Allison Baxley / 29, New York, NY
I've been with my husband for 12.5 years, so I have a lot of advice to give to the male gender.


Allison Baxley's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Rural
  • Relationship status: Soul-Mates
  • Hair Color: Brunette
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Comfortable
  • Mode of transportation: Taxi
  • Work: Career
  • Current living situation: Significant Other
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Average
  • Intravenous temperature: Hot-Blooded
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Fashionista,Arty
  • Makeup stance: Never leave the house without it
  • Hang Out: Neighborhood Bar
  • Flavor of humor: Dirty
  • Her food: 3/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Long-Term Relationships

Allison Baxley's favorite drink

Mojito

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Questions Allison Baxley has answered:

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
I like to stay in shape and working out together is always a plus.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Let's go jogging together!
I love company on my runs, just as long as they don't show me up!

Other questions from Dating
When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Think David Beckham.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
It means a lot when my guy cooks for me, especially since it's not that often.

Other questions from Dating
When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: A big, hearty steak
But eat like a human being, please.

Other questions from Dating
During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Wishy washy is the worst.

Other questions from Dating
In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Nobody likes someone who flies off the handle at every little thing.

Other questions from Dating
When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
I don't need all the attention, but some.

Other questions from Dating
We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
It depends. If it seems romantic, do it. If you’re still shaking hands after a date, no way.

Other questions from Dating
Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: Yes.
Why not? Why be alone if you don’t have to.

Other questions from Dating
Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Always.

Other questions from Dating
How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
Get her something she'll find useful. It'll show that you really thought about what you were buying.

Other questions from Dating
Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
Not even a little bit.

Other questions from Dating
Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
If she looks like she's interested, go for it. But if not, leave her alone.

Other questions from Dating
My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
Even if she says she doesn't care, giving her a gift shows that you do care.

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Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
That stuff is expensive. No booby tassels or anything, but something classy can make girl feel sexy.

Other questions from Dating
We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
If it seems romantic and appropriate, do it. If you're still shaking hands after a date, no way.

Other questions from Dating
Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: Yes.
Why not? Why be alone if you don't have to.

Other questions from Dating
What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
I typically don't go out too often, but this night is a big exception.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
But you should get us something we can use. A handmade card only goes so far before you look cheap.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
One kiss won't hurt anyone. Find a cutie and go for it.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: No, thanks
If she asks, then go. She probably wants to show you off. But don't force it.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It's New Year's Eve. Go all out. You'll stick out more if you don't.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Immediately after dating
Something small like baked goods to start. As time goes by, the gifts should get more sincere.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Same
Obey the parents, but there's nothing wrong with waking up early to go to your 'separate' bed.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
This one's tricky. If possible, go with a medium, but otherwise tread lightly.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
For a quick peck, but nothing more.

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Eggnog
The creamier, the better!

Other questions from Nightlife Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
Unless you have a cat.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
But that doesn't make it okay.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Silliness
Guys need their guy friends the same way girls need their girlfriends.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
Unless there is a specific reason they need to be changed.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Unless you receive express consent from your buddy, and even then, wait a while. A long while.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
You telling your girlfriend a juicy secret reassures her that she's the most important in your life

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Especially in NYC.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Unnecessary
No real opinion.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Nuff said.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I love English literature, but that doesn't mean everyone has to.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
He's super smart.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Cooler
But only if you're really good.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Every adventure is different, so there are always great stories to tell.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
I love to travel and hear about other people's travels.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I'm a foodie, and I like to cook, so if your fridge is stocked, I may just make you a treat.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Kissing, hugging and being affectionate is fine...excessive PDA is tacky.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
Just plain rude.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
Chivalry is still appreciated by most women.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
A nice dinner.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
You can't buy a wing man.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Wake up a couple hours before you have to, take tylenol & drink water, then go back to bed.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Depends on the prices, really.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
Most of the time.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
If that doesn't work, pretend like you didn't know you had a stain when you got dressed.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: True
Beer before liquor, never been sicker.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
As long as you check mine with it.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
Very manly.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
Very manly.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
It's all relative.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Titles are for egomaniacs.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
He should be supporting the lifestyle he chooses to have.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
People fight for people they like and drinks are a great way to get them to enjoy your company.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Show how you've contributed in a positive way so they can see on paper how you've added value.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
The great thing about networking events is that you already have a lot in common with the people.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
The great thing about networking events is that you already have a lot in common with the people.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
Underdressing too much makes it look like you don't care.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
A little scruff is good, solo mustache is not good.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Not my cup of tea.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
Not too skinny though.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
As long as they're not white, we're in business.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
As long as they're not white, we're in business.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
They elongate the legs.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
Doesn't have to be my style, but there needs to be some style.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Phone
In person can be intimidating, so ease some of the pressure by taking away the face to face aspect.

