Jessica Chang / 30, Los Angeles, CA
Thoughtful, well-spoken and easy on the eyes.


Jessica Chang's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Suburban
  • Relationship status: Dating
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Career
  • Current living situation: Significant Other
  • Outlook: Optimist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: Great Mystery
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Laid-Back
  • Applicable stereotypes: Aesthete
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Cocktail Lounge
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 5/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 2/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Normal
  • Dating style: Serial Monogamist

Jessica Chang's favorite drink

Mojito

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Questions Jessica Chang has answered:

Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Always.

Other questions from Dating
How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
It should never be required. It should be given freely.

Other questions from Dating
Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
HELL NO.

Other questions from Dating
Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
Men are opportunist. True. Even if it's sleezy, is it still going to happen? Yup.

Other questions from Dating
My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
She may not care that much, but you should do something. Even if it's small and special.

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Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
Depending on how far along we are in the relationship and if we're kinky like that.

Other questions from Dating
We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Romantic.
... If i like you a lot.

Other questions from Dating
Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: Yes.
You gotta start somewhere. It's a holiday with built-in romance, even for the most cynical women.

Other questions from Dating
Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Or pretend to.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
It can get annoying. It's also cute if you're nervous about me.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Now include me. Intellectual three-way!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Men need to learn this one. Pleasant and honest. It's possible.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
You don't have to know how to shake my alcohol... there are more important things.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Usually the driver. But please, I don't want to hear sports all day long.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Goodfellas
Classic.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
Sharing is caring.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
Show me your moves if you can dance. If not, just stand there and let me dance around you.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
That IF is a huge IF. in the service industry you get asked out all day long.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
And depends on if you're doing something meaningful.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
More like ambivalent.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Yes.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
Let's do it. 'Til I'm tired. That's the way I like it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
If it's alcohol.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Talent and ambition are huge. If you sit at home and talk about big dreams, you're not an artist.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
As long as we're all good with it. I'd like for you to at least like a few things I love.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
But I love them both.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
If you aren't condescending.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: On special occasions
Momma's boys are the devil to break-in.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: The more garlic, the better.
I get you for seconds.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Of course!
It's all about who you know.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
It depends on your field. Sometimes it requires working on many projects.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
If you study endangered canids in the wilderness or whitewater raft in african rivers, sure.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
No, please. Let me look sexy in my undies.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
I've seen it work beautifully. I've seen it fail. Don't try it if you don't know how to make it work

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
But it's not a huge deal.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
If you can make it work, work it.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
Athletic socks are a huge no-no with dress shoes. Keep it classy.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Don't make me feel cheap and dirty, unless I'm asking for it.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
Neat is nice.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
I love my exes. We were together because we get along. We broke up because we aren't compatible.

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
Depends on the type of contraception. In the beginning, it's usually guys. Use a condom!

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
You uncover major gems of knowledge. Knowledge is power.

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
Unless you're okay with me getting lap dances from guys.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
But choose wisely. Make sure there is a reason and make sure I come out sounding better than her.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
Tip according to the service. At minimum 20% and go from there.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: If I do, take my lead.
Ok, but don't look at it all the time.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Nope. I don't do drama. Even for great sex.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
At least I'm honest.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
yuck.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
As long as you're attractive to me.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
Graphic novels, super heroes... it's all good.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Where are you taking me?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
Scruffy is so high school. Only looks good on Brad Pitt and guys with no chins.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxers
I'll go as far as boxer brief. Briefs make me think you're still wearing underoos.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
Or sometime in between 1st date and intimacy. It's important to know track record.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: Yes
I Google search everything. Especially dates.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
Cheating means problems aren't getting resolved. Resolve them or get out.

Other questions from Dating
Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
Do unto others...

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
Why not? Maybe I'll even get a promotion out of it. Haha!

Other questions from Dating
At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 40s
But, there's something to be said about confidence that is ageless. Bring on the swagga.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
Less taxes? Gonzo!

Other questions from Dating
Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
But I would. It's a numbers game, right?

Other questions from Dating
How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Never
I am an admitted Facebook whore and post things on his FB all the time. Not to check on him though.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: The possibility of sex
67% of those men surveyed are probably also liars.

Other questions from Dating
If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Probably not
But they should. You don't have to give birth, at least take the pill.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: Yes
Two kinds of men: Those in happy relationships and manwhores.

Other questions from Dating
How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: The first few dates
No time limit on how long he should TRY to pay.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
Also acceptable, single-malt scotch.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
I kinda dig a little bit of squish in the middle, but I need to feel protected in your arms.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
If you don't, that's okay, too. Life's tough. Just don't cry over sissy stuff.

Other questions from Dating
What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The salary
Money, money, money.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Career
Look, even if you're making Bill Gates cry with your job shoveling poo, you're still shoveling poo.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
Depends on what's going on.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
Let's be realistic here, ladies.

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: What recession?
If anything, I'm spending more. Unless I go back on unemployment.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: Straight up
What can I say? I love Paula Abdul.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A nice lounge with top-shelf cocktails
Mixology is my cup of tea.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I'll take the bartender's suggestion
And mix it up. Why limit yourself?

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
Know what you like; drink what you know.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
Bring it on.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Wave a $20
Money talks.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Fun
And lame at the same time. Amazing, isn't it?

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Traditional
Sip a mojito by the beach on a hot summer day and try to go back to anything else.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mojito
Refreshing and alcoholic. The cure to all summer heat.

Other questions from Nightlife Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Buzz off - I'm already in a relationship
I found someone who is all three to me

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I love it!
Terrifying, gut wrenching and exhilarating, ain't nothing better

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Laughter is the way to my heart. And food, too.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Extremely important
Don't need to discuss the meaning of life all the time, but keep up if it comes up

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
I'm a traditional kinda gal sometimes

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
Better to know

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
Let's be realistic about our gym, just don't get sloppy

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Sure, no problem.
What's in the past is there for a reason

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Most first dates don't work out. I'd rather not be bored.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Touch: Give them a hug, massage or kiss
You can say so much with a kiss

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: Yes
If there's a reason, but otherwise, is it really necessary?

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: Yes, I'd be playing with them.
Love, love, LOVE video games

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Very damn important
But I don't know if I could fall in love with someone who didn't smell naturally good to m

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
Soulmate status

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
It's important to keep in communication

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: No
Say no to sloppy seconds

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
A little harmless flirting never hurt anyone

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
Normal is boring.

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
I'm a Southern gal and love my knight in shining armor

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Social/interpersonal
We all want the all-around guy, but I need someone I can get along with

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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