Mekalia Reid / 27, New York, NY
I love to have fun, dance and watch a wide array of movies.


Mekalia Reid's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Urban
  • Relationship status: Dating
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: Grad School
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Lone Wolf
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: No Thanks
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Nerdy,Fashionista
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Cocktail Lounge
  • Flavor of humor: Dirty
  • Her food: 2/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 4/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Serial Monogamist

Mekalia Reid's favorite drink

Traditional Cuba Libre

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Questions Mekalia Reid has answered:

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: Keep that body tight by all means! The more, the better.
I don't need big muscles but I think people should take care of themselves and be healthy.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: An invigorating hike
I love to workout! Hiking (and talking), then a nice picnic = a GREAT date!

Other questions from Dating
When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Any tattoos...leave it natural
I'm not a fan of body art. So the less, the better!

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: He just better be good at it
I LOVE a man who cooks and I LOVE to eat. So if your food is inedible, don't bother!

Other questions from Dating
When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
I like a man who eats well - healthy AND hearty. But I don't want to see his food on his shirt.

Other questions from Dating
During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Is passionate and open about his love for me
Life is hard enough, I don't need to add ìman chaserî to my resume. Next!

Other questions from Dating
In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Hot-blooded
Passion is sexy - and a huge turn on.

Other questions from Dating
When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
A happy medium is always best. Too focused on me screams ìobsessed.î

Other questions from Dating
What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: There's no particular age
Does it really matter when? More than 50% will get divorced within the first 5 years anyway.

Other questions from Dating
When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: Why do I have to move? He should come to me.
The person who is more mobile should move.

Other questions from Dating
What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Cozy-up by the fire
I love to hang out with the one I love and have an intimate night. (But big parties are fun too)

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The value.
I'm SORRY but the value DOES matter. It's what I would do for you!

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: No.
I am totally into kissing but I like to do it with someone I'm really into.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
That is painful, so attendance is only reserved for serious relationships.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Overdress all the way. It's New Years!!!

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: A few years into the relationship
After a few years and a few holidays together, it simply makes sense.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
Separate beds unless we live together/are engaged.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
Either way, it has to be returned, but don't insult us with a gift that's too big.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
As with everything, it depends on who's presenting. But if he's a cutie, it's a adorable gesture.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Eggnog
I love Eggnog spiked with rum!

Other questions from Nightlife Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
It just feels right over.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Monthly
If he's looking daily, he has too much time on his hands.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
I believe in Chicks before Dicks. So i respect the sentiment!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 1 day
Gross. Change them when you shower and you should shower daily.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That's GROSS!

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
That's his business, keep it that way.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
I never have cash, so I empathize. However, thank god there are ATMs everywhere.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
There's great programming on PBS, antiques roadshow anyone?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Offensive
He's ok. Not really offensive, but definitely not hilarious!!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Be well read and versatile. Knowledge about a variety of topics makes a great conversationalist.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
Jon is great but it's all opinion. I like a guy who checks the sources. You may disagree with Jon if

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
No comment.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
I love to travel and I love a man who's traveled and open to doing much more.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
It all depends on the context and delivery.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
If you plan to have a girl over, try to make sure there a few things there for her to be comfy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: Anything goes!
n/a

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Definitely
A guy should take notice of any significant changes.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Whenever
Try to be discreet.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
But if there's a second door, she will get there first and should open that for you.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
No matter how broke you are, if you are going to the wedding, make sure you bring a gift.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Guys love to party. Can't go wrong with that.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Best not to drink too much but sh@t happens.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Grow up, if you are drinking just to get drunk, go back to college!Grow up, if you are drinking just

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: No, they’re just using you.
That's corny.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
It's a bad look to be all stained up.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
Depends on how much of each you drink and the spacing of the drinks.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I'll check mine too.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Red Wine
I like a light casual drinker. Beer is for hanging with the guys, and shots for the bachelor party.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
Yes, it better be legal!

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
After a couple years, if I have no title, chances are that I will never have one.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as he works hard, contributes financially and is constantly improving, I'm happy.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Stay long enough to be funny but leave before you get plastered!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Make sure your request is reasonable in light of market conditions before you do anything crazy.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Networking is key to success and success is sexy.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Too casual can show a lack of care.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
Evaluate, if you look like you belong in a porno, time for the mach 3.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
One shirt at a time is enough playboys.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
Leave tight pants to the ladies. But baggy is no better!

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
The socks and pants should blend so the ankles aren't too noticeable.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
As long as it looks good, it's in!

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
In person is best but phone is most likely, text and FB is a little too informal.

Other questions from Dating
Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
It also depends on how much he likes her and how often we would have to interact.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
If the chemistry is there, go for it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Yes
Anything is possible.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
A great sense of humor gets you very far, but you still have to be successful and smart!

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I like to feel small and I am only 5'5'.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
If it looks ok, by all means, rock it. But when it's time, get the full baldy. It's much sexier!

Other questions from Dating
How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
If you are into a girl, don't wait to call. Why play games?

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Two
Only if you feel that things are going well and you make sure she doesn't feel pressure.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: If he'd never find out, what's the harm?
They say ignorance is bliss!

Other questions from Dating
Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Nah. It's easier over email or text.
If it's more than 6 months, in person is better. Otherwise, "text text baby!"

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
Too much drama!!

Other questions from Dating
At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 40s
Men have to work out and eat right too!

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: It's for some people, but not for me.
Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?

Other questions from Dating
Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
I'm an old fashioned type of girl ;)

Other questions from Dating
How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Never
I don't have the password!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
They have a soft side too.

Other questions from Dating
If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Absolutely
Um...Sex without consequences. Is there any question?

