Erika Thomas / 25, Miami, FL
To quote my favorite book, Bergdorf Blondes, 'a champagne-bubble of a girl about town'


Erika Thomas's Profile Details

  • Hometown: Urban
  • Relationship status: Serious
  • Hair Color:
  • Level of education: College
  • Cash flow: Getting By
  • Mode of transportation: Car
  • Work: Day Job
  • Current living situation: Significant Other
  • Outlook: Optimist
  • Politics: No Thanks
  • Religion: Organized
  • Socialization: Outgoing
  • Intravenous temperature: Cool-Headed
  • Time to get ready: More than 15 minutes
  • Intensity: Laid-Back
  • Applicable stereotypes: Hipster,Aesthete,Arty
  • Makeup stance: Never leave the house without it
  • Hang Out:
  • Flavor of humor: Witty
  • Her food: 3/5 from strict vegan(1) to meat loving(5)
  • I am a...: 3/5 from nice girl(1) to bad girl(5)
  • Kind of guy she goes for: Intense
  • Dating style: Long-Term Relationships

Erika Thomas's favorite drink

Mojito

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Questions Erika Thomas has answered:

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
I don't like when it becomes more about vanity than health! Stop checking yourself out!

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Fitness through shopping
I also like going places like the zoo and on city tours...keeping it fresh!

Other questions from Dating
When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Nothing from the neck up or waist down

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
I usually cook every night so it's nice when he can suprise me once in a while

Other questions from Dating
When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Caviar, Sushi, or Foie Gras ... Gourmet is the right way
Sushi is greatóif you need time to think before answering a question, pop a roll in

Other questions from Dating
During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
I often jump in headfirst so it's balanced when he has his head above water

Other questions from Dating
In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
I'm not a fan of bad tempersóleave the macho fights to Jersey Shore

Other questions from Dating
When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
Because he can be thinking about me without us having a staring contest

Other questions from Dating
Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
Brownie points if you find out her fav, not just the dozen red roses cliche.

Other questions from Dating
How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: 1 year.
At least a bracelet or SOMETHING….anything with a little bling!

Other questions from Dating
Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
I have since moved on. ;)

Other questions from Dating
Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Nope.
Why can't the single mingle together and cheers to V-Day??

Other questions from Dating
My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
Every girl loves attention. Seriously. And some, like me, love it a LOT.

Other questions from Dating
Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
But not for EVERY holiday.

Other questions from Dating
We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
...a week?! I'd probably activate the GPS on my phone in case I went MIA.

Other questions from Dating
Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: Yes.
As long as it stays light, it's a pretty whimsical and fun first night!

Other questions from Dating
Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
But I often have Wal Mart feet.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
People who fidget have higher metabolisms... I read that somewhere.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Until the fists fly.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Consider feelings when divulging the total truth.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Because anyone can figure out a gin & tonic.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Driver
I hate when I'm driving and people change it! Walk then!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Goodfellas
ONE OF MY FAVES!!!! Love Joe Pesci in that one!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
If you have no choice! Otherwise, to each their own.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Just have fun with it!!

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
But really, how often do you think they play that game?!

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how much you have in savings
Rent and day to day expenses begin to add up, but that's what savings are for, right?

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
I actually have no thoughts on it either way.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
Because life changes day to day!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Five minutes.
It's one of those necessary evils.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
I've got limitations.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Waste not, want not, so chug-a-lug.

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
I love art, music, writing, poetry...whatever your creative outlet is!

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
It's good to share things yet also have individual hobbies and likes.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
yummy...Lacoste...

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
Just such inspirational music....come together.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: Totally unacceptable
Unless you're my mother.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
I talk to my parents daily.

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Just as long as we both are.
I love garlic and onions, and if you do too, then that's perfect.

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Except i don't live in the same city as my dad... So if you really want to leave then sure...

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: Bad!
It shows lack of commitment!

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Not particularly
Unless i get to talk about myself too! Act interested!

