Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: Keep that body tight by all means! The more, the better.
Working out is so necessary, for many many reasons

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: An invigorating hike
It is so fun to get all hot and sweaty in the outdoors.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
Why not just wear a T-shirt that says, ìProperty of...î?

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
It is so HOT if a guy could cook.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: A good, old-fashioned hamburger
Who doesn't like a good ol' American burger?

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
I hate games, but I also like surprises

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
It is so great to be laid back because life is too short to get all fired up

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
It is great to have eye contact, but it would be awkward if eyes were on me at ALL times.

Other questions from Dating Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Who doesn't like fresh flowers? Well, if you're allergic, it's not appreciated.

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
It's nice, but not required.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
It's just Valentine's, well I guess unless the last Valentine's was spent in Paris.

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Nope.
How great would it be if you fell for each other on Valentine's? It would be a good, cheesy story.

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: No.
You should at least get her a little something, like chocolate and flowers.

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
If it has been like a year-long relationship, fine. Anything shorter, forget about it.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
You don't know each other that well yet.

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: Yes.
There is so much romance in the air as it is, why not?

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Fancy dinner
Having a great meal with a few friends is so key.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
Thoughtful gifts are much appreciated.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
A one night kiss, ewww so HOT.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
It depends on how long you two have been dating.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It is better to look overdressed than underdressed, plus you just feel good looking all dolled up.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Immediately after dating
If you are invited to their house for the Holidays, at least bring over a bottle of wine.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
It is just out of respect.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
If it is too big, she may think that you think she is big. I know, girls are crazy....

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
It is a great excuse for a smooch.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
Rum punch is yummy...

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Aren't your feet a part of your body, wash them!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I think it is cute if a guy is nervous.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Booooooring.”
I don't think it's sexy.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
It's not difficult to do both, really.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Too experienced can be dangerous.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
I guess we have to be fair, right?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
I know, you're probably thinking Goodfellas.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
There has to be a store nearby or something.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Have fun with it, life is too short.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
You never know until you ask.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
If you're just sitting around playing on the internet, then forget it.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
Sorry, but what's in Iowa?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Don't you care?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Five minutes.
If we're talking about politics then we must be bored.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Ditch it.
I am sure it won't be the last time you have something to drink.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I love it when a person works hard to achieve something in their life.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
I love to learn new things, and if a guy can teach me, that is a turn on.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
I love when a man smells good.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
They are so much cooler.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
It can be funny, sometimes.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Why not? It's is your mom who I am sure will always be there for you.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
As long as you have some mints, who cares?

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: No way.
I don't like the idea of mixing business and family.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Bad!
Stability is key.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Sure. It's what you do most of the week.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I do not like tiger print on men.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
This look is classy.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
I never notice.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
As long as he uses it the right way.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Athletic socks and dress shoes do not go.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Ending a night with a kiss is the best way to end a night.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
For sure!

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
Exes are considered ex' for a reason.

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
It takes two.....

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I even check out all his friends
The people you hang out with tell a lot about who you are.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Under no circumstances.
What is the point?

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
All I know is it better be a good story.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
Any service should be tipped 20% or more in my eyes.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
Seriously, enjoy dinner for a chance.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
It can be exciting....

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
I don't think anyone tells the truth.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
We are NOT in the 80's.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Muscly and cut.
I like the athletic look, to me it means he takes care of his health.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
My nephew loves comic books.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
It is so cool to be spontaneous.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Stubble can make a guy look a little rough, which is sexy.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
I love boxer briefs, they are so HOT!

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Usually when I'm intimate with someone it means I am serious.

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I guess I never really thought about that.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
It is just a lot more convenient.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Monthly
I guess if they're pretty desperate.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
That is just bizarre.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
If you need to, go comando.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Why would you want leftovers?