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: Yes
Sure, they do whatever they need to do to be satisfied.

Other questions from Dating
How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: The first few dates
It's nice but a girl shouldn't be a taker and not a giver. Reciprocity is best.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
Anything straight up with no frills is a "MANLY" drink.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Um, other.
TOTALLY depends on the guy! It could even be his eyes or his smile. (But abs are a CLOSE second)

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
No woman wants an emotional robot.

Other questions from Dating
What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The people
A congenial work environment trumps all!

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Money
Money Talks.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
If BBM counts, then HOURLY.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
Most guys gawk at them, but they say they prefer the real thing- I hope they aren't lying!

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm clipping coupons and saving pennies.
Definitely shopping less and using all available DISCOUNTS.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: On the rocks
I like my drinks the same way I like my men- smooth and strong.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A nice lounge with top-shelf cocktails
Rooftop is a CLOSE second. A trendy club can be a little young but I am never too old for a hot DJ!

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I stick to one type of drink the whole night
Yeah, barfing is NOT in the plans, so I stick to one thing, thank you!

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
I like a man who knows what he likes!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Bust out the blender, we're making piña coladas.
And margaritas!

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Lean all the way over the bar
Squeaky wheel (and some cleavage) get the oil!!

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Fun
It's all good as long as there's a delicious drink at the end.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Watermelon
NOT A FAN of mint in anything but gum, tea and candy.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mint-less Mojito
NOT A FAN of mint in anything but gum, tea and candy.

Other questions from Nightlife How have you been this year?

Her answer: A little of both
Expect the unexpected

Other questions from Dating
Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: We've never talked about it.
No way! Giving comes from the heart- fortunately my heart knows how to stay in line with my budget!

Other questions from Dating
Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Fly solo
No dead weight allowed!

Other questions from Dating
Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: Other
I'm staying home. It's a great time to relax!

Other questions from Dating
During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: I'm the picture of moderation
Actually, DRINKING- but it wasn't an option!

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Sitting in a La-Z-Boy
And being on call to run to the store to get anything I need.

Other questions from Dating
Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the beach
I LOVE warm weather.

Other questions from Dating
During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: What?
I don't care

Other questions from Dating
The holidays are about:

Her answer: Chillaxing
The best time to relax, work slows down, it's cold out.

Other questions from Dating
Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
Something new for both of us, so I can see how he reacts in a unfamiliar environment

Other questions from Dating
How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: The next day
Dating for FUN- and not looking for anything serious is always a good idea

Other questions from Dating
Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
I'm not friends with ANY of my exes but I am sure it's possible!

Other questions from Dating
Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
Life is so much fun solo!

Other questions from Dating
When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
I don't feel the need to tell my FB ""friends"" all of my business.

Other questions from Dating
How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
As long as he's a fun guy, I'll take him along. Booze, food, cake--weddings are fun!

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Very important
Life is hard enough, why have another thing to fight about?

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Somewhat important
It's good to have different perspectives.

Other questions from Dating
Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Hot
Gives a guy something to thing about during the day

Other questions from Dating
Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
They have been together 30+ years. I envy their commitment- I hope for the same but in my own way.

Other questions from Dating
NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Neither
I know nothing about football

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Front man
I'm a sucker for a great singer.

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Atomic
I'm a Jamaican girl

Other questions from Style Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: No way. Too much baggage there.
Generally,I love kids but maybe I won't love his (and I may like their mother even less)!

Other questions from Dating
Guys who play video games:

Her answer: He can play with his joystick alone
Occasionally, games are cool. But obsessesive playing screams "I don't want to grow up!"

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Neither
The only poop I'll clean up is (human) baby poop.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
I LOVE a stylish, versatile guy. Bring it on!

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: Not into it
Um, enough said.

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: I don't watch it
Pulease! (Can you say overrated?)

Other questions from Style If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Meet me at the subway station
Totally depends on where we are going, but there will be no tandem bike

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: I don't watch it
No comment

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: NY Style
Best Pizza in the world is from NYC!

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Soft shell
Save the shell for the salsa and guac

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Reggae
I'm a Jamaican girl

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 90s
Everything was good: Reggae, Rock, R&B.

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: I don't watch it
Sorry

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: Awesome idea!
Depends on what type of concert and what we do before/after.

Other questions from Dating
Better job:

Her answer: Hedge fund
Financial stability is VERY attractive.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Both
No money can break up a loving relationship. Money without love is empty. Sorry, but you need both.

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Around the world
Job satisfaction is so evasive. I'd go anywhere to be happy to go to work everyday.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Rolls
All of it, as long as it's fresh and delicious- Bring it on!!

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Roasted chicken
I love cooking!

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: I can fix it
Um, WE can fix it.

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Doing something is enough

Other questions from Dude 101 Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Someone to come home to
Time to get cozy and settle in for the winter!

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I try to avoid it
Love = headache.

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Life is hard, I need some comic relief.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Extremely important
I need a person who's smart and interested in the world. Mimbos need not apply.

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
Totally depends. But if he's not asking me out, chances are he doesn't like me alot.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
Knowing is half the battle.

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
We are still young- no excuse. I need someone who takes his HEALTH and appearance seriously.

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
I should be able to trust him. Besides, she's an ex for a reason.

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Awkard silence is unbearable.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Actions speak louder than words.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: No
Why are they spending "a lot" of time together. And why is he not spending that time with me?

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: No.
Next.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Very damn important
Good doesn't mean cologne.

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
And I never wanna go back!

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
Yeah, it's a way to be connected.

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: No
Nasty.

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
Nah, as long as it's light and not excessive.

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Normal
Weird is not an option

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
So cute!

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Social/interpersonal
Being a people person will take you further than anything else.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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