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The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
Duh. But, take care of yourself for yourself...

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
Or in a park? I just cannot run.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
In respectable places and NO ex-girlfriend's names. Really??

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
Self-sufficiency is always a plus.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: Anything, as long as it's not loud and messy
Whatever he likes, as long as HE is not loud and messy.

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
I love the flirty game, not the ìhard to getî game ... I want it to feel like a forbidden affair.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Cool-headed
Again, life is too short.

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
Life is too short not to.

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Over
My mom taught me that is a must.

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
Hmm… if he is single maybe a few times a week??

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: Hoes is an offensive word; don’t use it
Friends before flings… yes.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: 2 days
Why aren’t you showering?

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
If you think she’s awesome and he doesn’t I’d ask him what he thinks about you asking her out.

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
Your best friend will always be your best friend, but girlfriends may come and go…

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Ask a friend to spot you for the bill, and buy him a drink later.
It depends on how close you are with the friend…I’d get him a drink AND pay him back for dinner…

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
It’s information… no matter how stupid it is…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Hilarious
Superbad was brilliant… the rest were funny but also a bit stupid…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
Preferably books though…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
If you are not well informed i don’t really want to talk to you… sorry

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
Why not? It could be fun.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: An essential part of growing up
I recognize that I am fortunate to be able to say that…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
Only if there is no point to it…

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
Depends on how drastic the change is...

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
If you have to... no one should know...

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: First come, first served.
I don't like when men rush to the door to open it. Most of the time it feels calculated and awkward.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: If you’re under 25, ask your parents for some gift money.
It depends on how close you are with them.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: A night on the town.
Make them feel like kings... but only for one night ;)

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Not getting super drunk.
It's a shitty feeling... why set yourself up for it and then lose your entire Sunday ??

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Quality is key... and who can drink 4 drinks in a night?

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes. But they’re just using you.
If the girls are having a 'girls night,' that could be nice... but don't expect anything out of it.

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
CLUB SODA AND SALT QUICKLY!!!!

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: True
I hope it's true because I've been following that saying since high school...

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Depends what type of restaurant or club it is....

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Liquor, straight up
For some reason a 'liquor, neat' reminds me of Madmen, of a dapper Dan... and THAT is sexy.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Not really
As long as he is doing something and sustaining himself...

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
I want to be recognized for my hard work and dedication.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
As long as he is responsible with his money, I don't care.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
It lets your coworkers trust you outside of the office which is HUGE.

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Put together a list of your recent accomplishments.
You have to be able to sell yourself... WHY should they give you more?? Prove yourself!

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
Networking events as in dating events? No... Networking as a way to connect with others? Necessary.

Other questions from Success First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It shows that he thought about it... and that is ADORABLE.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
A mustache is only a failure when the guy is doing it because its 'cool' or 'trendy'...

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Stupid
I actually just don't see the point to it... but if they like it and do it well... sure?

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
As long as they fit and look good (same for women… only follow a trend if it suits you!!)

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Who cares?
I actually saw a guy wearing a navy suit with red socks and i thought it looked clever and chic.

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: In
As long as they know how to work them…

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
I don't like men who think they can get away with sweatpants and sneakers every day…

Other questions from Style How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
In person is charming, but a phone call isn't bad… facebook/texting would get an automatic 'no.'

Other questions from Dating Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: Yep!
The key word is 'date.' Marrying is a different story…

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
I think this could be done in a classy cute way or a creepy weird way… technique is everything.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: Maybe?
I would have to have the experience to believe in it…

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Funny
If a guy can't make you laugh… what's the point??

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: I don’t care
I don't care as long as they are not smaller than me… thinner than me…

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: Not a problem
Depending on age…

Other questions from Dating How long should I wait to call her back?

Her answer: Immediately
Why do men think it makes them look desperate if they call? If it was a good date, she wants you to!

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: One
If the date goes well I'd be flattered if he invited me to his place. The rest would be up to me.

Other questions from Style Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
JUST NOT RED ROSES!! Too cliche!

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
I'm more into birthday gifts and random gifts.