Other questions from Dating
Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
It really depends on how involved in his life she is, but I can deal.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
No creepy staring, but the cute girl who's always in front of you at Starbucks is fine.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
I think it's totally plausible to feel a spark when you meet the love of your life.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Smart
But not in an annoyingly 'I'm smarter than you' way.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
Just my preference. I know several couples who don't meet this standard.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
It's all about the total package.

Other questions from Dating
How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Nobody likes waiting to hear back, so if you like her, call.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Two
Only if you're both feeling it.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
Not ok.

Other questions from Dating
Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
If it was serious enough to require a break-up, then it needs to be done in person.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: Leave the company ink alone.
This can only lead to trouble.

Other questions from Dating
At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 50s
I would say less that men start losing their looks and more that they start showing their age.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
But it's not for everyone.

Other questions from Dating
Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: Nope
I've never needed to, yet.

Other questions from Dating
How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: All the time
What's wrong with that?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: Feeling close to their partner
This is how it should be, but it doesn't mean that's the way it always is.

Other questions from Dating
If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Probably not
And if they did, they certainly wouldn't tell anyone.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: Guys can never be satisfied.
It's always something.

Other questions from Dating
How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: There's never a time when he should
It's always a nice gesture, but it shouldn't be a deal breaker.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: A six pack of beer
Three for him, and three for me.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
Sculpted arms make my heart melt.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
They're not robots. And if they refuse to cry, something's not right.

Other questions from Dating
What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The opportunity to advance
Growth is what will allow you to get further faster.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Family
If he has the other 3 things and keep his family happy, healthy and stable he is doing pretty well.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
The close ones need to know what's going on with me and I want to know the same with them.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
Classy and tasteful will always beat out oversized and overly fake looking.

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
But I still splurge every once in a while.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: All of the above
Depends on what my mood is.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: An outdoor rooftop with a beautiful view
There's nothing like a rooftop in the summer time.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: An outdoor rooftop with a beautiful view
Again, depends on my mood, but generally I like to mix it up.

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: I don't really care, as long as he brings back two
Some people know what they like.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: I can twist off a cap or pop a top.
I can do fancy, but I tend to want to relax with a glass of wine or a beer.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Only go when your friend is working
Otherwise, wait patiently and look friendly.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Lame
Show off.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Watermelon
With mixed drinks I tend to lean on the fruity side.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mojito
Yum!

Other questions from Nightlife Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Buzz off - I'm already in a relationship
Happily married.

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I love it!
When it's right, it just feels right.

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
Laughing together is so much fun!

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Somewhat important
Being able to challenge each other and debate is a core communication essential.

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
Way too shy.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
No creepers please.

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
I take care of myself and I want a partner who does the same.

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: No way!
But I'd be happy to tag along.

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Boredom kills.

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
I love taking care of people.

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Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: No
We've been together long enough that no ex is that important.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: No.
Not my thing.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Important-ish
I mean, I don't want them to stink but they don't always have to smell like roses.

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
Currently.

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: Yes
When you've been together for long enough, those things seem just as important and other things.

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: Yes, but only with my friend's permission
Sometimes that person meets your friend before he meets you.

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
Unacceptable.

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Normal
Although it's not something I think about regularly.

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
It's sweet and shows he's trying to be a gentleman.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Logical/mathematical
To offset my right-brained tendencies.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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