Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: Keep that body tight by all means! The more, the better.
Always keep your body in shape.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
I like being old fashioned.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Anything is good with me.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
Shows he can take care of himself and me too.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Caviar, Sushi, or Foie Gras ... Gourmet is the right way
Shows you have class

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Still make me work for it, but give me something to aim for.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Definitely should be cool and easy going.

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Focused on me at all times
I like to make eye contact and know that he is thinking about me.

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
This is just more convenient.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
I feel as if it is even more than just ‘daily’.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Always stay close with your friends but there are time where this just shouldn’t apply.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
Cleanliness is very attractive and several days of the same underwear is definitely not.

Other questions from Dude 101 What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: Before they're 40
I don't think anyone should ever be in a rush to get married but 40 is definitely pushing it.

Other questions from Dating My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
If it was a serious relationship, it is definitely never okay to ask her out.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
If it doesn’t concern her, why potentially lose his trust?

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
You should always be prepared for events like this to happen.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
Definitely a great way to be informed.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
All of his movies are definitely hysterical. It is always a good time watching them.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Intelligence is definitely something I look for, you should be up to date with current issues.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
At least you’re getting some form of news and entertainment!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It definitely isn’t my thing but if that’s what you like to do, it’s fine.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
It is a great experience in a lifetime but not everyone can make it to a foreign country these days.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
It makes you seem well-rounded.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
It shows that you can take care of yourself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
I don't care for doing anything in public. It should stick to behind closed doors.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
It would be nice but not essential. I can't say I noticed that on everyone!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
It is an absolute must. It shows that you care and have manners.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
You should definitely treat them to something when you are able to.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
It's nice to get out with the boys for a night!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
Excessive drinking is just unattractive. No way getting around that.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
It shows you have class.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
A stain is never attractive.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
I believe those sayings are just myths.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Otherwise you're carrying your coat for the entire night.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
I feel as if it is very masculine.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
I don't want to be with a guy who gets mixed up in the wrong type of business.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
Your title represents a part of yourself. That should always matter.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Higher
Call me traditional. I believe a man should always make more than a woman.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Don't put yourself in a situation that could turn out wrong.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
If it adds up then you truly deserve your raise! It should be clear.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
It shows you have a lot of confidence in yourself.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
I believe it's very rare to ever overdress.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
I feel that a mustache is very outdated and only makes you look older.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Too preppy for me.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Leave it for the women.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
As long as they aren't showing, it shouldn't matter.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Not much to say there! They are out.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: He should wear what I tell him to wear
It's okay to have his own style but a woman knows best.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
It's much more romantic.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
As long as he wasn't a momma's boy and we didn't have to see her daily.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
It's a way to get to know someone.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe that people are compatible, not destined.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
I want to be able to have an intelligent conversation.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I am short and need to feel protected.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
It shows that you take care of yourself.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Don't play games!

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Four
Take a few dates to get to know each other.

Other questions from Style Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Cleanliness is important. The more of it, the better.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
If it isn't that frequent, what's the problem?

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It depends what the debate is about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
A nice mix of the two is perfect.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Very
It shows that you have a lot of class.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Whoever has a better taste in music.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
One of the best movies I have ever seen.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
I would definitely never do this.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Definitely show her what you've got.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
I don't see why there would be any problem with it.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Two weeks
Get on that asap.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Why would you hate Iowa?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
If I am that upset, be kind and ask me.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
I am a huge fan of politics so, why not?

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Just don't make it noticeable.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Success is attractive.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I want to learn new things with new people.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
As long as I like it, I want to smell it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
It's a hard choice but if I had to pick...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
If I do it, can't you do it too?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: On special occasions
It all depends on your relationship with her, but too often is never a turn on.

Other questions from Dude 101 How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: On special occasions
It all depends on your relationship with her, but too often is never a turn on.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
It's nothing to be embarrassed about as long as I have the same problem as you do.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
It depends on how close we are, but it may be a bit awkward to ask.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
All that matters is what you are doing at these jobs.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
I would at least like to find out what you do for a living.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I would find it disgusting if I was with a man who was wearing sexy underwear.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
If it is acceptable for the occasion then I wouldn't see a problem with it.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
A man doesn't have to splurge on everything that he owns.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
If it fits your entire style then do it but, if it doesn't, don't try and be something you're not.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Definitely keep those off unless you're playing a sport or working out at the gym.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
Try not to make it too open to the world. It could become uncomfortable.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
Definitely.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
It shows that you are mature if you can still be friends with your ex.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The girl
I believe it is definitely more comfortable for everyone involved if the girl just does it.

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
It's hard to interpret anyone's true self through Facebook. Plus we all do crazy things in picture

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Just don’t tell me about it.
I'd prefer not to hear about the guy's nights out.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
At least hide it a little bit.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
It shows courtesy and style.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: If I do, take my lead.
You should definitely only do it if I have mine out first.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
I like success that is earned through hard work, not though sexual ways.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
What is the point of lying about it?

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
I prefer everything managed.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
Definitely what I am attracted to.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Not much more to say about that.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Couple months
You need to be extremely comfortable with each other to start vacationing.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
The 5 o'clock shadow is always a nice little touch.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
The perfect combination.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
That can be private information before you fully trust someone.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: Yes
It is definitely important to find out any important background information before meeting anymore.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
My conscience would get to me. I could never do that to anyone.

