Don Q LadyData
The Female Perspective

How much gym time is right for a guy?

Her answer: As much as he needs to keep up with me
Just keep lookin good and so will I

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your version of fun outdoor activities?

Her answer: Let's go jogging together!
Working out together can be extremely fun...and sparks some friendly competition.

Other questions from Dating When it comes to tattoos, what's unacceptable subject matter?

Her answer: Ex-girlfriend's name
Never put the name of someone you're dating on your body...not even your wife's.

Other questions from Style What do you think of guys who cook?

Her answer: Always a good look
Sexy...and fun to do together.

Other questions from Dating When out to dinner, what looks good on a guy's plate?

Her answer: A good, old-fashioned hamburger
I love burgers and I love taking bites off his plate!

Other questions from Dating During the courtship phase I like a guy who:

Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
You always have to play it cool.

Other questions from Dating In matters of heart a guy should be:

Her answer: Hot-blooded
I like guys who are passionate about what they believe in

Other questions from Dating When the two of you are together his eyes should be:

Her answer: Taking in the beauty of the world, me included.
As long as he's being respectful...

Other questions from Dating When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Never!
This isn’t 1989.

Other questions from Style What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
I love scruff!

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Imagine what you would look like if you were at a board meeting and you were sitting down…

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Nothing
I think it looks best…

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
people celebrate one night stands?

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
If you’ve got a forest growing…trim, baby, trim

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
What’s the point in going back…really?

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
It’s both of theirs… right?

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
I’m not the ‘stalker’ type.

Other questions from Dating When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
If the relationship isn’t serious… why ask?

Other questions from Dating Do you Google search your date before meeting up with them?

Her answer: No
Maybe I should…

Other questions from Mr. Manners Are flowers still appreciated?

Her answer: Yes.
I love when my boyfriend brings me home flowers out of the blue…it's cute!

Other questions from Dating How long before jewelry is a required gift?

Her answer: Never.
Jewelry is never required…but i'll take it if you buy some for me…

Other questions from Dating Are you still thinking about your ex on this Valentine's Day?

Her answer: No.
I'm not that pathetic.

Other questions from Dating Is it sleazy to pick up lonely single ladies on Valentine's Day?

Her answer: Nope.
if you're picking up ladies…aren't you too a lonely single?

Other questions from Dating My lady claims she doesn't care about Valentine's Day. Is this a trap?

Her answer: Yes.
Everyone wants some love on Valentine's Day!

Other questions from Dating Regarding the gift of lingerie...

Her answer: Cool.
if you've been dating for a little while…and it's classy lingerie.

Other questions from Dating We've been dating for a week, and I surprise you with a weekend get-away in the country. Is that...

Her answer: Romantic.
i think it depends…

Other questions from Dating Is Valentine's Day a good day for a first date?

Her answer: No.
Sometimes it may put out the wrong message…or be too much pressure.

Other questions from Dating What is your ideal New Year's Eve night?

Her answer: Big party
I love to party.

Other questions from Nightlife For presents, is it the thought or the value that matters?

Her answer: The thought.
The value never matters.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If you don't have a date for New Year's Eve, would you kiss a stranger?

Her answer: Why not?
If I'm single and I'm drunk enough...

Other questions from Mr. Manners Should we go to each others' office's holiday party?

Her answer: Of course
Holiday parties are so fun.

Other questions from Nightlife For the New Year's Eve party, should I overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Overdress
It's so awkward if you underdress...

Other questions from Style When do in-law gifts become a standard?

Her answer: It's never standard
If you want to get something, it makes you look WAY better... but if not...good luck.

Other questions from Mr. Manners If we go to your parents' house, should we try to sleep in the same bed or in separate ones?

Her answer: Separate
If the rules are... don't... then don't.

Other questions from Mr. Manners I'm shopping for a present, but I don't know your size. Better to go with:

Her answer: little too small?
Girls would always like to think they are smaller...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Presenting mistle-toe under which to kiss:

Her answer: Cute
If you like the girl... how cute!

