Wendy Farley / 44, Charleston, SC
I'm a 42 year old customer service manager who wants to be a writer and an entrepreneur when she grows up.


Wendy Farley's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Suburban
  • Relationship status: Serious
  • Hair Color:
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Career
  • Current living situation: Lone Wolf
  • Outlook: Optimist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: Disorganized
  • Socialization: Average
  • Intravenous temperature: Cool-Headed
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Laid-Back
  • Applicable stereotypes: Nerdy,Outdoorsy,Arty
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: House Party
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 5/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 1/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Not so much

Wendy Farley's favorite drink

Mojito

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Questions Wendy Farley has answered:

During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Playing it cool doesn't hurt!

Other questions from Dating What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: There's no particular age
I'm 35 and getting married for the first time next year.

Other questions from Dating Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Scrub your feet please - it helps you keep them from being stinky and from fungal infections.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I'm a fidgety girl sometimes, so get over it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Love a debate between smart guys. Dumb guys, not so much.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Honesty
Be honest with me, but do it in a respectful and constructive way.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Don't drink so. Don't care really.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Both parties should be allowed to pick, but there should be consensus on what we listen to.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: None of these
My favorite Scorsese movie is The Age of Innocence.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
Um... sorry, but not only is it a little gross, it's very unsanitary.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
It's ok if you can't dance, it's about fun, not perfect suave moves.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
While we're on a date? OMG - NO!

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Unemployment is ok IF you are motivated to get back to supporting yourself.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
I wish there was a happy medium here - I don't really love it or hate it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
I want to know he's interested in me, even the mundane stuff.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
If we agree then we can talk longer. I just don't want to fight.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
Leave it please.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Talented starving artists are great if they're pursuing their art and not the high score on HALO.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: They should be completely aligned.
I'd rather be with someone that I have more in common with, who shares my values.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
I love it when a guy smells good, but isn't overwhelming.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Hey Jude.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
This is actually something I used to do. But it's rude and puts people off, so I've stopped.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Every day would be a red flag.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
Garlic is yummy.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: No way.
Not introducing you to the family until we're practically engaged - you'd better have a job already!

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
My current guy has had several jobs in the last 10 years but it's his industry.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I want to know him outside of his job. If the job is all he can talk about, then forget it.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: Everybody.
I like sexy underwear on me and on him.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
A nice tweed blazer can look great with jeans on a guy.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
A nice wallet shows he cares - as long as it's nice and not extravagent.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
My guy now uses nothing and I like it; previous guy used and it was fine too.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Atheltic socks are pretty yuck.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
I don't really have one night stands, but I would definitely sneak away.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
Yes, please trim for crying out loud.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
Exes do not belong in current relationships. Period.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
Both are part of it, so both should pay up front, otherwise everyone pays for it later.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I don't want to know details, though.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
Ex stories are ok as long as they're not the only stories you tell me.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
Depends on the service - between 10 - 20 % is the range, though.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Dinner is a time for us to connect. I don't need you connecting with others.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Been there, done that - never again.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
Women rarely lie about sexual history. They just don't have that kind of ego.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy private parts.
Please trim. I'm waxing.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
I tend to like thinner guys but not skinny.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Comics are cool as long as they're not your only reference to art/culture.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
Going away together is one of those rights of passage in any relationship.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
I do not like facial hair - gives me beard burn when kissing.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Love 'em.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Once I'm serious with a guy (pre-sex serious) we can discuss sexual history not before.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I like the mystery.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How have you been this year?

Her answer: A little of both
I've been a good girl most of the year.

Other questions from Dating Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: Yeah. A budget is best for the both of us.
We've got a gift budge for each other.

Other questions from Dating Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Fly solo
I like to shop alone.

Other questions from Dating Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: Other
Just the two of us.

Other questions from Dating During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: Sweets
I always gain 10lbs during the holidays b/c of the cookies, cakes, etc.

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Carving the turkey
Carving the turkey would be nice.

Other questions from Dating Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the beach
One word: Florida

Other questions from Dating During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: What?
Wait what?

Other questions from Dating The holidays are about:

Her answer: Family time
Got to spend time with the FAM

Other questions from Dating Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
Preferably a restaurant I've never tried but that he loves.

Other questions from Dating How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: Half the time we were dating
Never give them more time than you need.

Other questions from Dating Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
Sure - after time has passed

Other questions from Dating Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: At the supermarket or another unassuming place
Actually I met my sweetie (soon to be hubby) online

Other questions from Dating When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
Let the world know only after you've let him down first

Other questions from Dating How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've been in a relationship for a few months
Three months minimum

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Not that important
As long as you communicate

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Somewhat important
This is a values thing for me

Other questions from Dating Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Hot
Um...yes.

Other questions from Dating Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
My parents are from a very different era.

Other questions from Dating NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Neither
Yeah not so much into football

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Drummer
Love drummers!

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Spicy
Spicy but not overly

Other questions from Style When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: If he proposed, I'd pack my bags.
This is actually my life.

Other questions from Dating Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
Sure if he had them.

Other questions from Dating Guys who play video games:

Her answer: Pass the controller; I'll frag your ass
I can take on a gamer

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Dog person
Actually I'm both

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
Sure - no prob for me

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
Um...glasses are hot

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: Edward
Come on really? Hottest vampire ever

Other questions from Style Sarcastic people are:

Her answer: Funny
They can really be both depending on the situation

Other questions from Dude 101 If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
My hybrid car

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: Peggy
Joan gets on my nerves

Other questions from Style Mad Men (gentlemen)

Her answer: Pete
Cute

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: NY Style
NY all the way

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Hard shell
Like the crunch

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Rock
Actually I like a lot of different types of music

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 00s
I like a lot of the music in the past decade

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: Bill
Uh Bill - absolutely

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: Awesome idea!
Love concerts

Other questions from Dating Better job:

Her answer: Start-up
?

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Both
Love keeps you warm but no money will cool you both down in a hurry.

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Around the world
Luckily my dream job is to work at home.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Rolls
Oh sushi rolls how do I love thee? Let me count the ways

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Bowl of pasta
He tries

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: I can fix it
Generally I'm the fixer

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Um...really all three

Other questions from Dude 101

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