
Renee Lucas / 30, New York, NY
A recent brunette, turned blonde, I'm still trying to figure out if I'm having more fun or not...

Traditional Cuba Libre
Her answer: I'd rather he be interesting than be a marathoner
The amount of time spent at the gym doesn't matter as long as he's taking care of himself.
Her answer: Romantic walk on the beach
Waves, sun, and sand are romantic no matter what.
Her answer: Tattoos are sexy; just make sure they're good
Steer clear of ex's names and it makes you look more edgy.
Her answer: Always a good look
Even if it doesn't turn out that great, it's the effort that counts!
Her answer: A big, hearty steak
A man who eats like a man is always sexy.
Her answer: Plays it cool, but is clear about his interest
Don't be too eager.
Her answer: Hot-blooded
You have to show some passion or the girl will become disinterested.
Her answer: Before they're 40
Be yourself for awhile...no need to rush.
Her answer: Yes.
Yes, and expected on Valentine's Day, always.
Her answer: 1 year.
First year, try a pair of earrings. They're a simple gift. She won't read into it as much as a ring.
Her answer: No.
If you are, you shouldn't be dating anyone else.
Her answer: Nope.
If she is lonely, go for it! She will enjoy the attention.
Her answer: Yes.
Everyone woman cares. Saying you don't care is just a way to feel better if you are a let down.
Her answer: Cool.
It's allowed for a Valentine's Day gift, but keep away from it on other holidays.
Her answer: Creepy.
It's too soon for any educated girl to go away with you.
Her answer: No.
It could seem too forced romanticly when you may not be ready for that yet.
Her answer: Big party
It's a night to celebrate!
Her answer: The thought.
It's nice to get a gift where you can tell he's been paying attention.
Her answer: Why not?
Done it before! It's all in good fun :)
Her answer: Of course
It's a fun time to show each other off.
Her answer: Overdress
Always overdress. You can always lie and say you came from somewhere else more fabulous.
Her answer: A few years into the relationship
Don't jump the gun on this. You should have met them a few times before gift giving.
Her answer: Same
Unless we are really religious, let's get over the modesty.
Her answer: little too small?
Don't by a LARGE, ever. Even if you think that's her size. Better off returning it after.
Her answer: Lame
It's really cheesy. Cute is one thing; cringe-worthy is quite another.
Her answer: Rum punch
There are way too many calories in eggnog. I don't even like having it around.
Her answer: C'mon. Wash your feet.
Bend over, wash up, move on.
Her answer: Intensely annoying
Makes me thing you have some sort of narcotics problem. Chill out!
Her answer: “Ooh, sexy.”
Sexy, if they are both speaking intelligently.
Her answer: Can you not be pleasant and honest?
Try a bit of both, please.
Her answer: Not at all
Scotch on the rocks is as fancy as he needs to be able to do himself.
Her answer: Full democracy
Let's both contribute!
Her answer: None of these
I like independent and foreign films, so I can't say. I've heard of Goodfellas!
Her answer: Why wouldn't it be?
For emergencies only, but try to bring your own.
Her answer: Try not to fall
Do your best. Nothing's worse than a wallflower.
Her answer: It is possible, but not recommended.
You usually just end up looking creepy.
Her answer: 3 months
It's a rough economy these days, but after three months, there should be some sort of job for you.
Her answer: Love it.
I've never been there, but they seem like nice people.
Her answer: It's mandatory, every day.
It's a nice question. I wouldn't say mandatory, but it's good to seem interested.
Her answer: Five minutes.
I never discuss this. Unless you are a politician, I don't want to hear your uninformed views.
Her answer: Finish it.
Don't waste a good thing.
Her answer: If you are TALENTED starving artist.
If you are an artist that is attempting to work then yes.
Her answer: “I can show you the world”...
I'd rather learn from you, and hope you are open to learn things from me too.
Her answer: When I'm close to you.
A spring for something moderately to highly priced. Cheap cologne is very apparent.