Other questions from Nightlife Eggnog or rum punch?

Her answer: Rum punch
Eggnogg isn't all that good... at least I don't think.

Other questions from Nightlife Do I have to clean my feet in the shower, or do they clean themselves by the water that runs down?

Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Nothing washes itself... except you.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on fidgeting?

Her answer: Hardly a habit
I fidget.

Other questions from Dude 101 What do you think when you see two men engaged in debate?

Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
It kinda depends on what the debate is about.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does she want pleasantry, or honesty?

Her answer: Honesty
Yes!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it that a guy knows how to make a fancy cocktail?

Her answer: Not at all
Gimme a shot!

Other questions from Nightlife Who controls the music in the car?

Her answer: Full democracy
Whoever has better music.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best Scorsese movie?

Her answer: Gangs of New York
I love Leo.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Sharing of toothbrushes: okay or not okay?

Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
I do.

Other questions from Mr. Manners She starts moving toward the dance floor, what do you do?

Her answer: Show her your moves
Even if it's the 'sprinkler.'

Other questions from Dude 101 Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
They're human, aren't they?

Other questions from Nightlife Is it possible for me to ask out a bartender, barista, or waitress?

Her answer: If there's chemistry, why not?
They're human, aren't they?

Other questions from Nightlife I just lost my job. How long do I have until my girlfriend starts to get antsy?

Her answer: One month
Bounce back! For you, not necessarily for her.

Other questions from Style How do you feel about Iowa?

Her answer: Love it.
Iowa? Really.....

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Should I always ask you about your day?

Her answer: If I look like I need to talk.
It would be nice...but not mandatory.

Other questions from Mr. Manners How long can we talk about politics?

Her answer: Thirty minutes.
Talk all you want...but after a while it becomes redundant.

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're leaving. What do I do with my almost-finished beverage?

Her answer: Finish it.
Why not?

Other questions from Nightlife If I'm a starving artist, do we have a chance?

Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
Anyone could be an 'artist.' If you're good though, you shouldn't be starving...

Other questions from Success To what extent should our interests overlap?

Her answer: We should be teaching each other.
Teach and learn.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the proper cologne intensity for a guy?

Her answer: When I'm next to you.
mmmm

Other questions from Dude 101 Beatles or Stones?

Her answer: Stones
Start me up.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How often should I be talking to my mom on the phone?

Her answer: Once a week
At least...

Other questions from Dude 101 Can I eat garlic?

Her answer: Why not?
I LOVE garlic....

Other questions from Success If your dad has a sweet business, can/should you have him hook me up?

Her answer: Of course!
Why not? The economy sucks.

Other questions from Success Does having many jobs on my resume look good or bad?

Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Really... what kind of jobs are we talking about?

Other questions from Success Do you want to hear me talk about my (awesome) job?

Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Talk all you want, I'll be the judge

Other questions from Success Who should be wearing sexy underwear?

Her answer: The lady.
I always wear sexy underwear...

Other questions from Style Should I wear a blazer with my jeans?

Her answer: Sure, go for it.
Blazers are cute.

Other questions from Style Do women notice when a man has a nice wallet?

Her answer: Yes, it shows style.
A woman notices everything.

Other questions from Style When should a guy use gel in his hair?

Her answer: Never!
This isn't 1989.

Other questions from Style When are athletic socks acceptable?

Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Imagine what you would look like if you were at a board meeting and you were sitting down...

Other questions from Style How should we celebrate our one-night-stand?

Her answer: A kiss
People celebrate one night stands?

Other questions from Dating If a girl waxes, a guy should trim. True or false?

Her answer: TRUE
If you've got a forest growing...trim, baby, trim.

Other questions from Dating What's the acceptable level of ex-interaction?

Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
Really, what's the point in going back?

Other questions from Dating Who pays for contraception?

Her answer: Split
It's both of theirs...right?

Other questions from Dating How intensely do you Facebook stalk?

Her answer: The bio section is enough
I'm not the 'stalker' type.

Other questions from Dating Can I go to a strip club with my buddies?