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I'm a huge fan of lace and leopard.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
I think dressed up and casual look sexy!!!

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Basic brown or black works fine.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
I prefer wax or something a little more pliable.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Whenever
Shoes smell horrid when guys sweat and aren't wearing socks.

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
Keep it on the down low!

Other questions from Dating
If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
Fair is fair!

Other questions from Dating
What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Annual calls are okay.
Birthdays are a legitimate and cordial time to keep in touch.

Other questions from Dating
Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: The girl
At least when it comes to birth control!

Other questions from Dating
How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: I look at every picture
Repeatedly.... i have no shame!

Other questions from Dating
Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I believe in the “look but don't touch” approach.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
Some things are just better left unsaid.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
20% is better than 15% and shows appreciation.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
I do it, it's an awful habit, but it really is rude.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
Coworkers are fine, but not when there's a clear level or power separating the positions.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
:X

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
Leg, arm, chest, and face and head are the only hair zones.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
I don't have a type haha.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Maybe of superheroes and villans but not art and culture...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
When the urge strikes, just go with it.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Clean shaven's ok, it grows into sexy stubble in a matter of hrs.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
Hug the butt and hide the white thighs! ;)

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
And even then, don't ask don't tell ;)

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Googling myself is so disappointing so I don't trust its research.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
Under it would just unravel.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Daily
No option said multiple times daily?

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: There’s a time and a place
This applies to not asking out/hooking up with said bro's ex.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
That is beyond foul.

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
Plus if she says yes, it's probably just to spite her ex.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: If you love your girl, tell her.
Open disclaimer should be: i won't tell anyone, except my girlfriend.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
I don't carry cash either, and it's a pain sometimes, but I also hate owing people money.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
Sometimes I listen to NPR when I drive because it really is fascinating.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
And I ADORE Leslie Mann.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
I love writing and reading, they relax me.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Yep
So do I. JON STEWART FOR PRESIDENT!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: Less cool
I'm just not a fan. Guys used to freestyle at high school parties and it was so obnoxious.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
I try to go somewhere once every couple of months. I get bored staying in one place too long.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: Yes
Keep Amsterdam drug useto yourself. Assume everyone else has done it to—because they have—and save

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Ice cream and taquitos
And chips & salsa!!

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Nobody wants to see your hand down his pants or his up your shirt.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
Unless I chop off more than 6 inches.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
I'm not a fan of public or private (as in private company)... thats why there are bathrooms.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
I don't mind opening my own. Do not open my car door - I feel like the guy is my servant!

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
I love the idea of group gifts. Unless your friends are older, they know everyone's tight on cash.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
Night on the town is meaningless really. I'd say clothes or something practical, like a wallet?

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
I'm a homefed Southern girl so: Bacon and Biscuits and Gravy!! And Gatorade and Anti Nausea serum.

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 4 bad
I'm borderline alcholic when I go out and rarely choose quality over quantity.

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
As long as you know that and don't try to persuade them otherwise.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Why are you drinking red wine?
Once again, that reminds me of my father. Guys my age drinking wine seem pretentious.

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: False
Mixing=trouble

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
I lose everything, so if I can pass off responsibility then I do it.

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Shots!
Shots say 'I'm fun and I want to have a good time!'

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
But I wouldn't date a porn star or stripper—I'm too jealous and greedy to even let other girls have

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: No
Unless your King of somewhere?? Then ABSOLUTELY! Every girl wants to be a Queen.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
Equal is nice because you can take turns paying, but all of my friends go for the rich guy.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Drinks with co-workers is the second part of how I met my boyfriend. All work and no fun is just tha

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
Show them how valuable you are and how much more you can be.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Everyone hates networking! But you gotta socialize...!

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
Technology has made boys lazy.

Other questions from Dating
First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Don’t care
No suits and no wife beaters...but v neck tee's or button downs are A+

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: Every time
Except Cinco de Mayo.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
I live in Miami, one is hot enough.