Other questions from Dating Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
Any other form of communication isn't thorough enough.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
Understandable for co-workers, but never a boss. It just looks too cliche.

Other questions from Dating At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 60s
Prior to this, men have a great older look to them. A little gray is so attractive.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
Of course!

Other questions from Dating Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
While although it is tempting, I feel like I have to meet people in person to get a full sense.

Other questions from Dating How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Once in a while
When things start getting shady, sometimes a girl needs to step in to find out for herself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: The possibility of sex
Depending on the age. The older they are, the less this is the possibility.

Other questions from Dating If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Absolutely
Yes! But would they remember to take it everyday is the REAL question...

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: Guys can never be satisfied.
I feel as though they are always wanting more.

Other questions from Dating How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: The first few dates
If you're going out a lot, the woman should step in and pay too. Its only right.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: A glass of fine Don Q Gran Añejo
Only a real man's man can get away with this. It shows he has character too.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
Can I say all of the above?

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
Every man should be allowed the opportunity to cry and not be judged.

Other questions from Dating What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The people
A lot of it depends on the people that I am going to be seeing everyday.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Family
A family man knows he is set for life, the rest of the others don't.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
Unfortunately, it is my main way of communication.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
The bigger the better?

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
Only spending money on the things I need the most.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: All of the above
Depends on what mood I am in.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A trendy club with a hot DJ
I do love just dancing the night away.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
I like to try everything at least once.

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
A man that knows what he wants is always good.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Bust out the blender, we're making piña coladas.
I'm striving to learn more about liquor.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Only go when your friend is working
I'm usually not up for getting shouldered at the bar trying to get a drink.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Lame
It comes off childish.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Traditional
All of this talk about mojitos is getting me thirsty.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mai Tai
Reminds me of a beach in the caribbean.

Other questions from Nightlife How have you been this year?

Her answer: A little of both
A girl has always got to be a little bit of both.

Other questions from Dating Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: No way! The holidays happen once a year.
Partner....?

Other questions from Dating Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Fly solo
You have to be quick. In and out. No time for complaining.

Other questions from Dating Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: My parents
My family is the most important thing to me.

Other questions from Dating During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: Shopping
I apparently believe it's yet another excuse to go shopping.

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Carving the turkey
The absolute minimum a man can do.

Other questions from Dating Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the beach
Get me out of this Chicago weather and into some sun!

Other questions from Dating During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: Lose
Being that I am a Bears fan..I am against any wins for Detroit

Other questions from Dating The holidays are about:

Her answer: Family time
Have to spend time with the ones i love the most.

Other questions from Dating Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
Best to enjoy all the new things at once.

Other questions from Dating How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: At least a year
You need some time to confirm the breakup and learn about yourself again.

Other questions from Dating Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
A true friendship with an ex is a great way to know you are completely over them.

Other questions from Dating Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
Keeping focused on myself for the time being.

Other questions from Dating When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
Some things are a little too personal to be posting for the entire world to know.

Other questions from Dating How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
We must be comfortable with each other but nothing established.

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Very important
Just so we're playing by the same rule book

Other questions from Dating How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Very important
So we're not arguing about politics constantly...

Other questions from Dating Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Not
Waaaay too awkward for my liking.

Other questions from Dating Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Yup. They're doing something right.
They know how the game is played at this point! Have to follow what's best!

Other questions from Dating NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Tom Brady
Love him, love the game.

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Front man
Why isn't there an ""all of the above"" option?

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Spicy
The spicier, the better

Other questions from Style When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: Why do I have to move? He should come to me.
Chicago can't be beat, I definitely couldn't imagine moving.

Other questions from Dating Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: No way. Too much baggage there.
It's not a deal breaker but it definitely don't entice me

Other questions from Dating Guys who play video games:

Her answer: Pass the controller; I'll frag your ass
Somewhere more in the middle but, every guy needs their time for fun.

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Dog person
I love them all but if I HAD to choose, pass me the puppies.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
It shows he has confidence.

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
I think it is currently one of the hottest trends.

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: I don't watch it
Haven't had the opportunity to endulge in this

Other questions from Style Sarcastic people are:

Her answer: Funny
A must in my life.

Other questions from Dude 101 If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
It's a must.

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: I don't watch it
Wish I could say I watched this.

Other questions from Style Mad Men (gentlemen)

Her answer: I don't watch it
Wish i could say I watched this, again

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: Deep Dish
I don't think I could ever deny a slice of this.

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Soft shell
Do i have to choose just one? Anything Mexican, pass it my way

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Rock
It's hard to choose just one...

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 60s
Beatles definitely define the best era.

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: I don't watch it
I know, I know...Lame.

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: WHAT!? I CAN'T HEAR YOU!
A tad bit improper for the first few dates

Other questions from Dating Better job:

Her answer: Start-up
A job is a job.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Both
The best of both worlds!

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Down the street
I love this city too much to leave it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Rolls
Any type of sushi is fine with me!

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Can of soup
Wish I could say I could cook more than the basics

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: I can fix it
I can TRY to fix it. Possibly not successfully

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
It's always lovely to see someone do something for a cause.

Other questions from Dude 101