Her answer: Beatles
If the Beatles hadn't come first, the doors to the English music scene would have never been open.
Her answer: It's all in good fun
I'm an editor. It's a horrible habit but I try to keep it under control.
Her answer: Once a week
It's nice to check in and say hi.
Her answer: The more garlic, the better.
Garlic makes food taste amazing. Pop some gum after the meal if you're worried about it!
Her answer: Maybe?
It depends on the length of the relationship. It's certainly not something to dive into right away.
Her answer: What kind of jobs are we talking about?
Whatever helps you reach your goals is what's important.
Her answer: Let me be the judge of your awesomeness
Tell me what you do. And unless I ask additional questions, keep quiet.
Her answer: Everybody.
If we are talking first dates, it could be helpful to dress to impress.
Her answer: Sure, go for it.
It's a good way to dress up a pair of jeans.
Her answer: Nah, doesn't matter.
Doesn't matter so long as it isn't overflowing with receipts and other girl's numbers.
Her answer: Depends on his style.
Gel is a good tool if you use it wisely.
Her answer: Only when playing sports.
Please don't wear these under dress shoes!
Her answer: Let's sneak away gracefully
It was most likely a mistake; let's not celebrate.
Her answer: TRUE
No one should let themselves go!
Her answer: Keep the exes in the past.
The past is the past. Don't make it the present, or the future.
Her answer: The girl
Unless you are married, a woman should take care of this responsibility herself.
Her answer: The bio section is enough
None of the photos really make sense anyway.
Her answer: Yes, but no lap dances.
I don't even care about the lap dances. Do what you want, but come home at the end of the night.
Her answer: If you’re thinking about her, why are we talking?
Ex stories are so lame, and I could care less about any stories including her.
Her answer: Twenty percent
Even if service was poor, it's not always the waiter's fault. Swallow your pride, tip the standard.
Her answer: Yes.
It's a bad habit, but I do it too, so I can't make the rules here.
Her answer: Let’s do this, but keep it quiet.
“No need to flaunt it around the office. And there must be some maturity clause if we break up. ”
Her answer: We're all a bunch of liars.
No one's actual number ever matches up with the guess.
Her answer: Your hairy neck & back.
A little upkeep would be nice.
Her answer: Muscly and cut.
No need to go to the gym twice a day but staying in shape is good for health and attractiveness.
Her answer: Yes, it’s like understanding another universe.
It's a hobby. It's good to be passionate about something, even if it seems lame.
Her answer: Doesn’t matter
It can be the first date if everyone is adventurous!
Her answer: Stubble
This is the sexiest look, so long as it's not growing in all weird.
Her answer: Boxer briefs
Depends on the body type of course, but the boxer briefs are always sexy.
Her answer: Never
I don't ask about that so I don't expect a guy to.
Her answer: Yes
Google often produces some interesting results.
Her answer: Over
Always over!
Her answer: Daily
In some way or another, I think it's daily.
Her answer: If a guy says/thinks this, he’s an idiot
You shouldn't have to choose. If you are choosing this, then don't even have a girlfriend.
Her answer: 1 day
A little hygiene here!
Her answer: Never. It’s guy code.
That only leads to problems. Big, big problems.
Her answer: Never! Keep it in confidence.
If it's that important to him, it's probably none of your girlfriend's business.
Her answer: Get thee to an ATM after a massive apology.
It's not really attractive to show up with no money, but it's not that offensive.
Her answer: Indispensable
No harm in it.
Her answer: Hilarious
It's dirty but it's all in good fun.
Her answer: Anything at all
A mere effort to keep up with the world is good enough for me.
Her answer: Yep
It's better than no news at all.
Her answer: Less cool
I'm not into it. Seems very early '90s to me.
Her answer: A good way to have lots of great stories
Travel seems to be something that a lot of people have in common so it's nice to share.
Her answer: No
It shows me your well traveled, just don't over do it.
Her answer: Water is enough
It's ok if you haven't mastered the art of cooking yet. A good girl should teach you.