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
As long as she is not going to tell and keeps it to herself.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
It is not a big deal as long as you can pay for it somehow.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
I cannot stand it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Who is Judd Apatow?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Who is Judd Apatow?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Reading is definitely a great thing to do.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
Who is Jon Stewart?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
I guess it depends on what you say or sing.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
It makes you appreciate what you have.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
That's just a little weird.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
At least you have dinner and dessert.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Really, no one needs to see your business.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
I guess it really depends if I cut it short or not, but if is just a trim sometimes I cannot even no

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Really, that is so disgusting.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Be a gentleman, at least in the beginning.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
You have a year to get them a gift, so don't sweat it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
People usually want to go out and celebrate on their birthdays.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
A really good breakfast will usually cure it.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
If you have two you do not need four, hello.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
If you have two you do not need four, hello.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, they’re just using you.
Girls can or should buy their own drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Club soda is magical.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Not a huge drinker.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I do not like wearing coats at all.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Red Wine
Red wine is sultry.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
I don't care if he is making enough money to be comfortable and not living pay check to pay check.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
You can have a job title one day and not the next.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as we're both comfortable and not in financial distress.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Not necessary. Just do your job!
It may not be such a great idea when you're getting tipsy and can't hold a conversation.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
That way you know exactly what you're worth.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
The good thing is, sometimes you won't have to see the same people ever again.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
I love it when a guy dresses up.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Again, that is sooooo 80's.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
That is so 80's.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Ewww, really, skinny jeans on a guy, no thanks.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
I don't know why, but I love to match, not everything of course.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
Hmmmm, depends is it a guy or a girl?

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I do not mean to sound cliche, but how one dresses says a lot about their personality.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
I am old school, if you send me a text, forget about it, there will not be a first date.

Other questions from Dating How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
I am old school, if you send me a text, forget about it, there will not be a first date.

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
In the end it is really just you and him, not mom and you.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Life is too short for it to be weird.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
Sometimes it can be lust at first sight.

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
Being dumb is definitely a turn-off.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
Sorry, but short men do not do it for me.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
Especially, if they have are hot all over.

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: One day
Games are so annoying.

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Four
People have to earn a good thing.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
I would always have a guilty conscience.

Other questions from Dating Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
I guess I'm old school.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
Why not...especially if you work a lot of hours it can make work fun.

Other questions from Dating At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 70+
Ummmm have you seen Richard Gere, still sexy!

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
I like thinking of having a partner for life.

Other questions from Dating Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
Nothing against it, it's just not for everybody.

Other questions from Dating How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Never
I don't have to know EVERYTHING.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: The possibility of sex
Sex, sex, sex...what else is on their minds?

Other questions from Dating If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Absolutely
I just hope they think of other consequences too.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: No
This is a tough question.

Other questions from Dating How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: The first few dates
I'm okay with splitting the bill sometimes.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: A six pack of beer
In any part of the world.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Chest
It is sexy to have a nice chest.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
What is the big deal?

Other questions from Dating What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The opportunity to advance
Who doesn't like a challenge?

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Career
It's what he does for eight hours a day or more and five or more days a week.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
Especially if they're at work and I need to say something to them quickly.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
I think a lot of guys love breasts and sometimes can't tell the difference between the fake and real.

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
I guess I am growing up and realizing that I don't have to have EVERYTHING I want.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: On the rocks
I love my drinks cold and they sometimes need to be a little watered down.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: An outdoor rooftop with a beautiful view
I love city skylights.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I stick to one type of drink the whole night
I've had too many bad episodes with mixing my drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
I like it when a man knows what he likes and wants.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: I can twist off a cap or pop a top.
I guess I'm pretty simple when it comes to drinking.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Lean all the way over the bar
The bartender has to be able to see your face.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Lame
If I wanted to go to a circus show I would.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Traditional
I like the fresh taste of mojito.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mojito
It's always so refreshing.

Other questions from Nightlife Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Buzz off - I'm already in a relationship
Sorry, but I am really into monogamy.

Other questions from Dating How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I love it!
Without love, what is life?

Other questions from Dating How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Laughing is awesome, especially with someone else.

Other questions from Dating How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Somewhat important
There needs to be substance in hotness.

Other questions from Dating If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: Yes
We are in the year 2011, right?

Other questions from Dating