Her answer: Only for a best friend’s bachelor party.
I'm being nice with this one....

Other questions from Mr. Manners We're telling stories. How do you feel about stories including my ex?

Her answer: If you’re thinking about her, why are we talking?
There's a reason you're not with your ex...

Other questions from Mr. Manners How much should I tip the waiter?

Her answer: Twenty percent
Duh.

Other questions from Nightlife You're my boss, and you're hot. Where can we go from here?

Her answer: If it’s mutual, one of us has to go.
Personal and private lives never mix well in the workplace, save both of you the trouble.

Other questions from Success When a girl tells you how many partners she's had, it's usually...

Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
It's the truth....

Other questions from Dude 101 What should be manscaped?

Her answer: Everything.
Would you want me to be 'all natural?'

Other questions from Dude 101 What type of body is best for a guy?

Her answer: Doesn't matter.
If it's the right guy...it really shouldnt matter. But, being cut won't kill me.

Other questions from Dude 101 Does my collection of comic books count toward my knowledge of art and culture?

Her answer: Ummm, no. Comic books are for children.
Know anything about Rousseau?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How long should you date before asking her on a weekend away?

Her answer: Doesn’t matter
If you feel it...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the sexiest kind of facial hair on a guy?

Her answer: Stubble
I love scruff!

Other questions from Style What kind of underwear is best on a guy?

Her answer: Nothing
I think it looks best.

Other questions from Style When does sexual history come up?

Her answer: Once we’re ‘serious’
If the relationship isn't serious...why ask?

Other questions from Dating Which way does toilet paper go?

Her answer: Don’t care
Huh?

Other questions from Dude 101 How frequently do you think guys look at porn?

Her answer: Once a week
For guys who clearly can't get satisfied in real life...

Other questions from Dude 101 Bros before hoes. Your thoughts?

Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
Lame.

Other questions from Dude 101 What's the maximum number of days I can wear the same underwear?

Her answer: Seriously?
Do you only have one pair?!

Other questions from Dude 101 My buddy just broke up with his (awesome) girlfriend. When can I ask her out?

Her answer: Depends
Depends on how close of friends you were...

Other questions from Dude 101 My best buddy told me a secret. Should I tell my girlfriend?

Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
If it's not necessary for me to know...then don't tell me.

Other questions from Dude 101 I'm at dinner with no cash and they don't take plastic. What now?

Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
Go to the 'bathroom.'

Other questions from Dude 101 What's your take on public broadcasting?

Her answer: Indispensable
You'd be surprised how much media is via public broadcasting...

Other questions from Worldy-Wise How do you feel about Judd Apatow?

Her answer: Offensive
Just like his wife, Leslie Mann.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What's the most important thing a guy should be reading?

Her answer: Anything at all
All of the above.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
You should get your news from various sources...don't be biased.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
You should get your news from various sources...don't be biased.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise I get all my news from Jon Stewart. Is that OK?

Her answer: Nope.
It's better than no news at all.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Going to open-mic night makes me...

Her answer: The same
It's always a fun thing to do...but nothing out of the ordinary.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Travel to a foreign country is...

Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
My best stories are from overseas!

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Does listing the places I've been make me seem pretentious?

Her answer: No
I love to know where a person's been..it says a lot about them.

Other questions from Worldy-Wise What should be in my fridge?

Her answer: Better be fully stocked
I don't want a college boy...

Other questions from Mr. Manners When it comes to PDA, which base is acceptable in public?

Her answer: 1st
Be a gentleman!

Other questions from Mr. Manners How important is it for a guy to notice your new haircut?

Her answer: Not at all
Unless it's dramatic...or he's blind

Other questions from Mr. Manners When is public flatulence OK?

Her answer: Never
If you have a legit problem...take care of it. If not...it's NOT ok.

Other questions from Mr. Manners Do I open the doors, or does she?

Her answer: You do.
I've never dated someone who doesn't open my door.

Other questions from Mr. Manners My friends are getting married and I'm broke. What should I get them?

Her answer: Offer to take them out for dinner post-honeymoon.
The dinner better be good!

