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The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
At least 3x a week.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
This was the best option, but we can walk on the beach after jet skiing, or some fun water activity?

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
Whhhhhhhhhy would you do that?!

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
It's rare, but it increases your chances of breakfast in bed.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
But try something different sometimes, don't always play it safe with a burger or steak.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Females like a little ìchaseî too

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Love is Patient.

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
We have eyes for a reason, just don't be disrespectful.

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
It flows easier.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
Depends on how often they are getting some…some men aren’t even into it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
It’s important to balance the two.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
Ideally you’ll change them daily, but any more than s weekend in the house is pushing it.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Don’t do it.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
Depends on what the secret is

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
You should always expect the unexpected.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
Some things should be kept quiet.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Offensive
No bueno.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I’m just glad you can read.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
Add a little variety in there.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
I sing, it’s what I do.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
and we should plan to travel abroad together.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
Unless I ask, or have been there too.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
After all, you’re a man.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Definitely
It shows that you pay attention to detail.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
Don't forget to say excuse me

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Prove that chivalry isn't dead!

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
If they know you are broke, hey should understand.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
What guy doesn't enjoy a couple of shots?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Food can make almost anything better.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Why would u want 4 crummy drinks?

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
We appreciate it, but it won't always get you a number.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Remove the soiled piece of clothing. Party on.
Just make sure you don't spill it on me next.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: True
I speak from experience

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I'd say 'Look at that idiot with no coat on' before saying 'He's checking his coat, how lame.'

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
The end result is to have some fun, your just taking your time getting there, I like it.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
As long as it's legal. I don't want to lie when people ask me what you do. (Unless you're a spy...)

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Just have a job.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Equal
While I've dated men that don't make as much as I, I prefer that he makes at least that.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Some coworkers are messy and try to find things out now to use them against you later. Be wise.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Be confident, and be ready to support your claim.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
We all have to do things we don't like.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Overdressing is far better than underdressing.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Never
As long as its not one of those extra skinny, barely there, mini mustaches.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
You will have 2 collars... It's dumb. Don't do it.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Please don't...

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
I would appreciate the style 'risk' in not matching the socks to the slacks.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
If it looks good on you, wear it.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
It doesn't have to be name brand, but you must coordinate. I don't want to have to dress you.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
We are all adults.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Absolutely not.
It would bother me at the end of the day.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
If I see you everyday, you're not THAT strange.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Yes
It's never happened to me, but I'm sure its possible.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
Humor can take you a long way and make up for things you may be lacking.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
While I've dated guys my height, I feel more protected with a taller guy.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
Depending on your age.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Two days
2 days is just enough mystery. I'll wonder if your into me and I can decide if I'm into you.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
Could be after the second date depending on how things go. Taking it to the house is another level.

Other questions from Style What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Fancy dinner
Big Party is a no, too many ppl, not enough room...Dinner & Drinks is perfect!

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
Well... they say its the thought that counts.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: No.
This day and age, I'd barely want to hi-five a stranger.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
I don't want to know what your 'work wife' looks like.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It's New Years!! No such thing as overdressed!

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: A few years into the relationship
After you are comfortable with them and accepted/expected at holidays, it's standard.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Unless we are married, it is separate beds out of respect.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too big?
It will make me feel better to return something for a smaller size than a bigger size.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
It will be funny, humor is sexy...you'll be rewarded with a kiss

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
The thought of liquor & milk makes my stomach hurt.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
There is stuff in between your toes, clean them.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
Stay still or stop lying.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
I like that you have an opinion.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Be honest, but have a little tact. Remember: It's not what you say, it's how you say it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
I don't care about that.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
We will have to compromise.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Goodfellas
I love gangsta flicks.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
That is just disgusting, use your finger or a washcloth, anything BUT my toothbrush.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Dance with me!

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
But she may just be flirting for a tip, you're probably one of many that night.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
If you are actively searching, I will be patient, times are rough

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Don't love it, but I have family there, and I *love* them.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Even if you don't care, ask.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
If the conversation is that good, let's keep it going.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Take it to the head!

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
It is hard work, but I'll admire your dedication.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I love to learn new things and be able to teach you a thing or two.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
I like to get a nice whiff when you walk by.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Even though I don't listen to either.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
If you see the person is getting offended, or really can't help it, please stop.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
They say a man's relationship with his mom says a lot, just don't over do it

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
I cook with it! If you know what it does to your breath, I'm sure you'll have gum/mints handy.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: No way.
If things dont work out with us, things might get tricky.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Depends on the type, your position, and how long you've worked there.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Talk about your other interests first
I really don't mind, especially since my job is awesome too.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Leave it to me.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Just make sure you don't have on skinny jeans.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
It can be more attractive than the rubberband.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Never!
Low 'ceasar' cut please or some well kept locs can be oh so sexy.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
As long as you don't wear them with dress shoes.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A tender embrace
Savor that moment!

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
It's courteous.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
I am still friends with my exes. We don't hang out, but an occasional, hey, how are you is ok.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
I stock up my house, you stock up yours.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
Everything can be misinterpreted on the computer.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
And don't give them my money :)

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
Just don't let it happen all the time.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
Although I tip the standard 15%, the better you treat me, the higher it gets.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
That is rude, who are you expecting anyway? You're with me.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Don't sh*t where you eat.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
No one can handle the truth.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
Taco meat is the worse!

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
I love strong arms.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Grow up.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Traveling is a great way to get to know each other better.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Beard
I like the beard, and the little patch of hair under the bottom lip called the 'flavor saver.'

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
They are so sexy

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Never
I don't want to know how many people you've been with, just need to know that you are disease free.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Seems a little 'stalkerish' to me.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Maybe I should.

Other questions from Mr. Manners