Her answer: Anything goes!
Depends on where you are!
Her answer: Somewhat
If a girl thinks a two inch trim is an earth shattering difference, you can't be held accountable.
Her answer: Never
If you do have a legitimate problem, don't go in public.
Her answer: First come, first served.
It's a nice gesture, but if you aren't even near the door yet, it's just awkward.
Her answer: A handwritten card shows that you care.
And hopefully in the future you can get them something nice. But for now, your friendship will do.
Her answer: A night on the town.
Memories are better than materialistic things.
Her answer: Water and pain relievers
Hair of the dog just makes you gross.
Her answer: 2 good
If you're up for the hangover though, then four will be fine.
Her answer: No, they’re just using you.
Most girls will take the shot and move on.
Her answer: Club soda, stat!
Will help you get the stain out later. Or at least help your dry cleaner.
Her answer: Neither
This never seemed to be an exact science to me.
Her answer: Yes, it’s lame.
Hold on to it. And hold on to my purse too if you have a spare hand.
Her answer: Liquor, straight up
A nice scotch on the rocks is always a turn on.
Her answer: Of course
Hopefully it's legal.
Her answer: No
Seems like everyone is a 'Vice President' of something these days anyway.
Her answer: Don’t care
I don't really think that two people who are dating need to discuss their personal financial status.
Her answer: Yes, it’s a must.
May be competitive or hard to deal with but acting like you are invested can lead to greater opportu
Her answer: Secure interviews at other competitive firms.
Have a back up plan before you get too hasty.
Her answer: Bring friends to make things more comfortable.
Always have a wing man.
Her answer: Phone
Phone or in person is best. Texting that early on is just impersonal and tacky.
Her answer: Overdress
Make the lady feel like you are happy to be there. So happy that you put on a nice shirt!
Her answer: 60% of the time
Again, It's all about the confidence to pull it off.
Her answer: Insane
Actually, I don't even like one polo unless he's golfing. Or, of course, playing Polo.
Her answer: Out
It's just uncomfortable looking...
Her answer: Who cares?
Sometimes you can bend the rules. So long as they look good, they match just fine.
Her answer: In
Very European!
Her answer: It’s an absolute must
For a man to be successful he must be respected. And in this society appearance is the first impress
Her answer: Yep!
I prefer to have a good relationship with the parents, but in the end it is about him and me.
Her answer: Romantic
It's sweet, but if it doesn't go well, prepare to change your daily routine. It's a risk!
Her answer: Yes
Keep your eyes open!
Her answer: Smart
Having a good head on your shoulders leads to a lot of other good qualities.
Her answer: Taller than me
It's a nice feeling to be able to wear heels.
Her answer: Not a problem
It's all about confidence!
Her answer: Two
Please have cleaned the place up a bit!
Her answer: No way. I'd know and that's all that matters.
Too much guilt, and it's hard for everything to go back to normal afterward.
Her answer: Nah. It's easier over email or text.
It's a tech-savvy world and it's a new way to communicate - break-ups and all.
Her answer: If it wasn't going to get around, sure.
It's actually a really great place to meet someone.
Her answer: 70+
If you love someone, their looks never fade.
Her answer: Yes
There is a reason it exists. It's a true commitment.
Her answer: Nope
Never had to...
Her answer: Once in a while
It's nice to see what they are up to...
Her answer: The possibility of sex
It's always on a man's mind. It's the ultimate reward.
Her answer: Probably not
It's really a woman's responsibility to do what she wants with her body.
Her answer: Guys can never be satisfied.
They can never get enough...
Her answer: There's never a time when he shouldn't
He should always offer, but a good woman will always offer as time goes on as well.
Her answer: A glass of fine Don Q Gran Añejo
Tequila - but not shots, a more mature way to enjoy it.
Her answer: Chest
It's the best place to lay.
Her answer: Of course
Hopefully not often, but it's a natural emotion.
Her answer: The opportunity to advance
One thing leads to another.
Her answer: Career
A hard working man is good to find.
