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The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Two hot bodies are better than one.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
I love the beach!

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Any tattoos...leave it natural
Sorry, I don't like tattoos.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
We can take turns.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Tofu and veggies ... the healthier the better
i stay fit and you should too.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Is passionate and open about his love for me
i want to know where i stand.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Hot-blooded
The hotter the better!

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Focused on me at all times
if he's with me he should be paying attention to me.

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
Don’t worry. I’ll just fix it if you make a mistake.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
Probably somewhere in between DAILY and ONCE A WEEK.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
Come on…

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
Come on…

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
NEVER EVER.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Better not.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
I can’t stand when that happens.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
Some things meant to be private.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
When I’m in a silly mood.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
Grow up!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
Who cares as long as you know what’s going on.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
So what big deal

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
I spend a lot of time traveling as a kid and still do.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
I travel a lot too so its cool. I bet I can top you!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I like to munch.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
I’m a little conservative with that.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
We like attention.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
It's not HS anymore.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
It's manly.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
Poor taste if you blow them off.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Let's go to a ball game.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Always carry OC drugs.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Let's go home now.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, that makes you a loser.
It's not HS anymore.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
That's a turn off.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
Stick to one thing.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
What do you need that for?

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
It tells me you're a real man.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
Well, as long as it's somewhat interesting.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Who remembers that stuff, anyway?

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Equal
Not less for sure.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Networking...

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Ask around.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
I'll go with you, I'm a great networker.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It shows you care.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
I'm ticklish.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Show off.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I prefer regular jeans for boys.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
I don't even really like socks.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Yuck.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
It makes you hotter for me.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
Come on, grow up.

Other questions from Dating How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
It's disrespectful and sad if you ask any other way.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
I'm dating him not her.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
What's wrong with that?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
Well how about lust at first sight?

Other questions from Dating I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I feel safe and protected that way.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
I'm look young and I like my BF not to look like my dad not that my dad is bald or anything…

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: One day
It's polite and shows interest, I don't like games.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
You can try before but I won't come.

Other questions from Style Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
I think a girl should always recieve flowers on VD, even if her dad or brother have to send them.

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: 1 year.
Something smallish-some nice earrings would be good or a small heart necklace.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
I bet he's thinking about me though…

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
What woman doesn't care about Valentine's Day and everything it means????

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Classless.
Unless we've done the deed for a while.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
I'd be afraid.

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
It's only for going out if you've been together for some time

Other questions from Dating Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
I may kiss them..

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Assholes.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
I like both.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Very
I like fancy drinks. It feels like I'm on a vacation, and I like vacations.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
I'm easy

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Who?
Not my favorite but I like his daughter.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
Why not? You've had the rest of me in your mouth if you're using my toothbrush.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Show me what you got.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
They get asked out a lot, what makes you so special?

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: 3 months
It's tough out there... it may take longer.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Corn—potatoes—dogs—it's ok by me.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
I like that you care about my day.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
That's more than enough unless there is an election or hot topic going on.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
There's more at home.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Talented in the studio and the bedroom?

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: I'm interested in what DOESN'T overlap.
That's where the interesting stuff lies.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Not big on cologne.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Stones
MICK!!!!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
RUDE RUDE RUDE

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Maybe more.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Please don't.
I won't be able to kiss you then.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Of course!
Why not?!

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
It can be a good thing or a bad thing.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Not particularly
Boring.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: Everybody.
Why not.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Fine by me.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
I don't use a wallet.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
Look good that's all that matters.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
In the locker room only.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A tender embrace
Thanks for the memories.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
I don't like chewing on long, stray hairs.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
It's less complicated that way.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
My turn, your turn. We both should be prepared.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
I'm too busy.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
I'll be your lapdancer...

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, leave her out.
Do I really have to know everything???

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
If the service is good.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: Yes.
Ok, if it's on vibrate.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
I like sneaking around.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
Who cares.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
I don't like those stray hairs.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
Thin is OK as long as you're fit.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Back to high school...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
It's too soon earlier.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Can be sexy.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Nice!

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
No point rushing that conversation.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I'm too busy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners