Jessica Barrutia / 24, Chicago, IL
I enjoy living life to the fullest and meeting new people.


Jessica Barrutia's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Suburban
  • Relationship status: Serious
  • Hair Color:
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Getting By
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation:
  • Outlook: Realist
  • Politics: Democrat
  • Religion: No Thanks
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Cool-Headed
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Driven
  • Applicable stereotypes: Nerdy,Hipster,Fashionista,Arty
  • Makeup stance: Just a little
  • Hang Out: Neighborhood Bar
  • Flavor of humor: Goofy
  • Her food: 3/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Funny
  • Dating style: Long-Term Relationships

Jessica Barrutia's favorite drink

Traditional Cuba Libre

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Questions Jessica Barrutia has answered:

What age do you think people should get married?

Her answer: There's no particular age
"Age ain't nothin' but a numba"

Other questions from Dating
When do you make a long-distance relationship short-distance?

Her answer: I'm not tied to where I live.
When the time is right and you both feel it is the best thing to do

Other questions from Dating
Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
I've never really thought about it.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
I fidget like crazy.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It's nice to see you are passionate about something.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
There is always a way to say things in an appropriate way.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Making fancy cocktails is my thing. Stick to what you know.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Driver
Or whomever the car belongs to.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
Really creative plot, very entertaining.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
Gross.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Letting loose and showing confidence is so attractive.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
From experience, about 90% of the time we are flirting to increase our tip.

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
Our economy is tough right now. As long as you are proactive about it, it's totally fine with me.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
Iowa Shucks.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Show you care!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
Just not while drinking.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Drinks are expensive!

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Sounds like a fun time.

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: “I can show you the world”...
Everyone should be willing to learn and keep an open mind to new experiences.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
When i'm pushing my nose on your skin.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm close to you.
Cologne is supposed to be worn so you can smell it when you are very close.

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Stones
Beast of Burden- sexiest song ever.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
I had a guy do that to me once and he was totally wrong. I told everyone what a douche bag he was.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
A good relationship with your Mom is healthy.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
Garlic is delicious!

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Of course!
Who you know can open up many opportunities. Use all resources.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Good!
Be active and involved.

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Most jobs are boring, and women only care about how you financially benefit from them.

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I've never seen guy-sexy underwear...and I don't think I want to.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Depends where you're going
Cool style gets you noticed.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
I think it is best to choose a simple wallet, name brand wallets are so flashy and tacky.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Whenever.
Usually a pomade looks better.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
They're just socks.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
Being intimate should never be discredited in a sneaky way, that is just rude.

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: FALSE
That is simply a matter of personal preference.

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
“An ex at one point was a large part of your life, and contributed to who you are as a person. ”

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
I think you should split the responsibility, but the girl usually ends up footing the bill :)

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I want to see pretty much everything
How can you resist an open page to find out more information on a person you are interested in?

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
Strip clubs are strip clubs- I'm not worried about you going home with a stripper.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: A story is a story is a story.
You cannot cut out parts of your life for someone else's feelings...how immature.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
At least 20% if the service was decent. Be sure to acknowledge and be polite to your server.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
There is nothing ruder than having your phone out on a date.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Having a fling at work can cause so many personal and career problems...it's just not worth it.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
She is probably only counting the relationship-related partners.

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Leave it natural.
A full sweater is so sexy.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
All girls have different preferences, I like a guy who looks like he can protect me.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
A universe I have no clue about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
Vacations are fun!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Clean shaven
Mustaches are so creepy.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxers
Anything but tighty-whities.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Never
You should never bring up sexual history, it would only cause problems in the current relationship.

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Maybe after you start to have feelings for someone.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
What?!

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
What you do in private is your business.

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
Chicks before dicks...all silliness polarizing the sexes.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
Gross.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Duh!

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
A relationship works best when you are each others' best buddies.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
Who doesn't take plastic? Not your fault.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
It all depends which network.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Hysterical

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Facts are always fun.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
Bill O'Reily is an idiot.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It depends on if you are preforming.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Other cultures and parts of the world shows knowledge and prestige.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
Never name drop, you will just look like a douche bag.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Up to and including caviar
I love caviar, so classy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: Anything goes!
Never live for others, spontaneity is wonderful.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
If it is a new look, yes...if it is the same thing you can't really blame them.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Only if you’ve got a legitimate problem
There is a time and place for everything.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
A hint of chivalry is much appreciated.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
If you do not have enough money for a wedding then you do not have enough money to bring a date.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
Women love to give advice.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
It is more attractive to be in control.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Quality baby.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
It is a great way to get a conversation started.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Works every time.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
Depends on your level of drinking.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Do what you want to do with your belongings.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
Liquor, straight up seems to give off a manly vibe... as long as you're not sloppy.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
What someone does can give insight to the way they handle situations in daily life.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Focusing on a person's title negates appreciating them for who they are as a human being.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
While ambition is important, relationships should not be a competition.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Enjoy the people you work with as people, it will make your life easier and more fun!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
It's proof!

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Women love guys who know a lot of people.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
Again, clothing is always changeable.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Who has mustache's anymore? Creeps.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
Hey hey Kanye.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: Out
it is just un-manly.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
If you are turning down someone based on their socks... you have no common sense.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
Don't really care.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: I’d prefer he focus on more important issues
It all depends on the confidence a man has in himself.

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: Text
Although more comfortable for you, it also gives us a better chance to say we are busy/lie.

Other questions from Dating
Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
You aren't dating her.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Weird
Depends, you need some sort of friendship base.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe in lust at first sight.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Successful
I would prefer all of them.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
Much taller.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
A great sense of humor can transcend any flaw.

Other questions from Dating
How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Two days
A casual text is fine, but waiting makes her think you are not desperate.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
If the chemistry is there, it will be there automatically.

Other questions from Style Would you cheat on a partner if you knew that you could get away with it?

Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
You shouldn't be with someone if you can even think to cheat on them.

Other questions from Dating
Do you have to break up with someone in person?

Her answer: Absolutely. You've got to show some respect.
Do unto others...

Other questions from Mr. Manners Would you ever have an office relationship?

Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
You can't control these things.

Other questions from Dating
At what age do you think men start losing their looks?

Her answer: 60s
Men get better with age.

Other questions from Style Do you believe in marriage?

Her answer: Yes
It's a cultural norm.

Other questions from Dating
Do you use an online dating site?

Her answer: No
Never had to, but I'm not opposed.

Other questions from Dating
How often do you read a partner's Facebook messages

Her answer: Once in a while
Depends on how long you've been dating.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think motivates men to be romantic?

Her answer: The possibility of sex
Men don't seem that mushy - at least the ones I know.

Other questions from Dating
If one were available, do you think most guys would take a male birth control pill?

Her answer: Absolutely
Another way to be responsible.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you think most men are satisfied with their sex lives?

Her answer: Yes
I'm not a man.

Other questions from Dating
How long into a relationship should the guy pay for dates?

Her answer: There's never a time when he should
It would be nice if he would pay - but not mandatory.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you consider the ultimate manly drink?

Her answer: Bourbon straight, no chaser.
Rough.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite part of the male anatomy?

Her answer: Arms
To hold.

Other questions from Dude 101 Do you believe that real men cry?

Her answer: Of course
People are people.

Other questions from Dating
What do you consider when choosing a new job?

Her answer: The opportunity to advance
Look ahead.

Other questions from Success What do you think is the ultimate male status symbol?

Her answer: Money
I know a lot of women who like money.

Other questions from Success How often do you text your friends?

Her answer: Daily
Texting is easier than calling.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What do you think men think of breast implants?

Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
"If you can touch 'em, they're real."

Other questions from Dude 101 How have your spending habits changed since the recession?

Her answer: I'm cutting back on shopping.
Trying to.

Other questions from Success How do you take your drink?

Her answer: All of the above
Extra lemon.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your bar style?

Her answer: A dive with a dart board and a pool table
Cheap and chill.

Other questions from Nightlife When you go out:

Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
What's on special?

Other questions from Nightlife Guys who order cocktails by brand name (ex. "I'll have a Don Q Mojito"):

Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
They like what they like.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your home bartending style?

Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
Delish.

Other questions from Nightlife If you're at a crowded bar, what's the best way to get a bartender's attention?

Her answer: Wave a $20
Cash means you are ready to order.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your take on bar flair (ie. flipping bottles, breathing fire, etc.)?

Her answer: Fun
Wish I knew how!

Other questions from Nightlife Do you have a mojito preference?

Her answer: Traditional
Cool mint.

Other questions from Nightlife What's your favorite Don Q cocktail?

Her answer: Mai Tai
Fruity fun!

Other questions from Nightlife How have you been this year?

Her answer: Nice
Having a job doesn't allow much time for malfeasants

Other questions from Dating
Do you have a set limit on how much you're going to spend on gifts for your partner?

Her answer: No way! The holidays happen once a year.
Just as long as he is spending more

Other questions from Dating
Black Friday shopping: Drag him along or fly solo?