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
I love tight pants... goodbye oversize grunge, hello tailored.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
I don't look at guys feet.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
For girls - absolutely. They scare guys because they look like little weapons.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: He should wear what I tell him to wear
I tend to give clothing as presents for every occasion...not too subtle but it works in the end.

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
I love awkward situations.

Other questions from Dating
Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
Unless they are a bum or stalker.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Yes
Met my boyfriend over tequila shots and didn't get his broken english; sometimes you just know.

Other questions from Dating
I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
Being able to let things go...rather than beat a dead horse is tres sexy

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: I don’t care
Shorter is weird, but same height is fun when I'm feeling dominant and can wear 4 inch platforms.

Other questions from Dating
Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
They remind me of my dad.

Other questions from Dating
How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
Tempt her with a Wii then go in for the kill ;)

Other questions from Style Which of these options most closely describes what you're looking for in your next relationship?

Her answer: Buzz off - I'm already in a relationship
Recently engaged! Ooh la la

Other questions from Dating
How do you feel about falling in love?

Her answer: I like to just let it happen
When you aren't looking, that's when it hits you

Other questions from Dating
How important is a sense of humor?

Her answer: Very important
I'm a jokester...laughing at my jokes is crucial

Other questions from Dating
How important is it that your partner be willing and able to participate in meaningful philosophical conversations?

Her answer: Somewhat important
Take it or leave it, philosophy isn't my passion

Other questions from Dating
If you like someone a lot, do you usually ask them out?

Her answer: No
Nope, unless I'm inviting someone to come out with a group

Other questions from Dating
Do you Google someone before a first date?

Her answer: Yes. Knowledge is power!
Not Google, but definitely do a little facebook research

Other questions from Dating
If a potential mate is overweight, is that a deal-breaker?

Her answer: Yes, even if they were slightly overweight.
It's essential that people take care of themselves- you only live once!

Other questions from Dating
Your significant other's ex is coming into town and he/she wants to go out to dinner with them alone. How do you react?

Her answer: No way!
What on earth do they have to talk about? Nothing. Bye bye.

Other questions from Dating
What's worse on a first date?

Her answer: Nothing to talk about
Crickets...so awkward. No attraction you can at least joke around & have fun!

Other questions from Dating
How are you most likely to show your partner you care?

Her answer: Actions: Do something nice (like a date or errand)
Cooking and folding laundry goes a long way

Other questions from Dating
Would you be okay with your significant other spending a lot of time with one of their exes (as a friend)?

Her answer: No
I don't care what you say, you never stay friends with an ex. Seriously, think about it.

Other questions from Dating
Would you be willing to date someone who plays video games almost every day, for at least 2 hours?

Her answer: No.
Been there done that, it's a sad escape from reality. Unless it's Just Dance on Wii.

Other questions from Dating
How important is it to you that your partner smell good?

Her answer: Important-ish
As long as they don't STINK, I'm easy to please

Other questions from Dating
Have you ever been in love?

Her answer: Yes
At this very moment, my friends

Other questions from Dating
In a serious relationship, do you feel it's important to keep your significant other informed of the details of your day-to-day life?

Her answer: No
Keep a little mystery and remember, you are still 2 individuals!

Other questions from Dating
Would you ever date or mess around with a good friend's ex?

Her answer: No
"It's like, the rules of feminism," as Gretchen Weiners would say

Other questions from Dating
Would you get upset if your significant other flirted in front of you?

Her answer: No
But I would play the game too and get a little flirting in as well

Other questions from Dating
Which would you rather be?

Her answer: Weird
Anyone can be normal- it takes guts to let your freak flag fly

Other questions from Dude 101 When men show extra courtesy toward women (opening doors, pulling out chairs, etc.), this is:

Her answer: Admirable and desirable – chivalry's not dead.
Please open doors for me, whether you're my guy or a stranger.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Which of the following types of intelligence do you most value?

Her answer: Social/interpersonal
I need a guy to be portable- to fit in to different situations and stay afloat.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise

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