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yes.
Just wondering who he is sending his valentine to…

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Yup.
Don't break their heart!

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: No.
I don't like it either…but wouldn't mind if my special someone did something classy and personal.

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
Only if it is classy and you get the right size!! Be careful!!

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Creepy.
Too soon!

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
Valentine's Day is a very emotionally charged day… so that's a bit awkward for a first date.

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Fancy dinner
With lots of alcohol and all of my friends.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
Hopefully it's something thoughtful and random. The best gift is something you'd want but never buy.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
Sure?

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: Of course
Why not? It would be fun!

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
Underdress with heels... new years eve is always overrated.

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: Immediately after dating
You cannot go to their home empty handed!

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Same
I would say same, but I guess it depends on how conservative the parents are.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too big?
It'd be worse if it were too small. I'd say 'I got you my size/my brother's size, I hope it fits!'

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
Nothing is lame during the romantic holiday season!

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
Eggnogg is too much sometimes.... rum punch is more fun!

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: Your feet wash themselves.
If you don't think they are clean then clean them??

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Intensely annoying
Why are you nervous?

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It depends what they are debating about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
If she bought a blue dress already, don't tell her it's not her color.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
As long as he can pour wine, I am fine.

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
As long as I like it!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: The Departed
I like Clint Eastwood more, but the Departed was FANTASTIC until the end scene with the rat.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Use your finger
Absolutely not.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Try not to fall
I like men who dance.

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
I am a bartender and DO NOT KNOW who started this rumor!! OF COURSE YOU CAN ASK US OUT!!

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: Depends how hard you're trying to find a job
It's a tough world out there right now... just don't be lazy.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Hate it.
Iowa? The state?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: Not necessary.
Not necessary but it is nice!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: 90+ minutes.
I would be impressed if he could... no offense.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
That's what I do...

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you know how to be creative on a date.
As long as I am not paying for everything, yes!

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
This is what makes relationships fun!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
Not too much! Please!!

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Beatles
I cannot believe I just chose one over the other. BOTH classic. BOTH incredible.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Is it okay if I point out people's grammar mistakes?

Her answer: It's all in good fun
But don't be an asshole about it...

Other questions from Mr. Manners How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
Whenever you need to talk to her, call her!

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
I like garlic!

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Maybe?
Depends on how much I like you... and if I introduce the idea.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Depends... Are you getting fired or trying new things?

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
If you love your job, I would love to hear about it!

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
Do they have sexy underwear for men?? This is news to me.

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Very cute.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
The wallet tells a lot about the person...

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Depends on his style.
I wouldn't want him to tell me whether or not I should use gel... so go for it.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
When else would you need to wear them?

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
Let's not make this into something it's not... a smile and a goodbye is fine.

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
YES! This is not a one way game my friend....

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Just don't cheat.
I am friends with my exes!

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
Condoms? Whoever's apartment we go to...

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
Depends how much I like him...

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
ENJOY!! As long as I don't have to worry about what STDs you might have picked up!

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: Tell the story, call her ‘a friend.’
You can call her a friend or 'my ex' no names please!!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Tip according to service
18-20% is nice.

Other questions from Nightlife Can I leave my phone out when we're out at dinner?

Her answer: No.
I think it is rude and distracting. Keep it in your pocket. ON SILENT.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: No can do. Pens OUT of company ink.
NEVER. BUT... the flirting could be a lot of fun along the way...

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: Twenty percent less.
I don't count the ones that I am trying to forget about...

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Your hairy neck & back.
I feel bad saying that but I take care of my end... please take care of yours.

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Bigger than me.
I don't like the hipster types that wear a size 27...

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
If that is your thing... why not?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
It could be fun at any point!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
Grungy is good. Especially with a suit.

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Boxer briefs
In black!!!!!

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
What is sexual history? Like experience?

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
I'm still in school. The guys I am dating are not on Google yet.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I like a man who cooks and can take care of himself.

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 2nd
I think only kissing is... is 2nd just French Kissing?

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Somewhat
Depends on how drastic the change is...

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
If you have to... no one should know...

Other questions from Mr. Manners