answer: Why not?
Garlic is yummy.
Her answer: No way.
Not introducing you to the family until we're practically engaged - you'd better have a job already!
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
My current guy has had several jobs in the last 10 years but it's his industry.
Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I want to know him outside of his job. If the job is all he can talk about, then forget it.
Her answer: Everybody.
I like sexy underwear on me and on him.
Her answer: Depends where you're going
A nice tweed blazer can look great with jeans on a guy.
Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
A nice wallet shows he cares - as long as it's nice and not extravagent.
Her answer: Depends on his style.
My guy now uses nothing and I like it; previous guy used and it was fine too.
Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Atheltic socks are pretty yuck.
Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
I don't really have one night stands, but I would definitely sneak away.
Her answer: TRUE
Yes, please trim for crying out loud.
Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
Exes do not belong in current relationships. Period.
Her answer: Split
Both are part of it, so both should pay up front, otherwise everyone pays for it later.
Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I don't want to know details, though.
Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
Ex stories are ok as long as they're not the only stories you tell me.
Her answer: Tip according to service
Depends on the service - between 10 - 20 % is the range, though.
Her answer: No.
Dinner is a time for us to connect. I don't need you connecting with others.
Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Been there, done that - never again.
Her answer: Dead-on.
Women rarely lie about sexual history. They just don't have that kind of ego.
Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
Please trim. I'm waxing.
Her answer: Doesn't matter.
I tend to like thinner guys but not skinny.
Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Comics are cool as long as they're not your only reference to art/culture.
Her answer: Couple months
Going away together is one of those rights of passage in any relationship.
Her answer: Clean shaven
I do not like facial hair - gives me beard burn when kissing.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
Love 'em.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Once I'm serious with a guy (pre-sex serious) we can discuss sexual history not before.
Her answer: No
I like the mystery.
Her answer: A little of both
I've been a good girl most of the year.
Her answer: Yeah. A budget is best for the both of us.
We've got a gift budge for each other.
Her answer: Fly solo
I like to shop alone.
Her answer: Other
Just the two of us.
Her answer: Sweets
I always gain 10lbs during the holidays b/c of the cookies, cakes, etc.
Her answer: Carving the turkey
Carving the turkey would be nice.
Her answer: Hitting the beach
One word: Florida
Her answer: What?
Wait what?
Her answer: Family time
Got to spend time with the FAM
Her answer: Somewhere new
Preferably a restaurant I've never tried but that he loves.
Her answer: Half the time we were dating
Never give them more time than you need.
Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
Sure - after time has passed
Her answer: At the supermarket or another unassuming place
Actually I met my sweetie (soon to be hubby) online
Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
Let the world know only after you've let him down first
Her answer: After we've been in a relationship for a few months
Three months minimum
Her answer: Not that important
As long as you communicate
Her answer: Somewhat important
This is a values thing for me
Her answer: Hot
Um...yes.
Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
My parents are from a very different era.
Her answer: Neither
Yeah not so much into football
Her answer: Drummer
Love drummers!
Her answer: Spicy
Spicy but not overly
Her answer: If he proposed, I'd pack my bags.
This is actually my life.
Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
Sure if he had them.
Her answer: Pass the controller; I'll frag your ass
I can take on a gamer
Her answer: Dog person
Actually I'm both
Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
Sure - no prob for me
Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
Um...glasses are hot
Her answer: Edward
Come on really? Hottest vampire ever
Her answer: Funny
They can really be both depending on the situation
Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
My hybrid car
Her answer: Peggy
Joan gets on my nerves
Her answer: Pete
Cute
Her answer: NY Style
NY all the way
Her answer: Hard shell
Like the crunch
Her answer: Rock
Actually I like a lot of different types of music
Her answer: 00s
I like a lot of the music in the past decade
Her answer: Bill
Uh Bill - absolutely
Her answer: Awesome idea!
Love concerts
Her answer: Start-up
?
Her answer: Both
Love keeps you warm but no money will cool you both down in a hurry.
Her answer: Around the world
Luckily my dream job is to work at home.
Her answer: Rolls
Oh sushi rolls how do I love thee? Let me count the ways
Her answer: Bowl of pasta
He tries
Her answer: I can fix it
Generally I'm the fixer
Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Um...really all three