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best birthday present to give to a male friend?

Her answer: Get a girl to pick something out.
You can still have a night on the town, though.

Other questions from Mr. Manners What's the best hangover cure?

Her answer: Brunch!
Brunch...or good greasy food!

Other questions from Nightlife Two good drinks or four crummy drinks?

Her answer: 2 good
Why spend more money on drinks that don't taste good?

Other questions from Nightlife Should I buy shots for the cute girls at the bar?

Her answer: Yes, it’s the nice thing to do.
I always apprecite it...

Other questions from Nightlife I've spilled red wine on myself. What do I do?

Her answer: Club soda, stat!
It really works!

Other questions from Nightlife Liquor before beer, in the clear: true or false?

Her answer: Neither
I'd rather a night-cap over a beer.

Other questions from Nightlife Is checking my coat lame or just good sense?

Her answer: No, why have the extra baggage?
Do you really want to hold on to your coat the entire night?

Other questions from Nightlife What looks best in a guy's hand?

Her answer: Shots!
I like a guy who works hard...but ast long as one shot is for me...a guy who plays harder.

Other questions from Nightlife Do you care what a guy does for a living?

Her answer: Of course
I want to know what kind of life the guy is living.

Other questions from Success Does my title matter?

Her answer: Yes
It says a lot about how driven and successful you've been.

Other questions from Success What financial level should a guy be at compared to you?

Her answer: Don’t care
I prefer someone who is equal or higher...but if you truely love someone it shouldn't matter.

Other questions from Success Drinks with coworkers: important part of getting ahead?

Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
Networking! Networking! Networking!

Other questions from Success I'm negotiating for a raise. What's my first move?

Her answer: Research! Talk to recruiters, friends, and colleagues.
Research what other companies pay their employees who are in the same field.

Other questions from Success I hate networking events. What should I do?

Her answer: Get over it! It’s a necessary evil. Talk to people.
If you truly want to be successful...networking is a must.

Other questions from Success How should I ask for a first date?

Her answer: In person
I would never go on a first date UNLESS I was asked in person.

Other questions from Dating First date: would you rather a guy overdress or underdress?

Her answer: Underdress
I think first dates should be casual.

Other questions from Style When is a mustache a fail?

Her answer: 60% of the time
It's a fail when you can't really grow one...or when it looks like you're from the 18th century.

Other questions from Style Two polos at once?

Her answer: Insane
People do this?

Other questions from Style Skinny jeans (for him): in or out?

Her answer: In
But, not too skinny. Definitely fitted.

Other questions from Style Should socks match the blazer or the slacks (if they're different colors)?

Her answer: Slacks
Think about when you sit down and how you'll look...

Other questions from Style Pointy shoes: in or out?

Her answer: Out
I'd prefer not.

Other questions from Style What's your take on guys having a sense of style?

Her answer: It’s an absolute must
A guy who can't dress is definitely a turn-off.

Other questions from Style Could you date a guy if you didn't really like his mother?

Her answer: It depends on the level of hate.
If the situation is going to make your relationship unbearable...then it's not worth it.

Other questions from Dating Asking out a stranger you see every day: weird or romantic?

Her answer: Romantic
If you're interested in someone...why not?

Other questions from Worldy-Wise Do you believe in love at first sight?

Her answer: No
I believe at LUST at first sight...but, that doesn't mean it's a bad thing...or that it couldn't lea

Other questions from Dating I prefer guys that are...

Her answer: Successful
To be successful you have to be driven...and that's definitely sexy.

Other questions from Dude 101 I like guys that are...

Her answer: Taller than me
I like feeling smaller than the guy I'm dating....it's sexy and makes me feel protected in a way.

Other questions from Dating Bald spots are...

Her answer: A turn-off
If you're going bald...maybe it's time for a shave? Lots of men are sexy with shaved heads...

Other questions from Dating How many dates before I can invite a girl up to my place?

Her answer: Three
This number can definitely change depending on the circumstances of that night...

Other questions from Style