Her answer: Fly solo
Most men don't understand shopping for more than half an hour

Other questions from Dating
Where are you headed for the holidays?

Her answer: Other
Both parents! You have to see everyone

Other questions from Dating
During the holidays I indulge too much in:

Her answer: Sweets
So much food!

Other questions from Style What should he contribute at Thanksgiving?

Her answer: Sitting in a La-Z-Boy
Where I will be too - football!

Other questions from Dating
Wintertime is for:

Her answer: Hitting the sack
I hibernate

Other questions from Dating
During their annual Thanksgiving Day game, the Detroit Lions are going to:

Her answer: Lose
At least I hope so - Boo Detroit, Go Bears!

Other questions from Dating
The holidays are about:

Her answer: Family time
Family are the only ones who will love you no matter what

Other questions from Dating
Where are we going on the first date?

Her answer: Somewhere new
And fancy - the first date sets the tone and you should make an impression

Other questions from Dating
How long after a serious break-up should you start dating again?

Her answer: The next day
It all depends - some people’s hearts are out of the relationship long before the break-up

Other questions from Dating
Can exs be friends?

Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
But those feelings are inevitable - as long as you are an adult about it

Other questions from Dating
Where will you meet your husband?

Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
I think I found my soulmate

Other questions from Dating
When is it appropriate to change your Facebook relationship status?

Her answer: Right after he changes his
Trivial

Other questions from Dating
How long before a guy can be your date to a wedding?

Her answer: After we've gone out a few times
Weddings are always a guaranteed great time no matter who you bring!

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone of the same religion?

Her answer: Not that important
As long as you have a mutual respect for each other’s beliefs - there should be harmony

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to date someone with the same political views?

Her answer: Not that important
Again - respect

Other questions from Dating
Sexting: Hot or not?

Her answer: Hot
Sexting?

Other questions from Dating
Do you use your parents as a model for relationships?

Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
Times have changed

Other questions from Dating
NFL Quarterbacks

Her answer: Neither
Cutler

Other questions from Style What's the most attractive band member?

Her answer: Front man
Demands attention

Other questions from Nightlife I like my spice:

Her answer: Spicy
Geardinaria

Other questions from Style Would you date a guy with kids?

Her answer: Absolutely, I love children.
Who doesn't love kids?

Other questions from Dating
Guys who play video games:

Her answer: Pass the controller; I'll frag your ass
I prefer Madden

Other questions from Dude 101 Are you a cat person or a dog person?

Her answer: Dog person
Cats are evil and men should never own cats

Other questions from Dude 101 Can a partner have more shoes than you?

Her answer: No. I'm the only one that needs a closet for my footwear in this relationship.
I need at least 80% of the closet space

Other questions from Dude 101 Geek chic. Can a man rock a nerdy look with you?

Her answer: I love a man in thick glasses
Who cares - it really is what's inside (his wallet) that counts...just kidding

Other questions from Dude 101 Sarcastic people are:

Her answer: Funny
I am very sarcastic

Other questions from Dude 101 Twilight

Her answer: Edward
Great books

Other questions from Style If we're commuting together:

Her answer: Pull your car up to my apartment
Logical

Other questions from Dude 101 Mad Men (ladies)

Her answer: I don't watch it
The redhead?

Other questions from Style Mad Men (gentlemen)

Her answer: I don't watch it
...

Other questions from Style Pizza style:

Her answer: Deep Dish
Chicago

Other questions from Style Taco style:

Her answer: Soft shell
Traditional

Other questions from Style Absolute favorite genre:

Her answer: Rock
Electric

Other questions from Style What was the best decade for music?

Her answer: 00s
Radiohead

Other questions from Style True Blood

Her answer: Bill
Sooookkkiieeee

Other questions from Style Going to a concert on a date:

Her answer: Awesome idea!
If you have the same music taste it will be fine!

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about stay-at-home dads?

Her answer: I'm all for it
To each their own

Other questions from Dude 101 Better job:

Her answer: Start-up
You cannot buy ambition or work ethic - two very attractive qualities

Other questions from Dude 101
Is it better to have love or money?

Her answer: Both
Money just makes life easier

Other questions from Dude 101 How far would you move for a dream job?

Her answer: Around the world
Enough said.

Other questions from Dude 101 Sushi style:

Her answer: Sashimi (without rice)
But you need fresh fish

Other questions from Style What's his kitchen skill-level?

Her answer: Can of soup
Can't even cook that

Other questions from Dude 101 When something breaks:

Her answer: He can fix it
I'm worthless in that department

Other questions from Dude 101 Eco-conscious guys:

Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Go green

Other questions from Dude 101

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