Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Any girl loves flowers!

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Marriage.
Jewelry is more romantic and means more if it is out of the love in your heart, not a requirement.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yes.
It is still a very recent break up.

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
Unless you are thinking about just taking advantage of their loneliness.

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: No.
It's probably not a trap, but you should still surprise with it least flowers.

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
If we are physical together. If you get my lingerie and we have not slept together yet… not ok.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
It depends on how quick and amazing our connection is… but after a week… that is way too quick.

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
I think there is too much pressure involved for it to be a first date.

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
It's the new year, start with everybody you love!

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
The emotions behind the present are always more important then the present itself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
Depends on the vibe you get from the stranger. Why not start the new year off with someone new?

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: Of course
But only if that person asks you to go, do not invite yourself.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It always shows you care to dress up for the person you are trying to impress.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: A few years into the relationship
You don't really have to give until you're married but it shows interest if you start early.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Though it depends on how long the relationship is. Yet you should be respectful.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too big?
I'd rather you give me too much. It shows how much you care.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
It's a tradition and can lead to something new and fun.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
I have never been the biggest fan of the taste of Eggnog and Rum is just delicious.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Don't be dirty.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
It happens.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
Half the time they just look stupid.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
You can say the truth in a nice way.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
We can always have someone else make our drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
It's smart to make everybody happy and sometimes compromise.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Hot guys with accents :) Plus I have a thing for cops.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
Not a first date, but if you are in a committed relationship it's okay.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
You don't have to be amazing, but don't be shy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If you're game for public humiliation.
That is just rude to me!

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
In this economy, it's understandable. Just keep trying :)

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
It reminds me of Star Trek.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
It's nice to have someone who is interested in what I do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
It depends on our views. If they are too different, we should avoid the topic.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Why are we leaving if you are not done?

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I am an actor, so I understand.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
I like a man who can teach me things.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
I like when someone walks by and when you get that scent of them, it's delicious.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I am a Beatles fan for life!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
It is just a very annoying thing to do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Every day
It's good to have a good relationship with your family.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Please don't.
I do not like garlic.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
It depends on how I feel about you.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Bad!
It depends on how many jobs. Too many in too little time shows a lack of commitment.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Being over-confident about things can just make you look cocky.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
That is for the lady to show off.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It looks nice for a semi-formal occasion.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Money does not matter to me.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Whenever.
It's up to him. I don't control that. Just please not too much!

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
Whatever is comfortable for him. Just not with sandals!!!!

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A tender embrace
Keep it in the moment, Keep it sweet while it's happening.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
It is just the polite thing to do.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
I trust who I date.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
He buys the condoms, she's on the pill :)

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
It's fun to know a little but it's better to figure it out through him.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
I am not a fan of dating someone who is really into those kinds of things.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
As long as it's not about just your ex.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
My sister is a waitress, so I respect the tip always.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
I should be the only thing that on your mind.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
Secrets can be hot.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Dead-on.
You need to be up front and honest if you want to get with me.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
Keep it neat. It's polite.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
I would not like to be bigger then my man, plus I am a small girl.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
I LOVE comic book boys!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Whenever it feels right.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
It gives you that tough guy look.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
They just look stylish and comfortable.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Just before we’re…intimate
It's safe to know.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: Yes
If it is a blind date, if it's a friend of a friend I just surf their Myspace or Facebook. Good to k

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
I never truly thought of this. lol.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
I don't judge a man for this, many of my friends do.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Depends on the situation.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
Don't be gross, change them everyday!

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That is never ok.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
I tell my person everything. No secrets.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
Always compromise with a drink.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
It's quite entertaining to watch.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
He is amazing!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Books
I like my man with a brain.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
A great with a sense of humor.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Cooler
It's a way to earn some culture in your life.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
If you can go, GO!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
Don't be shy to talk about your adventures.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
It's sometimes fun to be a fat kid and fulfill any craving.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Don't be gross, it's not cute.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
I would like him to notice me, but if he doesn't it's not big deal.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Whenever
Be comfortable with yourself, but don't be rude.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Everyone loves a gentlemen.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
If they are there and offering, accept!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
Girls always know what is best.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
And a day in bed!

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
If I am paying for them, they better be delicious!

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
Give them one, but stop at one.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
I am not a wine type of girl.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: True
It has never failed me.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
You can't dance with everything in your hands.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: A dented can of beer
I like a man who can be my beer pong partner.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
As long as it's not illegal I don't mind.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
It's not about who I am, it's about how I live.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
Just have drinks for fun. If co-workers happen to be there, just do not make yourself look bad.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
It's smart to prove you're amazing.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
Life is better with your support there.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
I want my man to be comfortable.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
It tickles the face, not in a good way.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Why look like a tool and have to do that much laundry?

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
I do not want a man wearing tighter pants then me.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
Socks should be discreet unless you want them to be noticed.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
They make you look like a witch.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
I like my man comfortable, as long as they are not wearing socks with sandals I am cool.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
It's more real that way.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
It also depends on how much his mother is in his life.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Weird
It can come off somewhat stalkerish, but then it depends on how it is done.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe in lust but not love.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
If you can make me laugh you can win my heart.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I like the tall ones ;)

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
It depends on how they work it.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Don't want to keep them waiting.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
But it depends on the connection and chemistry.

Other questions from Style