
Rachel U / 26, New York, NY
As a native-Texan-turned-New-Yorker, I'm sassy, curious and full of articulate opinions - which I always believe to be right - on important and not-so important topics alike.

Mojito
Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
I love to work out too, so it's great if it's something we both care about.
Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
It's so cliche, but for good reason - there's few things more romantic!
Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
It's so cliche, but for good reason - there's few things more romantic!
Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
He clearly thought it was going to last.
Her answer: Always a good look
I love when a guy can cook me a delicious meal.
Her answer: A good, old-fashioned hamburger
Since I'll be ordering that too.
Her answer: Is passionate and open about his love for me
If he makes it clear he wants to be with you, the game playing gets thrown out the window
Her answer: Cool-headed
You need someone who can keep things in perspective, especially if you're hot-blooded.
Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
You don't want him to lose sight of the world, but you should be a main focus.
Her answer: Over
Easier to tear off
Her answer: Daily
It’s more frequent than we think, I know that.
Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
Do you want to be alone?
Her answer: 1 day
Ew one.
Her answer: Depends
If she seems interested and he wasn’t that into her, then wait until it seems appropriate.
Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
Determine who will be more upset and how it will affect you.
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Don’t put yourself in that situation!
Her answer: Indispensable
We need all the perspectives we can get.
Her answer: Hilarious
He’s a big part of our generation now.
Her answer: Anything at all
News can come from any medium.
Her answer: Yep
Then we’ll be on the same page.
Her answer: The same
Not my idea of fun, but that’s cool if you’re into it.
Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
It gives you perspective.
Her answer: No
It makes you look more adventurous.
Her answer: Better be fully stocked
You should be able to survive on the contents.
Her answer: 1st
Most PDA is nauseating for those around you,but a little kissing never hurt anyone.
Her answer: Somewhat
Only if the haircut is drastic.
Her answer: Never
Hold it in.
Her answer: You do.
Viva chivalry!
Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
Write that you will make it up to them on their first anniversary.
Her answer: A night on the town.
You will appreciate the reciprocation when it's your birthday.
Her answer: Brunch!
The best meal of the week!
Her answer: 2 good
Quality over quantity
Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
You probably won't get anything but a 'thanks,' but hey, you're doing your part for cute girls.
Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Try and salvage the clothing, if it doesn't work, keep drinking!
Her answer: Neither
Too much of either will lead to a rough morning no matter what.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Coat check exists for a reason.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
It looks more 'adult' than most other bar drinks.
Her answer: Not really
In this economy it's harder to be picky.
Her answer: No
Most likely I wouldn't know if you're title was good or bad.
Her answer: Higher
It would be nice if one of us was financially successful.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
It's good to see people in a different element.
Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Show them why you're worth it.
Her answer: Practice your elevator speech until it’s natural.
Fake it 'til you make it.
Her answer: Overdress
Guys in suits always look more impressive.
Her answer: Every time
All facial hair besides a little stubble is a fail.
Her answer: Stupid
Undershirts exist for a reason.
Her answer: Out
Ifm not feeling the hipster look.
Her answer: Who cares?
As long as the socks match each other it's all good.
Her answer: Out
Pointy shoes are for girls.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
You don't want to be embarassed when you go out!
Her answer: Phone
Easier to schedule the date plus a good opportunity to test out the witty banter ability.
Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
Not if you can't be pleasant around each other, that's just miserable!
Her answer: Romantic
Only do it if you've made eye contact, smiled at each other and she looks like she's interested!
Her answer: Maybe?
I always think I do but it has never panned out yet.
Her answer: Funny
I love to laugh.
Her answer: Taller than me
I like to wear heels and I'm already tall!
Her answer: A turn-off
Not a deal breaker by any means though.
Her answer: One day
Making her wait a little bit will make her want you to respond.
Her answer: Two
Try sooner than that it and looks like your priority is getting her upstairs…
Her answer: Yes.
Fresh cut flowers are still so romantic. Although steer clear of carnations…
Her answer: 1 year.
Might as well get her something to wear so she stops wearing her ex boyfriend's gifts.
Her answer: No.
Doubtful, unless he did something truly amazing.
Her answer: Nope.
If they're out trying to get picked up, then go for it…
Her answer: No.
She might not care, but she WILL appreciate you showing you care. Even if it's not extravagant.
Her answer: Cool.
Depends how long you've dated and how girl-approved it is. Not too crazy unless your GF's a hooker.
Her answer: Creepy.
Too much pressure! If you sweep her off her feet so grandly early, she's going to keep expecting it!
Her answer: No.
It adds too much pressure for both of you!
Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
Don't they?
Her answer: Hardly a habit
I fidget too, I can't judge.
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Unless both of your arguments are idiotic.
Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Put a positive spin on anything honest that might not be what she wants to hear.