Her answer: Hourly
I check in with a lot of my friends most every day.
Her answer: Guys love breasts. Even plastic ones.
I'm sure that they aren't always preferred but they are interesting to check out!
Her answer: What recession?
I've always been a wise shopper, either way.
Her answer: On the rocks
Keep it cool.
Her answer: A nice lounge with top-shelf cocktails
I like to relax with a nice, stiff drink.
Her answer: I like to mix it up and try a few different things
I get bored with the same thing all night.
Her answer: Are true connoisseurs
I like it. It shows that they put thought and effort into what they consume.
Her answer: Infusing, muddling, flaming orange peels; I love a challenging cocktail.
It's fun to have a well stocked bar with all the fixings!
Her answer: Only go when your friend is working
I avoid crowds. I like to relax, take a seat, and unwind.
Her answer: Fun
It's fun on vacation of if you're at a real party place. Otherwise it's too showy.
Her answer: Cucumber
Cool as a cucumber!
Her answer: Cucumber Mojito
So refreshing!
Her answer: Nice
I've actually had a pretty good year! No major bitchiness!
Her answer: We've never talked about it.
Get them something they will LOVE, no matter the price.
Her answer: Drag him
Oh DO NOT do that to your man. He will not like it and there is no reason you can't do it alone.
Her answer: His parents
We try to split it but, he usually gets more...
Her answer: Partying
A lot of nog to be tasted...
Her answer: Carving the turkey
I'd love my man to take charge!
Her answer: Hitting the sack
Hibernation is the key.
Her answer: Win
Give the boys a break!
Her answer: Partying
Again...the nog, the spirits, the cheer
Her answer: Somewhere new
A partner is the best person to teach you nice things.
Her answer: The next day
Whenever you meet the right next person.
Her answer: Yes, I've managed to make the transition.
It’s extremely rare...and usually one person has higher hopes.
Her answer: I'm not looking for a husband
Everyone knows you can't look! You have to just let it happen.
Her answer: I don't share that info on Facebook
Unless you are married, keep it simple.
Her answer: We don't even need to have met
I've taken a stranger before, and it was a blast!
Her answer: Not that important
Not so important early on, but it's something to discuss in the future.
Her answer: Not that important
Here's what Don't Ask Don't Tell could actually be appropriate.
Her answer: Not
Immature after age 21.
Her answer: Nope. I have my own style.
No. Way.
Her answer: Mark Sanchez
So sexy. I don't even care about his performance on the field.
Her answer: Bassist
Usually the intellectual one of the group
Her answer: Spicy
Go crazy, I can take it.
Her answer: If it had serious potential.
It's the person that's important, not the place.
Her answer: No way. Too much baggage there.
I hate saying "never" but it's not something I'd want to take on.
Her answer: He can play with his joystick alone
I'll watch, but not participate.
Her answer: Yes. He's got style, and I dig that.
I love a man with style!
Her answer: I draw the line at pocket protectors
Don't go too far.
Her answer: I don't watch it
Sorry...this is too cheesy.
Her answer: Funny
Learn to take a joke.
Her answer: Meet me at the subway station
Again, I'm a NY girl. This would be great.
Her answer: Peggy
Love those boobs!
Her answer: Don
So mysterious. So handsome.
Her answer: NY Style
I'm from NY!
Her answer: Hard shell
Crunch!
Her answer: Rock
Rock and Roll!
Her answer: 70s
I love Disco!
Her answer: Eric
Eric is a dream.
Her answer: Awesome idea!
Fun! If the guys sucks at least you saw a cool band.
Her answer: Start-up
Be creative. It could pay off.
Her answer: Love
Love. Money can't be your best friend.
Her answer: Around the world
I've done it before, I'd do it again.
Her answer: Rolls
And bring extra wasabi.
Her answer: Can of soup
If he can't cook, then we get to go out more.
Her answer: He can fix it
Works well with his hands.
Her answer: Separate the paper from the plastic
Try your best but don't go crazy.