Her answer: Not at all
I typically stick to simple drinks so it doesn't really matter.
Her answer: Navigator
Drivers should focus on driving - unless I'm driving and you have horrible taste.
Her answer: Goodfellas
Classic.
Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
On occasion if I forgot mine, but not on a regular basis.
Her answer: Show her your moves
Girls like guys who will make an effort. Great dancer or not, show her you can have a good time.
Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
Just remember you're probably not the only cute guy to try this move.
Her answer: 3 months
Give him a buffer, be supportive and encouraging.
Her answer: Hate it.
Wish there was a different Swing State.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Most of the time you'll get a one word answer, but sometimes I might need to vent.
Her answer: 90+ minutes.
I enjoy discussing politics as long as a) we're on the same page, b) you're open-minded.
Her answer: Finish it.
Don't be wasteful...
Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
As long as you prove your worth in other ways.
Her answer: Doesn't matter.
It's fun when we like the same things, but it's also nice to be exposed to new activities.
Her answer: When I'm next to you.
Not overbearing but I like to be able to smell it when you're around.
Her answer: Beatles
Too many of my favorites come from them.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
We should all strive to have better grammar.
Her answer: Once a week
She should know what's going on in your life.
Her answer: The more garlic, the better.
It's so good! But bring some gum.
Her answer: Maybe?
If I would want you in my family.
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Changing companies to get ahead is not a bad thing.
Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
It's nice to be passionate about your job, but don't brag about it to make yourself seem cool.
Her answer: The lady.
They make sexy underwear for guys?
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
I love this look, but I like preppy guys.
Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Nicer than a rubberband or binder clip is nice enough for me
Her answer: Depends on his style.
For specific hair types it's okay, but in general I'm not a fan.
Her answer: Whenever
Socks should match the footwear.
Her answer: A kiss
You kissed her last night, you can kiss her again now.
Her answer: TRUE
Grooming is always appreciated
Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
Friendly terms are fine, but if annual calls turn into weekly calls, then things might get weird.
Her answer: Split
Depends on the method - I'm not going to ask him to throw in for the pill.
Her answer: The bio section is enough
A little background is always helpful, but other than that you should wait and learn in person.
Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
Look, but don't touch.
Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
As long as every story doesn't start with, 'One time my ex and I...'
Her answer: Twenty percent
Generosity is a good quality
Her answer: No.
You should be focusing on me.
Her answer: If it’s mutual, one of us has to go.
Most likely one of you will move on at some point, so wait until then.
Her answer: Twenty percent less.
Ballpark numbers are numbers.
Her answer: Everything.
If you expect me to be groomed, I will expect the same.
Her answer: Bigger than me.
But other than that it's fair game.
Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
That sounds harsh, I'm just not into them...nor have any of the guys I've dated.
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Depends on the opportunities that present themselves - you can't turn down a free weekend away, etc.
Her answer: Stubble
Anything more than a little scruff is a no-go in my book.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
Best of both worlds.
Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
Although details can definitely make things awkward.
Her answer: Yes
Want to make sure he hasn't been in the news for violating his parole or anything!
Her answer: Over
That's just how I like it.
Her answer: Daily
I don't understand it, I just know they do all the time.
Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Think about your priorities long and hard, then make decisions that follow them.
Her answer: 1 day
Ew that shouldn't be a question.
Her answer: Depends
It depends how long they dated, if he cares, if she ever seemed interested, etc.
Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
If she will be pissed if she finds out you didn't tell her, then you should tell her.
Her answer: Never, ever show up to dinner without cash.
Don't assume every place takes cards. Or do some research to make sure!
Her answer: Indispensable
We need all views.
Her answer: Hilarious
Judd Apatow movies make the world a better place.
Her answer: Anything at all
As long as you have something to add to conversation that you've read.
Her answer: Yep
At least you care about the news.
Her answer: Less cool
A little arty for me.
Her answer: An essential part of growing up
Expanding your view of the world never hurt anybody.
Her answer: No
It makes me know that you have good taste in travel locations!
Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
Beverages plus sweet and savory snack options are always appreciated.
Her answer: 2nd
Anything past a double needs to be done at home.
Her answer: Somewhat
Only if the haircut is drastic.
Her answer: Never
Have some decency.
Her answer: You do.
At least at first.
Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
Mom will hopefully oblige.
Her answer: A night on the town.
Liquor is a gift that is easily appreciated as well as reciprocated for your birthday.
Her answer: Brunch!
Brunch is God's gift to eating.
Her answer: 2 good
Quality not quantity.
Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
They may or may not talk to you after they take the shot, but the liquor is appreciated.
Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Try to salvage the article of clothing, but if that doesn't work, wear it with pride!
Her answer: False
Too much liquor any time will lead you into trouble.
Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Especially in the cold weather it's a must.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
It gives off an air of success.
Her answer: Not really
Dating someone who enjoys what they do for a living is inspiring. Doesn't matter what it is.
Her answer: No
Who am I to judge?
Her answer: Don’t care
This economy has made financial success much less important when it comes to dating.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Bonding never hurt anything, just control yourself - this isn't time with the frat bros.
Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Show them why you're worth it.
Her answer: Practice your elevator speech until it’s natural.
There might be booze, which is helpful.
Her answer: Overdress
New York guys are always overdressed and I love it. I wish more guys embraced it, it just looks impr
Her answer: Every time
Any facial hair more than cute stuble is a fail. Always.
Her answer: Stupid
They make undershirts for a reason.
Her answer: Out
Not into the hipster look.
Her answer: Who cares?
Socks are low on my agenda.
Her answer: Out
On guys? Not totally pointy. Ever.
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I want to date someone who can pick out something appropriate without me having to babysit him.
Her answer: Phone
Phone calls show effort. Plus they allow for further getting to know each other.
Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
I want to marry someone whose mother could be my mother. And my mother would never hate me.
Her answer: Romantic
Pay strict attention to her body language - you can tell if a girl wants to be asked out.
Her answer: Maybe?
I fall in love about every 30 sec, but then he disappears down the street never to be seen again.
Her answer: Funny
Looks fade, success can be blinding, but humor can't get you through the roughest times.
Her answer: Taller than me
I'm a tall girl and I like to wear heels - but for the right guy...
Her answer: A turn-off
Not a dealbreaker, though, just not preferred.
Her answer: One day
Long enough that she thinks to herself 'Wow I hope he calls back!'
Her answer: Two
Unless there is a good reason, e.g. great view for drinks, you have an adorable pet, etc.
Her answer: If he'd never find out, what's the harm?
If you know the relationship is winding down, then moral flexibility in this area can be overlooked.
Her answer: Nah. It's easier over email or text.
Depends on the situation, but if it's not too serious, then online is fine.
Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
It always gets around. But it can be hot.
Her answer: 60s
Men start losing their looks whenever they stop putting in the effort. 60 is when nature takes over.
Her answer: Yes
We live in a marriage-centric culture. I am a product of my environment.
Her answer: Nope
I can still meet guys in person. Maybe someday.
Her answer: Never
Not a good habit to get into. It only makes you crazy.
Her answer: The possibility of sex
Duh.
Her answer: Absolutely
Men don't want to get women pregnant.
Her answer: No
Satisfaction is fleeting. Either it's boring, not often enough, not hot enough, etc.
Her answer: The first few dates
He should expect to pay for the first few, then take turns after that.
Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
It's a classic.
Her answer: Arms
I like someone who can wrap me up and make me feel safe.
Her answer: Of course
Everyone can get emotional now and then.
Her answer: The salary
I'm short-sighted.
Her answer: Career
Men like the world to know they're powerful.
Her answer: Hourly
It's my favorite form of communication.
Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
Something's better than nothing?
Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
I try to live within my means, I really do.
Her answer: All of the above
I like to spice it up depending on my mood.
Her answer: A trendy club with a hot DJ
I like to get my dance on.
Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
This is usually why I feel so terrible the next day.
Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
I like a guy who knows what he likes.
Her answer: I can twist off a cap or pop a top.
Someday I hope to be a little more advanced, but as for now, I keep it simple.
Her answer: Lean all the way over the bar
Put yourself out there.
Her answer: Dangerous
I am afraid of forest fires.
Her answer: Traditional
Traditional is my favorite, but I do appreciate a little creativity.
Her answer: Mojito
I love mojitos.
Her answer: Someone to come home to
The best things happen at home...
Her answer: I love it!
I'm in love with being in love
Her answer: Very important
If I don't get it from you, I am going to get it elsewhere…
Her answer: Extremely important
I don't swim in the shallow end
Her answer: Yes
Only if I know they feel the same way.
Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
Maybe not Google, but Facebook for sure. Nice to have some intel to work off of.
Her answer: Yes, but only if they were obese.
What sort of obese standards are we talking about here?
Her answer: Not thrilled, but go ahead.
Dinner once, fine. Dinner twice, I will whine.
Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Nothing like a little mental stimulation to get you going
Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Cooking dinner is my go to move
Her answer: Yes
Only if she were uglyyyyy.
Her answer: No.
Hell.no. Not for all the money in the world.
Her answer: Important-ish
Like man-smell? mmm. cologne, less important.
Her answer: Yes
Only like a million times.
Her answer: Some
Only the interesting ones.
Her answer: No
My friends only date losers.
Her answer: No
Only if it crossed the line. Innocent flirting is a way of life.
Her answer: Weird
Being normal stops being cool in middle school.
Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
You don't have to go overboard, but I do like being treated like a lady.
Her answer: Social/interpersonal
He gets me, he really gets me.